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Originally Posted by EvoLove

Well i may have crossed the line today... i accidentally touched her chest when i tried to push her away as she was poking at my ribs when i was trying to fix the work computers...
she got mad but... it didn't seem like she was mad she just kept saying she was mad and said she doesnt want to talk to me but was still talking to me...
she forgave me after i went out and bought a pack of Pocky and a Kitkat bar....

Well, so now I got some time after a meeting, you want some real advice? Don't WOW her and over think shit. I can see that's gonna end up failing hard as fuck, and you're gonna be bitter.

She wants your god damn attention and company, so just fucking spend time with her and do shit that's fun. save the WOWing her when you guys have fucked once or twice and when you two are actually exclusive.

I don't get why it has to be so highschoolish at adulthood like... "ooooo you touched my boobs that's cooties" etc etc etc.

There's no better advice than to be a man and fucking take her by the hand and spend some quality time together and do SOMETHING besides looking a the phone. Want me to be creative for you? Take her to Vandusen, take her downtown by the sea wall, girls love flowers, girls love being outdoors. If she's willing to do that with you, it means that she can tolerate being seen with you. You ain't gonna accomplish shit by prolonging when you're gonna do something. Fucking DO IT.

I had to punch that kid voice inside my head and do it. Guess what, all it took was find an activity spend some time and thought making it fun and boom. Done. Why the shit is getting a relationship started these days harder than putting together an ikea bed? If it doesn't work, move the fuck on.

You know what the problem is? Your excuses and your fear of rejection. Then you put that shit up on a pedestal and when you fail, you're gonna be pissed. If it doesn't work out, it's your own damn fault.