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What do you consider an "appropriate" age gap when dating? How old are you and S.O.?
doritos
07-31-2014, 01:46 AM
Hi peeps, conducting for research and also curious myself wondering, how old are you and the person you are dating and what do you consider the age limit for yourselves when dating someone? Is age just a number to you or is it okay as long as they have the mature mindset that is compatible with yours?
I am 27 dating 24 year old.
this has already been discussed:
youngest for men is:
divide by 2, plus 7
oldest for women is:
minus 7, multiply by 2
you're 27 (an idiot 27 at that, shocking how old you are given your retard posts), so divide by 2 is 13 (round to your benefit), plus 7 = 20. you're good
she is 24, minus 7 is 17, times 2 = 34. she's good (by definition, as you're good)
Presto
07-31-2014, 06:49 AM
I am 27 dating 24 year old.
If this was elementary school and you were in grade 4, then you'd be dating a grade 1, or possibly kindergarten! You're a sick, sick man.
:nono:
H.Specter
07-31-2014, 06:55 AM
the older i get, the slower i drove through school zones nomsayin'
doritos is 27
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hud 91gt
07-31-2014, 07:03 AM
It's been a safe rule in my experiences. Everytime you hit the borders of the rule, you know your pushing the creepy man envelope.
murd0c
07-31-2014, 07:12 AM
I'm 32 and I have dated a 23 year old, I have also dated a 35 year old. When you get to a certain age the age of someone you date doesn't matter. You have to more like focus on the way you connect/get along with them rather then how old they are.
evlee
07-31-2014, 07:22 AM
me 35 -> gf 22, her friends call me by the name of "ham sup lo" at first it sounded like they were calling me handsome.. took me awhile to find that out lol.
smoothie.
07-31-2014, 07:24 AM
When I'm 50 I hope to have a 18 year old
Daughter that is responsible.
meme405
07-31-2014, 07:27 AM
me 35 -> gf 22, her friends call me by the name of "ham sup lo" at first it sounded like they were calling me handsome.. took me awhile to find that out lol.
The formula isn't working out...:whistle:
H.Specter
07-31-2014, 07:36 AM
me 35 -> gf 22, her friends call me by the name of "ham sup lo" at first it sounded like they were calling me handsome.. took me awhile to find that out lol.
lol get someone in your own league brah.
BrRsn
07-31-2014, 08:22 AM
High School Girls - Dazed and Confused (9/12) Movie CLIP (1993) HD - YouTube
"that's what I love about these high-school girls man ....... I get older, and they stay the same age"
huehue
keifun
07-31-2014, 08:43 AM
i'm 29, my fiance, she is 32. It's all good for us, no problems.
320icar
07-31-2014, 08:55 AM
I'm 25 my gf is 35
I'm 32 and I have dated a 23 year old, I have also dated a 35 year old. When you get to a certain age the age of someone you date doesn't matter. You have to more like focus on the way you connect/get along with them rather then how old they are.
it'd have to be one hell of a mature 23 year old for me to date them at my current old man age of 31. mind you, i'm 61 in my mind, 31 is just my chronological age, i guess i could find a 23 year old with the mind of a 50 year old - we'd be almost as perfect as me and my better half are (she 29, extremely age appropriate and maturity/life desires and goals appropriate - something that gets way more important as you age)
Lomac
07-31-2014, 09:25 AM
Age is just a man made number :troll:
I dated a 20 and 21 year old when I was 29 and 30, respectively. I also dated a 30 year old when I was 26. Otherwise the rest have all been roughly my own age, +/- 2 years. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some very mature early 20's. It just depends on the person. That said, I wouldn't go out of my way to date someone that young again unless it was simply a casual thing.
As for what's acceptable, who cares. So long as you both have a connection and enjoy each other's company, what's the problem? So long as it's within the realms of legality, that is.
And when did Off Topic become the Relationship Forum...?
westopher
07-31-2014, 10:09 AM
Im 29, my wife is 25. We started dating when I was 25 and she was 21. I was immature at the time, so it worked out quite well.
hchang
07-31-2014, 10:19 AM
I'm 25 my gf is 35
Respect
got the same age gap as OP, similar ages, even though it seems were generations apart at times, lol. Makes for fun conversation.
I don't understand why the OP got failed for this thread though, it's a topic that makes sense.
Edit: maybe in the wrong subforum.
multicartual
07-31-2014, 10:29 AM
I'm 36 and my current girlfriend is 48
Usually I'm banging chicks in their early-mid 20's and I had a huge collection of panties at my house and nice photos on my computer
Recently I decided I want to build wealth instead of blow it, pun intended, so I started dating a wealthy jewish princess
Wonderful learning experience and what an amazing woman
multicartual
07-31-2014, 10:31 AM
me 35 -> gf 22, her friends call me by the name of "ham sup lo" at first it sounded like they were calling me handsome.. took me awhile to find that out lol.
Women in their early 20's have nothing to talk about
Recently I decided I want to build wealth instead of blow it,
i'm sorry, what? multicartual wanting to build wealth?! has hell frozen over?
BrRsn
07-31-2014, 10:35 AM
Women in their early 20's have nothing to talk about
oh no, you get to stay up-to-date with all the high-school style banter/gossip :heckno:
hchang
07-31-2014, 10:39 AM
got the same age gap as OP, similar ages, even though it seems were generations apart at times, lol. Makes for fun conversation.
I don't understand why the OP got failed for this thread though, it's a topic that makes sense.
Edit: maybe in the wrong subforum.
If you need approval from strangers on who to date and who not to date you got problems
multicartual
07-31-2014, 10:40 AM
i'm sorry, what? multicartual wanting to build wealth?! has hell frozen over?
Ya I know guys in the porn biz with 10+ mil in the bank and nothing to do all day but drive their Ferraris and fuck supermodels
Why am I not doing that???
murd0c
07-31-2014, 10:42 AM
Thank you Hotjoint for my 10,000th thanks... I'm proud of that number!!!
multicartual
07-31-2014, 10:44 AM
If you need approval from strangers on who to date and who not to date you got problems
Whoa... we have societal rules that apply to all of us. You see it every day when you see couples.
1. Very rare to see a girl taller and the dude
2. Even more rare to see a jacked dude with a fat chick
3. Even more ridiculously rare to see a hot chick with a broke dude
4. Impossibly rare to see a fat, bald, short guy with a beautiful woman
Whether you want to admit it or not, we follow unconscious rules about dating and attraction.
Mike Oxbig
07-31-2014, 10:52 AM
Whoa... we have societal rules that apply to all of us. You see it every day when you see couples.
1. Very rare to see a girl taller and the dude
2. Even more rare to see a jacked dude with a fat chick
3. Even more ridiculously rare to see a hot chick with a broke dude
4. Impossibly rare to see a fat, bald, short guy with a beautiful woman
Whether you want to admit it or not, we follow unconscious rules about dating and attraction.
1.looks a mother dragging the child when holding hands
2.this is common with black dudes (they <3 PAWG)
3.social proof/status is sorta a big deal at a young age to some hoes
4.suga daddy
EmperorIS
07-31-2014, 11:04 AM
I only date pregnant chicks. They are so vulnerable and will do anything to keep your love. Plus they get really big feet.
hchang
07-31-2014, 11:15 AM
Ya I know guys in the porn biz with 10+ mil in the bank and nothing to do all day but drive their Ferraris and fuck supermodels
Why am I not doing that???
That kinda lifestyle might seem glamorous at first but it'll only leave you feeling empty inside after it's ran its course. Plus, you can't be in the porn business your whole life unless you start your own biz after like Jenna Jameson or Ron Jermey
I have a friend who's a longshoreman, sure he doesn't have 10 mil in the bank and be fucking supermodels everyday but he definetly makes well above the average Canadian income.
Not married, no kids. In his 40s. Says if he could re do life he would.
JayEch
07-31-2014, 11:24 AM
You know what I like about high school girls? I keep getting older, while they always stay the same. Giggity
Ulic Qel-Droma
07-31-2014, 11:43 AM
If it's legal, it's okay.
I believe in canada, 16 is okay. lol.
you just cant have anal sex till 18 for some reason. nor can u film it till they're 18.
hotjoint
07-31-2014, 12:13 PM
Thank you Hotjoint for my 10,000th thanks... I'm proud of that number!!!
Nice :thumbsup:
haymura
07-31-2014, 12:21 PM
You know what they say... "if there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!!"
will068
07-31-2014, 12:43 PM
That kinda lifestyle might seem glamorous at first but it'll only leave you feeling empty inside after it's ran its course. Plus, you can't be in the porn business your whole life unless you start your own biz after like Jenna Jameson or Ron Jermey
I have a friend who's a longshoreman, sure he doesn't have 10 mil in the bank and be fucking supermodels everyday but he definetly makes well above the average Canadian income.
Not married, no kids. In his 40s. Says if he could re do life he would.
I notice this with older males at the office. Mid level managers - single - just longing for gf / wife. Sure they make a lot. But the mentality to just go out there and live life is lacking. No woman will be attracted to that.
murd0c
07-31-2014, 12:53 PM
You know what they say... "if there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!!"
Just watch out for the ruff :heckno:
Grass on the field, play ball?
will068
07-31-2014, 01:45 PM
You know what they say... "if there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!!"
If there's no grass in the field, you play in the dirt.....
underscore
07-31-2014, 01:56 PM
I'm 25 and le gf is 23 (24 in a couple months).
As a side note wtf is this shit when did I turn 25?
hchang
07-31-2014, 02:05 PM
Grass on the field, play ball?
Old enough to count old enough to mount
freakshow
07-31-2014, 03:10 PM
Old enough to count old enough to mount
:heckno:
320icar
07-31-2014, 03:10 PM
As far as I'm concerned it's a not very useful discusdion. If you love them and they make you happy, age doesn't come into play. Everyone has quirks and faults regardless of age and maturity. If you can move past those then lock that shit down, son
RecklessNS
07-31-2014, 03:29 PM
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EmperorIS
07-31-2014, 03:32 PM
News Reporter Fired For Saying He Would FucK Missing Woman If They Ever Found Her - YouTube
Bouncing Bettys
07-31-2014, 03:44 PM
I was 32 and she was 20 when we started dating. She was completely off my radar given the age gap, people telling me she was engaged (she wasn't any longer), and generally in the looks department I thought she was out of my league (I lack self confience). Turns out she thought I was out of her league, but she worked up the courage and asked me out. Because I considered her off my radar, I was more able to be myself around her rather than the bumbling idiot I usually am with women. I got to know her and found she was mature/wise beyond her years so when she did ask me out, the age thing was really not an issue and still isn't for the most part. There are certainly times when she shows her young age and vise versa my older age, but we usually get a good laugh out of it.
bloodmack
07-31-2014, 04:00 PM
I don't date based on age.. I date based on personality. She could be 17 and more mature than a 30 year old.. I'd date it. I'm 25.
twitchyzero
07-31-2014, 04:25 PM
I'm 25 my gf is 35
good for you..i don't see a whole lot of women that date younger than a few years old.
is it pretty casual or serious? Generally 35YO females instinctly wanna lock something down.
You know what they say... "if there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!!"
Isn't it mow it?
Play ball as in hit it?
..............I see, said the blind man.
320icar
07-31-2014, 06:28 PM
good for you..i don't see a whole lot of women that date younger than a few years old.
is it pretty casual or serious? Generally 35YO females instinctly wanna lock something down.
We live together currently. We were co workers for 2-3 years and I've loved her since I first met her :p she on the other hand didn't really like the age gap. She was so out of my league that i never figured I'd have a chance so we were just friends. Last year we started hanging out, which eventually turned into her coming over like. 4x a week to watch true blood or wtv. I guess that's when she realized the age diffrrence was a moot point. And I nutted up one night and kissed her. The rest was history
We live together currently. We were co workers for 2-3 years and I've loved her since I first met her :p she on the other hand didn't really like the age gap. She was so out of my league that i never figured I'd have a chance so we were just friends. Last year we started hanging out, which eventually turned into her coming over like. 4x a week to watch true blood or wtv. I guess that's when she realized the age diffrrence was a moot point. And I nutted up one night and kissed her. The rest was history
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Gh0stRider
07-31-2014, 08:23 PM
If it's legal, it's okay.
I believe in canada, 16 is okay. lol.
you just cant have anal sex till 18 for some reason. nor can u film it till they're 18.
yes....16 lol
Gumby
07-31-2014, 10:01 PM
I am 4 days older than my wife.
hud 91gt
07-31-2014, 10:36 PM
I dated a 34 y/o for 2 year's when I was 24. She was immature, I was a mature 24. Great relationship. Hitting the border of the magic rule. It was great. Sex was awesome. Interesting/smart and great life experiences, but unless I was ready to jump into things head first, a woman in their mid thirties is getting antsy.
The other way around, if a guy doesn't care about a chick who has nothing to talk about but her University days, or perhaps her trip to Thailand riding an elephant, i'm sure you'll get along great :p
For now, i'll stick to a couple years younger then my own age.
Mike Oxbig
07-31-2014, 11:10 PM
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jayare604 is that you?
XplicitLuder
07-31-2014, 11:25 PM
started dating gf when she was 16 and i was 19, lolwin shes turning 20 in sept and ill be turning 23 in dec
twitchyzero
08-01-2014, 12:43 AM
started dating gf when she was 16 and i was 19, lolwin shes turning 20 in sept and ill be turning 23 in dec
PS3 Gamertag: bmello1989
:suspicious:
freakshow
08-01-2014, 12:02 PM
^ Maybe 1989 was just his favourite year.. :badpokerface:
quasi
08-01-2014, 12:34 PM
My wife was 18 when we started dating I was 22, I'm going to be 39 this year how the time flies.
Presto
08-01-2014, 01:00 PM
I'm going to be 39 this year how the time flies.
I was about to say that's old, but then I realized I'm 36 in a few months :pokerface:
I am 4 days older than my wife.
you cradle robber, you.
Liquid_o2
08-01-2014, 04:23 PM
I'm 30, gf is 23. No major problems so far since she is pretty mature for her age. Only issue so far is that I've been working for a while and she is still in school. But she knows what she wants to do in life and is almost there so we will be in the same position soon.
Z3guy
08-01-2014, 05:17 PM
Whoa... we have societal rules that apply to all of us. You see it every day when you see couples.
1. Very rare to see a girl taller and the dude
2. Even more rare to see a jacked dude with a fat chick
3. Even more ridiculously rare to see a hot chick with a broke dude
4. Impossibly rare to see a fat, bald, short guy with a beautiful woman
Whether you want to admit it or not, we follow unconscious rules about dating and attraction.
what? I see fat bald, short guys and 80lbs weird looking honger dudes with the hottest chicks all the time, what must be the appeal? hmmmmmmm
Yodamaster
08-01-2014, 05:29 PM
18-22 Two years, either side.
23-28 Three years younger <> 30's.
29-35 Four years younger <> doesn't matter.
Roughly, that's what most of my friends and I stick to. To be honest, a guy in his 30's with a 20 year old girlfriend is fucking creepy, there are a few exceptions, though I find them to be rare.
mr_chin
08-01-2014, 07:46 PM
my rule of thumb is
no less than 2 sandwiches a day
a full load of laundry
and a selection of clean plates and utensils.
NKC ONE
08-02-2014, 02:11 AM
Mine was born on the same year, same day, same hour, and same second as me. I call her le Lefty.
jk i'm married and she's 8 months younger but le lefty and I are still really close. We've reconnected our need for each other since my wife's pregnancy. Le lefty never disappoints.
twitchyzero
08-02-2014, 08:34 AM
To be honest, a guy in his 30's with a 20 year old girlfriend is fucking creepy, there are a few exceptions, though I find them to be rare.
no offense to anyone dating someone significantly younger but you're writing this on a site that had an asian jailbait thread with too much traffic that mods had to close it down :grinno:
XplicitLuder
08-02-2014, 12:14 PM
:suspicious:
LOL. gf's brother ps3 is still in their house and i play on it :D
multicartual
08-02-2014, 05:15 PM
Dating younger women is easier because you don't need to be responsible, you just have to be the dancing monkey that entertains them and strokes their egos
EuterVanWasser
08-02-2014, 05:38 PM
Started dating my wife when I was in my mid 20s.. she's 4 years older than me - personally I've always found older women with their shit together more attractive than younger girls.
Ronin
08-03-2014, 10:04 PM
Roughly, that's what most of my friends and I stick to. To be honest, a guy in his 30's with a 20 year old girlfriend is fucking creepy, there are a few exceptions, though I find them to be rare.
:badpokerface:
Does it help if I don't look much older than 25?
Ulic Qel-Droma
08-03-2014, 11:55 PM
Dating younger women is easier because you don't need to be responsible, you just have to be the dancing monkey that entertains them and strokes their egos
yes precisely. after all, the most worshipped people on this planet, celebrities, are just very fancy versions of jesters and clowns. we live in a society that worships these things. entertainers. everyone wants to be an entertainer!
if you control the mood of a situation, you control the situation.
https://lostonplanetchina.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/dancing-monkey1.jpg
monkey controls you!
Mr.Money
08-04-2014, 09:48 PM
holy fuck there's rules?. :troll:
Tapioca
08-05-2014, 09:40 AM
I have a friend who's a longshoreman, sure he doesn't have 10 mil in the bank and be fucking supermodels everyday but he definetly makes well above the average Canadian income.
Not married, no kids. In his 40s. Says if he could re do life he would.
He's not doing it right. No woman wants to date a guy who works weird hours (can't travel with him if he does), is out of shape (most likely if he works weird hours and doesn't eat well), and works with people who probably don't read books for fun.
Harvey Specter
08-05-2014, 03:09 PM
I'm 33 and my GF is turning 47. Age is nothing but a number.
mk1freak
08-05-2014, 03:44 PM
hmm let's see:
Family of 6 = check
first set of twins =1 bday to remember
second set of twins = 1 bday to remember
SO >>same year and day of birth = 1 bday to remember
only having to remember 3 bdays in a year = priceless :fullofwin:
oh im older by about 4 hours :fuckyea:
mr_chin
08-05-2014, 06:39 PM
hmm let's see:
Family of 6 = check
first set of twins =1 bday to remember
second set of twins = 1 bday to remember
SO >>same year and day of birth = 1 bday to remember
only having to remember 3 bdays in a year = priceless :fullofwin:
oh im older by about 4 hours :fuckyea:
you don't have friends? uncles? aunts? niece? nephews? or any other family in your life?
:troll:
Mancini
08-05-2014, 08:28 PM
Divide by 2.
Add 7.
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