[trancehead]

Long story short: girl is as dry as a desert. even with lots of foreplay

What water based lubes do you prefer? (Im going with water as I dont want an oily mess everywhere on my bed)

[LC21]

Girl isn't turned on. Move on.

[zilley]

LOL.

[SkinnyPupp]

PLAY GEL | TENGA Official Site (http://www.tenga-global.com/products/warmer/play_gel.php)

[Pegacorn]

Not sure what "lots of foreplay" entails, but lots of oral generally does the trick if you're doing it the way she likes it (it's okay to ask for pointers). Some people are just really dry in general for various reasons and there's not much you can do. For cheap lubes, Wet water based is good and usually easy to find at drug stores and sex shops. On the higher end, here's a link to a bunch: Sex Lubes & Lubricants Canada | Ohhh Canada (http://www.ohhhcanada.ca/collections/sex-lubes-lubricants) My friend owns the business and hand picks all of the products, usually after testing them first.

[trancehead]

Girl isn't turned on. Move on.

lol. dont blame you. easy shot

anyways, that night i luckily scrabmeld into London Drugs just 20 minutes before closing and got astroglide
http://www.cvs.com/bizcontent/merchandising/productimages/large/1559401103.jpg
(something like that)

thank u to SkinnyPupp and Pegacorn for the links. i will venture out and try some other ones

This astroglide was actually the first ever lube ive had to buy (never came across a girl this dry ever, shes got some nike dry-fit technology down there). but now i figure its always good to have arsenal stocked anyways

Pegacorn: i agree, oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha

[bcedhk]

Girl isn't turned on. Move on.

http://www.lostlettermen.com/files/images/uploads/slideshow/5-Indiana-Hold-Me-Back.gif Burrrn

[EmperorIS]

Bang her in front of a humidifer

http://static.fjcdn.com/gifs/Humidifier_804081_5046423.gif

[lowside67]

Pegacorn: i agree, oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha
:suspicious:

Getting her turned on is worth it for more reasons than not having to deal with lube... for me, the most powerful reason is the simple realization that if she truly enjoys sex as much as you do, it really evens the balance of power in the relationship...

[6793026]

best tip i have is to go to a good story and get a sample pack.

get a pack with 5 diff. bottle size + few sample size ones.

1) gives you a chance to be playful and try
2) girls finds it much more fun when they actually LIKE the lube
3) you don't have to buy a tube and then realize the girl doesn't like the scent or the color etc.

[320icar]

Pegacorn: i agree, oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha

u wot m8?

[SkinnyPupp]

oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha

:seriously: what?

[Pegacorn]

Pegacorn: i agree, oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha

I think we found the problem.

[NKC ONE]

WTF lol. If you don't go down on girls before you're married then you def won't go down on her after you're married. And how can you agree that oral can make a girl go wild when you obviously have never done it.

[trancehead]

lol
to clarify: she is a fuck buddy

[320icar]

okay sure, she is friends with benefits, but that dont mean you fuck em and chuck em. she's there for the same reason you are buddy.

do your manly duty and tongue punch her fartbox

[SkinnyPupp]

If a chick is too dirty to go down on, I would think she's too dirty to stick your dick in her.. eww

[Vansterdam]

http://i.imgur.com/c7gAmus.gif

[MindBomber]

lol
to clarify: she is a fuck buddy

whether they be a fuck buddy or a partner, I always go down.

I don't know how purely personally gratifying fucking would be fun for you, that's barely a step above masturbation..

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

maybe your fuck buddy is a post op tranny...

just maybe... :hotbaby:

[Pegacorn]

I'm surprised that you're open minded enough to have a fuckbuddy and yet so closed minded that you think oral sex should be reserved for marriage. Question, does she give you blowjobs? If the answer is yes, return the favour. If the answer is that she thinks blowjobs should be reserved for marriage, then you've found your ideal fuckbuddy match.

[Spidey]

lol.. when OP said lots of foreplay, he meant on him....

[SkinnyPupp]

I think for OP foreplay means that he spits on his hand and wipes it on his dick. I can't imagine how that doesn't turn on any girl to the point where her panties are soaked

[Qmx323]

i agree, oral can make a girl go wild. but i probably wont be doing it for a while unless the girl is my wife haha

Thats actually a legit concern but at least offer it :)

[Mr.Money]

lol. dont blame you. easy shot

anyways, that night i luckily scrabmeld into London Drugs just 20 minutes before closing and got astroglide
http://www.cvs.com/bizcontent/merchandising/productimages/large/1559401103.jpg
(something like that)

thank u to SkinnyPupp and Pegacorn for the links. i will venture out and try some other ones

This astroglide was actually the first ever lube ive had to buy (never came across a girl this dry ever, shes got some nike dry-fit technology down there). but now i figure its always good to have arsenal stocked anyways



Honestly that's the best one...don't keep reapplying if it seems to dry and go sticky...keep a class of water and add a drip or two of water and it's brand new again.....i have a bottle and it lasts me LONG TIME this method.

[trancehead]

wow quite the number of people jumping the gun. or maybe just my unclear words. maybe a combination of both ( ill take blame too, no worries.)

ill clarify again:

upon meeting new girls, not gonna go down unless u trust her box.

test/trust first, then go unbox the box

The marriage comment: maybe a little exaggerated.
Point is -> not going to have a stable/long term for a while, so not taking the risk now on new girls i meet.

Another point:
Eating her out is not the only way to warm her up/satisfy. If this is your only option, well you need some more arsenals in your war chest.

Stick your fingers in and play the fiddle. thats just one weapon for example

I think for OP foreplay means that he spits on his hand and wipes it on his dick. I can't imagine how that doesn't turn on any girl to the point where her panties are soaked

No

lol.. when OP said lots of foreplay, he meant on him....

No

maybe your fuck buddy is a post op tranny...

just maybe... :hotbaby:

Not thailand

whether they be a fuck buddy or a partner, I always go down.

I don't know how purely personally gratifying fucking would be fun for you, that's barely a step above masturbation..

But you would agree to ensure they are clean before going down?

On your latter point: So you are saying, if you are sticking your dick in without having gone down on the girl at all, then thats not enjoyful for you at all? Absolutely not?

Maybe that is your thing (and that is fine with me, i used to eat girls out all the time), but i would not assume that everyone mandatorily needs to get off on eating out.

Mindbomber 99% of the time you have insightful posts, but this is one where i dont agree with you.

If a chick is too dirty to go down on, I would think she's too dirty to stick your dick in her.. eww

Test/trust first as mentioned. Not going diving without scuba gear. And yes wrap up.

okay sure, she is friends with benefits, but that dont mean you fuck em and chuck em. she's there for the same reason you are buddy.

do your manly duty and tongue punch her fartbox

No where did i mention fuck and chuck.

terms are to be left on a good note as much as possible, as with anyone in general


I do of course thank the people who suggested lubes

So to reiterate, here is a logic statement (for those who have taken philosophy courses, logic courses, etc)

< false >IF and ONLY IF a girl has her pussy licked during sex, only then will she be turned on. < / false >

[320icar]

Lol at response. Insecure much

[trancehead]

Lol at response. Insecure much

insecurity? where? the part where i asked a 'shoot me with a target on my back' question initially?

lol obviously one is gonna get nailed asking a question like that, but whatever, that didnt matter at the time. i needed some lube asap.

keep taking cheap shots

[SkinnyPupp]

http://i.imgur.com/WNGphyp.gif

[multicartual]

One of the last smoking hot babes I boned had the wettest pussy I have ever touched the first time I fingered her, it was insane


I had an ex gf who was on a strict diet and she was turned on but her vag was drier than dust in a tomb. It happens :/


Don't use anything but the JO lube you can get on Granville, all of the flavoured ones will cause skin peeling if you use it a lot

[trancehead]

is your ex in her late 20's +?

or is that dryness from her strict diet

lol and definitely dont want skin peeling

[Ri2]

durex play is aite, mostly use it more for the guy tho. not too sure what most girls like, me and my friends dont have this problem (we call it high and dry) lol. i hate WET brand lube that's all i have to say and anything flavored, yuck.

[stewie]

i use trojan - arouse and release lube.

i believe its water based, but i dont use it for foreplay...

if your cheap and need it asap while youve already started, run to the kitchen, olive oil/vegetable oil is in pretty much every persons house and its completely safe to use for jerkin off, sex, anal, goin down on a girl etc

[z3german]

Astroglide for sure.

I highly reccomend you try out Astroglide X
Amazon.com: Astroglide Personal Lubricant, X Premium Silicone, 2.5-Ounce Bottle: Health & Personal Care (http://www.amazon.com/Astroglide-Personal-Lubricant-Silicone-2-5-Ounce/dp/B002DUDJWG)

THAT SHIT IS THE BOMB. Doesnt leave a weird sticky feeling on your skin after (All water based lubes ive used are like this) and it leaves your dick and her kitty cats skin feeling nice and smooth after its dried out. Its like lotion after its pretty awesome.

[multicartual]

is your ex in her late 20's +?

or is that dryness from her strict diet

lol and definitely dont want skin peeling


She was 22 at the time


I've posted a pic of her huge booty in a thong before, she had such a fine ass and BIG thigh gap

[yuusha]

She was 22 at the time


I've posted a pic of her huge booty in a thong before, she had such a fine ass and BIG thigh gap

Need to examine that photo before I can give the right advice. :)

Serious though that tip about using Astroglide and getting a bit of water when it's dry is great.

Also, if you can get your girl to squirt, I find that's plenty of lubrication.

[320icar]

But If she does squirt, make sure not to get it in the eye. I did and it looked like i lost to Ali

[SkinnyPupp]

But If she does squirt, make sure not to get it in the eye. I did and it looked like i lost to Ali
Is this your gf? :lawl:

http://edgeofthefringe.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/00801-mpls_snapshot_01-16-32_2013-02-11_17-37-41.jpg