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Originally Posted by mikemhg
Also to add, if this one doesn't work out, I don't think you're losing much there bud.
Let's see here -- Family baggage, autistic niece (that you'll have to hang out with if things get more serious), needy mother that will drive you crazy, and no real career?
Looks and a nice body can get old after you're banging for a year or so, if she can't even carry an engaging convo among other things, it doesn't sound like she brings much to the table in terms of a partner to succeed with.
Might sound savage, and I don't know your career/financial situation, but this girl might be a major burden if things get serious.
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I get what you're saying. My last post was what I call a 'stream of consciousness'. Basically unfiltered, quasi-incoherent rambles directly from my brain to my fingertips. I still meant what I said. It just lacked context.
In the beginning, we barely texted because we would meet each other. The texting only increased as the busy schedule came in. Not totally small talk but anyway...
I'm putting this one to bed (not sleep as that can be akin to killing) for now and basically making her do the legwork if she wants me in her life. My cares are basically at the waterfall right now, only being held by a small boulder.
Also, this passed Sunday, I went out with another girl. Holy fuck was the weather amazing. No smoke, partly cloudy and cool. We went to Rocky Point, sat on a bench and talked for 2.5 hours and weren't welded to said bench. Then went to the Boathouse, had some cocktails, food and said our goodbyes. It was nice. She's a great soul too. Despite her brother having a heart attack 2 days before, she wanted to go out with me to remove herself from being pulled down by anxiety / stress etc. She loved the day and loved being in my company. Told me it was what she needed.
I'm sure in my case, this won't last long either because that's always the story. The opposite of a Hallmark movie
