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Originally Posted by mr_chin
Pussies are those that stay and become a victim of domestic violence... because they're so scared to be on their own.
Again, all these retards that continuously become the victim deserves it.
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There is so much wrong with this post (and your previous post), I don't know where to begin...
My dad knew a Sudanese woman whose husband beat the shit out of her every night, and she stayed with him. Some women are culturally ingrained to stay with their husbands, no matter how bad they get abused, because that's how it's been done in their society for generations past. Or, the matter is dealt with within the community (think beth din or sharia courts).
Even when living in Canada, the idea that you can just get up and leave your abuser, then go to a safe space where he can't hurt you, is a totally foreign concept to these women. And if they do know about the services offered, they might still stay because they're afraid the abuser will come after the kids or their friends. Tragically, in some cultures, a woman standing up to her abuser can be ostracized by her community out of a warped sense of "honour". One of my neighbours runs a refugee women's nonprofit and has heard many stories like this.
Okay, what about white/westernized couples. A woman gets beaten up by her partner, who cries and says he's sorry, he'll never do it again, he loves her so much, they get back together. "Well...I'll give him one more chance." Lather rinse repeat. Or he isolates her from her friends. These are all classic psychological abuse tactics.
Victims of domestic abuse do not deserve one punch, slap or even a threatening word against them. They are not pussies. Your callous disregard for abuse victims sickens me and stains the reputation of this otherwise awesome website. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Note: I specified male-on-female domestic abuse since that's what I'm most familiar with. I'm not denying that there are male domestic abuse victims, and in fact, many of the points above can be applied to abused men as well. As men, we're supposed to "man up and take it" because we're strong powerful men who don't need no emotions.
Edit 2: Damn son, it's pretty obvious I was on Ritalin when I wrote this. Cleaned up some of my shit prose.