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: UBC students pissed off re: pickup artist on campus


Acura604
09-19-2016, 06:56 AM
lol, what is the story on this guy? trying to teach losers how to pick up chicks ? holy crap.... where do these idiots come from?!!!!

hilarious.

https://vimeo.com/150539697

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Anger erupts online after 'pick-up artist' tours UBC campus - NEWS 1130 (http://www.news1130.com/2016/09/19/anger-erupts-online-after-pick-up-artist-tours-ubc-campus/)

VANCOUVER (NEWS 1130) – Women are lashing out at UBC, saying the school did not do enough to protect students from a notorious self-acclaimed ‘pick-up artist’ who was on campus last week.
The man in question is Jan Huang who claims to make a living by trying to pick up women and to coach others to do the same.

Many students, who were offended that he was on campus, took to social media to voice their anger.
The university says it’s aware Huang was at the school, but that he did nothing wrong and didn’t violate any of the school’s policies. However, it encouraged students to make a formal complaint with campus security.
This comes at a time as an expert panel calls for sweeping changes to UBC’s approach to dealing with sexual assaults, after survivors on campus told members they lacked faith in the system.

The panel is pushing for new disciplinary processes for students and faculty accused of sexual violence, clear timeframes for handling complaints and a central office to co-ordinate an immediate response, this is according to a recent report.

The university decided to create a standalone sex assault policy after allegations it mishandled multiple complaints about a male PhD student. A separate committee wrote a draft sexual assault policy that was released in June. Public consultations on the policy will now be extended so the panel’s recommendations can be considered.

The panel repeatedly heard there was a “general mistrust” of UBC’s approach and that the university had failed to demonstrate accountability, causing some students to feel they had no choice but to go to the media, the report says.


looks like the biggest loser of all time
http://www.vancitybuzz.com/2015/03/pick-up-artist-video-interview-robson-street/

Jan used to be a shy, introverted person, and in college he decided to change that. So he began studying pick up techniques and approaching thousands of women and men to gain self-confidence and be more comfortable socially. Two years ago he began having more success. He would meet a girl at a nightclub and take her home that night. His friends began to notice and ask for tips. He eventually decided to create a business based on sharing his skill set.

What is the target for a client, how many women are they supposed to approach?:

I don’t have a target number because I don’t want to objectify women, that’s not what I teach. I try to get them to approach as many women as possible, but these are socially awkward guys dealing with social anxiety, they don’t want to approach lots of women.

Two students two days in a row approached Nicole and wouldn’t take no for an answer. She was very clear, and two days in a row different students didn’t respect this.:

One of things for these guys is to be aware that they f—ed up and why, so they don’t do it again. For Nicole’s incident I was aware that she was pissed off but I wasn’t able to stop it in time. But I told him (the student) afterwards ‘you’re too aggressive you pissed a girl off, that’s not how you pick up women.’

It seems that you’re teaching your students not to take no for an answer.:

I don’t agree with that at all. I honestly didn’t recognize that I’d approached her (Nicole) in the past. We have so many interactions and see so many faces that we don’t actually remember who we’ve approached. When I go out right now on any given night at least 3 girls I talk to will say that I’ve approached them before. And I’ll excuse myself and walk away, or I’ll just keep talking.



NEED to get CREEP CATCHERS on this guy hahaha.

flagella
09-19-2016, 07:55 AM
I stopped when I saw his hair.

320icar
09-19-2016, 07:56 AM
Do women not know they can just say "no"? Lol.

Is he a criminal serial rapist? Or just an asshole. I bet you there are a lot of assholes who go to UBC. Or hell, just live in Vancouver. You're entire fucking life can't be a safe space.

Not condoning this loser, but sometime people gotta put their adult pants on and adult

the university says it’s aware Huang was at the school, but that he did nothing wrong and didn’t violate any of the school’s policies

spideyv2
09-19-2016, 09:13 AM
Do women not know they can just say "no"? Lol.

Is he a criminal serial rapist? Or just an asshole. I bet you there are a lot of assholes who go to UBC. Or hell, just live in Vancouver. You're entire fucking life can't be a safe space.

Not condoning this loser, but sometime people gotta put their adult pants on and adult

From what I've read, the issue is him and his clients continuing to pursue females who have already said "no"

Infiniti
09-19-2016, 09:39 AM
Might as well tell the clients of this guy to join the UBC swim team

Armind
09-19-2016, 09:41 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw

GLOW
09-19-2016, 09:44 AM
say "no"...guy refuses and aggressively pursues you...if you feel unsafe why not just call ubc security? at that point it must be ended no?

Mr.HappySilp
09-19-2016, 10:02 AM
Do women not know they can just say "no"? Lol.

Is he a criminal serial rapist? Or just an asshole. I bet you there are a lot of assholes who go to UBC. Or hell, just live in Vancouver. You're entire fucking life can't be a safe space.

Not condoning this loser, but sometime people gotta put their adult pants on and adult

iF THE LADY SAID NO AND they still go after her, she should be allow to kick them in the balls with steel toe boots and then step on his balls with high heels. Or she could scream really loud "Help!" Once that's done you will never see him on UBC campus lol. Doesn't really matter if he did anything at that point. Public will always take the side of a poor crying girl. Given his history no one would believe him.

Liquid_o2
09-19-2016, 10:31 AM
This guy sounds like the biggest loser.

For this incident it was my terrible attempt at humour. And she was really pissed off. But that’s not what I teach to my students. She was a girl that I felt that I had a true emotional connection with. I didn’t know what to do because I really really liked her. So literally that was me trying everything that I could to get an emotional reaction from her. If guys meet a girl that they like they just don’t know what to do and act irrationally.

So his job is a coach to "shy" guys, but he treats women like shit when they say not to him because he is irrational. Sounds like the perfect teacher. Douchebag.

Razor Ramon HG
09-19-2016, 12:01 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzU05QmJMDg

westopher
09-19-2016, 01:16 PM
Guy looks like a fucking pussy.
I love people being impressed by someone who "successfully" picks up naive girls from bars.
That said, he's not a threat, he's just a fucking loser. Its not UBCs job to protect their students from people they don't like. If he harasses someone, they should call the police and have them deal with it.

Acura604
09-19-2016, 01:23 PM
Guy looks like a fucking pussy.
I love people being impressed by someone who "successfully" picks up naive girls from bars.
That said, he's not a threat, he's just a fucking loser. Its not UBCs job to protect their students from people they don't like. If he harasses someone, they should call the police and have them deal with it.

FIXED:

[QUOTE=westopher;8789321]Guy looks like a fucking pussy.
I love people being impressed by someone who "successfully" picks up naive DRUNK girls from bars.

GS8
09-19-2016, 01:23 PM
So glad I'm not in college and university anymore. I worry so much about the future generation of college kids.

Pay / borrow tens of thousands just to endure this safe space seeking, overly privileged and entitled suburban banshee choir?

:fuckthatshit:

You don't have to agree with anyone's views but free speech is exactly what it is.

Jmac
09-19-2016, 03:55 PM
People I don't agree with came onto my campus! :QQ:

dvst8
09-19-2016, 03:58 PM
Guess this guy didn't care about bad publicity last year

StylinRed
09-19-2016, 04:29 PM
uhmmm so girls now a days cant handle being picked up by a guy???


and to the younger guys on here, when u ask a girl for her number and she says 'no' do you just hang your head and walk away? or do you try and chit chat a bit more before asking again? cuz if u just hang ur head and walk away you're going to die lonely... and if that's considered harassing then these safe-space bitches can fuck right off lol

dbaz
09-19-2016, 05:27 PM
just saw the interview with him on global. comes off as a huge douche whos trying to turn his club conquests into a business.

he seems to think that there's no possible outcomes that could hurt anyone. dafuk?

Mr.Money
09-19-2016, 05:40 PM
why don't they troll him tho?..

i bet you could say the rudest things to the dude and make a joke out of it

GLOW
09-19-2016, 07:00 PM
http://www.gifbin.com/bin/102010/1286533237_chick-pepper-sprays-herself.gif

tiger_handheld
09-19-2016, 07:45 PM
Guess this guy didn't care about bad publicity last year

Buddy is like Trump - any publicity is good publicity. Just need the public to talk about him...

richardmozis
09-19-2016, 07:50 PM
I'm not surprised that journalists and students immediately make the connection to sexual assault. "1 in 5 women are raped on campus" Oh please, more like 1 in 5 women are hit on by Jan Huang.

meme405
09-19-2016, 09:10 PM
Women raise concerns over Vancouver pick-up artist - BC | Globalnews.ca (http://globalnews.ca/news/1873395/women-raise-concerns-over-vancouver-pick-up-artist/)

There was another case about simillar behaviour on Granville street last year.

I'm not condoning taking pickup classes or what this guy does, but I will say this: I hear a lot of women complaining about the lack of relationships in this city, well maybe because you act like you have been verbally raped when a guy tries to talk to you and make a connection.

Girls need to just say no, and guys need to learn when to walk away. But you can't criminalize a guy for trying to talk to a girl. Otherwise girls, you better be willing to die alone, cause all these news stories aren't exactly a positive sign to men trying to meet women.

Akinari
09-19-2016, 09:33 PM
http://i.imgur.com/Yd6jPtR.png

:facepalm:

This is wrong on so many levels. Attacking the newly appointed and quite frankly, awesome president, over a politically incorrect douchebag walking on campus trying to pick up girls?

Sorry but if you have the word feminist or feminism in your username, the chances I'm going to take you seriously is close to zero, especially coming from UBC...

dbaz
09-19-2016, 09:39 PM
thats a crazy bitch taking things too far.

id be a bit worried about the people that are low enough to get a guy like this to help them. it could lead to bad things

twitchyzero
09-19-2016, 10:29 PM
watched the video...that's a sure way to get mono
can't believe our generation used to play spin the bottle...is that still a thing? :heckno:

Ulic Qel-Droma
09-20-2016, 12:10 AM
well looks like no one that comes out of UBC is suited to be a sales person if they tuck their tails between their legs after the first no lol.

the point is, it doesn't matter if he's a douche.

people have lost the meaning of harassment.


what about the fucking mormons that harass people on the road.
the bums that keep asking for money?
random sales people in the malls that try to sell you some fucking face cream
basically any sales person.
people that ask for donations to some charity bullshit on the streets?

what they are doing is not harassment. as much as i hate those mormons... what they're doing is TRYING.

lol.

advice for the women that don't want to get hit on. sorry you're gonna get hit on. just say no and keep walking and dont slow down or stop. if they keep following you then the sweeter ending for you. cuz the guy would have wasted his energy following you for nothing. and he's gotta walk all the fucking way back to find a new chick to hit on.

just keep walking. and dont respond. it's not hard.

MG1
09-20-2016, 03:24 AM
Difference is, once you say no, the solicitors, bums, whathaveyou usually give up and move on to the next car or person. I have yet to have one come back after a simple, "No." These guys take "no" as a challenge. I guess it's hard for us guys to understand. Some women may see it as a pain in the ass, while others might feel genuine fear. Then, there are the women who actually like this shit and flirt a little, which doesn't help matters for other women.

In any case, to form a club and have lessons/coaching on how to hit on women - pathetic.

Grow a pair and pop yo zits, man. Men can help each other fix their cars, but coaching them on women matters? Nope. Friendly advice? Maybe. Good thing I never had to ask for help. BTW, if you're shy, there are plenty of women out there who like shy guys. Be cool, not desperate. My "friendly" advice.

7seven
09-20-2016, 05:49 AM
The guy totally seems like a scrawny skinny jean wearing douchebag, but these UBC students raising a stink over him violating their safe space is ridiculous, hell this whole concept of safe spaces seems ridiculous to me. If you don't like him hitting on you, tell him to fuck off and move on with your life.

Some girl at some Calgary college was raising a stink last week because she deemed some guy wearing a Trump Make America Great Again hat on campus violated her safe space Student's Donald Trump hat stirs controversy at Calgary's Mount Royal University - Calgary - CBC News (http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/mount-royal-donald-trump-hat-make-america-great-1.3764642) :rukidding: :facepalm:

How does this safe space generation expect to survive when they get into the real world, its like they can't deal with even the most minor things, no tools or will to deal with adversity and believe they are entitled to everything, its like a generation of pansies.

GLOW
09-20-2016, 07:56 AM
Difference is, once you say no, the solicitors, bums, whathaveyou usually give up and move on to the next car or person. I have yet to have one come back after a simple, "No." These guys take "no" as a challenge. I guess it's hard for us guys to understand. Some women may see it as a pain in the ass, while others might feel genuine fear. Then, there are the women who actually like this shit and flirt a little, which doesn't help matters for other women.


http://i.imgur.com/f7FdEdG.jpg
plus didn't this dude or some of the guys he was coaching get physical with some girls like yank their ponytail to pull them back when they tried to walk away either on the street or at a club? seems like "no" and walk away is not as simple in some cases with these guys as everyone makes out. i'm waiting for one of the girls to just throat punch them and walk off like :fuckyea:

:lol

Mr.HappySilp
09-20-2016, 09:08 AM
http://i.imgur.com/f7FdEdG.jpg
plus didn't this dude or some of the guys he was coaching get physical with some girls like yank their ponytail to pull them back when they tried to walk away either on the street or at a club? seems like "no" and walk away is not as simple in some cases with these guys as everyone makes out. i'm waiting for one of the girls to just throat punch them and walk off like :fuckyea:

:lol

If that happens is free game for the girl to yell sexual harassment and get the guy arrested, put on the sexual predator list for life.

Is simple if someone tells you no then is a no. Respect the person and move on. I almost feel like if a girl saids no and you keep following them then is free game for them to kick you in the balls and step on it till it explode.

urrh
09-20-2016, 10:02 AM
If that happens is free game for the girl to yell sexual harassment and get the guy arrested, put on the sexual predator list for life.

Is simple if someone tells you no then is a no. Respect the person and move on. I almost feel like if a girl saids no and you keep following them then is free game for them to kick you in the balls and step on it till it explode.

that's the second time in this tread you went straight to ball mutilation if a girl doesn't get her way immediately. did you get castrated or are you just a waving your white knight flag?

twitchyzero
09-20-2016, 10:38 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5lcnj9rrrU

GLOW
09-20-2016, 11:02 AM
they can try these variations of NO

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3nhy8GiFeP8/UvMY9h2OfCI/AAAAAAAAGm0/ujh3MNy6lgY/s1600/SWxyN.gif
http://25.media.tumblr.com/c3bef0904bfae4fdfbea0c45da963c53/tumblr_miv2g4OYWd1qig079o1_250.gif
http://memesvault.com/wp-content/uploads/No-Meme-The-Office-15.gif

Mr.HappySilp
09-20-2016, 11:06 AM
that's the second time in this tread you went straight to ball mutilation if a girl doesn't get her way immediately. did you get castrated or are you just a waving your white knight flag?

Let's see someone walks by saw your awesome car and decided lean on it etc etc and you told them no please don't do that. They don't listen and contiune to do so. Would you tell them no again or would you push them away and maybe even shove them around a bit, punch them in the face.

Is the same thing. If someone tell you no, it means a no. Respect that person and respect yourself. Act like an asshole and you should be treated like an asshole.

urrh
09-20-2016, 12:45 PM
if you don't understand the difference between shoving someone and horribly mutilating someone forever, then i can't help you

Nabatron
09-20-2016, 01:31 PM
this guy trying to be like will smith from hitch lol

SpeedStars
09-20-2016, 03:02 PM
https://youtu.be/tJl3ZAg6mj0 ima put this here since happyslip is a fan of nut kicks

Armind
09-20-2016, 03:22 PM
Ummmm.... pepper spray?

MeowMeow
09-20-2016, 03:31 PM
http://i.imgur.com/f7FdEdG.jpg
plus didn't this dude or some of the guys he was coaching get physical with some girls like yank their ponytail to pull them back when they tried to walk away either on the street or at a club? seems like "no" and walk away is not as simple in some cases with these guys as everyone makes out. i'm waiting for one of the girls to just throat punch them and walk off like :fuckyea:

:lol

Not sure if the guy he was with was coaching him but one of his friends he was with picked me up without permission and dropped me on a pole (wtf moment seriously) and I blacked out for a few seconds.
His frat brother also pulled my hair thinking it's hot but that's a different story and I walked out afterwards.

guurl
09-20-2016, 11:16 PM
Lol I see him on tinder.

I watched one of his youtube videos... Cringe.

StylinRed
09-21-2016, 12:08 AM
Not sure if the guy he was with was coaching him but one of his friends he was with picked me up without permission and dropped me on a pole (wtf moment seriously) and I blacked out for a few seconds.
His frat brother also pulled my hair thinking it's hot but that's a different story and I walked out afterwards.

Uhh... okay if that's what they consider picking a chick up, then yeah I can see why the girls at UBC are up in arms :heckno::heckno: the fuck....

GLOW
09-21-2016, 07:20 AM
Not sure if the guy he was with was coaching him but one of his friends he was with picked me up without permission and dropped me on a pole (wtf moment seriously) and I blacked out for a few seconds.
His frat brother also pulled my hair thinking it's hot but that's a different story and I walked out afterwards.

w-t-f i'm picturing a WWE move where they pick up a person and drop them on the guard rail on their chin/neck :heckno:

please tell me cops were involved.

Excelsis
09-21-2016, 06:38 PM
silence

GLOW
09-21-2016, 06:47 PM
i think we just found out who it was MeowMeow

MeowMeow
09-21-2016, 08:00 PM
w-t-f i'm picturing a WWE move where they pick up a person and drop them on the guard rail on their chin/neck :heckno:

please tell me cops were involved.

Your description is actually pretty accurate - head on first on the pole. Looking back I wish I did press charges but I didn't think Jan would become a pick up artist (I've known him since first year)

AzNightmare
09-21-2016, 09:20 PM
wtf.... I guess when he says, "picks up girls", he means literally...

MG1
09-21-2016, 10:36 PM
If he had done that to my daughter, I would make him wish he had never crawled out of his mother's womb.

This asshole is a complete waste of human tissue.

Ulic Qel-Droma
09-23-2016, 12:16 AM
i dunno man, how the hell do you guys handle pan handlers and sellers of cheap souvenirs in 3rd world countries?

they follow you for blocks and keep throwing in new offers and shit. I had a 4 year old kid follow me for 3 blocks in china. yah okay i eventually threw the kid a coin and told him to fuck off.

I had this mexican dude in mexico try to sell me a buncha shit and services and wouldnt bug me for like 10 minutes straight. lol... i just said "only free. only free bro. free!! Free!!!" he laughed and left.

or another time in china, felt like a fucking meat factory. and i was the meat. like literally 5 hookers follow me down a hall way, grabbing my cock. grabbing my hands and putting them on their tits and trying to pull me toward them. well fuck i woulda had a 6 some, but none of them were hot, so i had to just handle it. and not be a bitch about it. i didnt get mad, even though i was drunk, and super tired and i just wanted to go sleep. i didnt yell at them or push them away. i blew them a kiss and told them i had to rest, and save my energy for them tomorrow. gave them a wink and left. of course they knew i was lying. but they smiled, waved good bye and accepted my rejection.

EASY. PLAY THEIR GAME.

Is it annoying? yah...

do i know how to handle it? yah...

it seems like people just gotta learn how to handle aggressive people. you cant tell the world to not be aggressive... that's retarded.

you, as a person, just have to learn how to handle it.

people are empathetic naturally, if you become playful, and play their game, at their level, they'll know whatsup. they'll know they're defeated, but u can't take a jab at their ego. it just doesn't work like that. u want them to respect you. and if they're more aggressive, you gotta acknowledge their alpha status and bow down and take a few steps back and let them feel some of that pride. that's all they're looking for. and yes, if they're aggressive with you, they're alpha. otherwise they wouldnt have the balls to approach you like that. if you respect that fact, they'll respect you back and let you go.

if i had a hot daughter that kept getting "harassed", i wouldnt get mad and go beat the guys up or tell her to report it or whatever the fuck bitch move. i'd teach her how to handle it like a fucking grown person. a confident person.

only a bitch breaks emotionally. at worst, you keep walking. once you break, you lose.

Mancini
09-23-2016, 08:38 PM
He's helping men to meet meaningful relationships?

twitchyzero
09-23-2016, 08:50 PM
ulic, sheltered Vancouverites won't know how to handle stubbornness/persistence/aggressiveness

Recon604
09-23-2016, 10:04 PM
Well the guy went to UBC, and he was in frat. Prob explains why you never join frats or sororities...