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Originally Posted by GS8
Your girl is useless, full stop. Tell me one good thing she does? Blow you? That's not good enough. Any girl with the right amount of overbite can replace her.
Few questions:
How was she pre-marriage? Nevermind house duties, how was she socially and romantically toward you?
Did she put money towards the house purchase? Or was 'nagging' her form of currency?
Does she work? She spent all that time studying right? For what?
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You shouldn't be assigning tasks to your wife. She should ideally act proactively when something needs to be done. She would take out the trash if it's full, do the laundry if the hamper is full, clean the bathtub if it's dirty, cook food if you ran out of leftovers. These are the traits of a caring wife that wants to commit to a strong and happy household. She's doing these things because she cares and is it doing it for you like you would do things for her.
Based on what I read in your post, this is not a marriage I see lasting very long. Sounds like she doesn't want to spend much time with you and uses gaming to pass the time. She still nags, doesn't want to commit equally to the marriage, leaves the house on her own and doesn't want to spend early mornings with you.
Again, I'm basing this just on what you wrote. Sounds like she's taking you for a financial ride at your expense and offering little to nothing to the relationship. Maybe house duties should be the least of your concerns at the moment?
Last question: Are you happy with this situation?
I could not live with a woman like that for one week, let alone a lifetime. What a miserable existence. She belongs to redflagdeals...
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Dad in law even admitted she didn't raise his kids up properly, now they are useless. Mom in law won't admit that, but keeps insisting education is #1 priority. Then I asked her now your kids are grown up, when you pass away, then how are they going to know how to survive, "WELL, they can figure out that shit themselves". Great parenting....
Wife contributed a big chunk of money into the house as well, so the money part isn't an issue. The issue is the time usage when she is at home after work and weekends. Like she is able to dedicate hours playing games or seeing her friends, yet can't even take an hour to do laundry a week (it's throw it in and do whatever you want during the wash time - can't be that difficult)? Yah I hate nagging people or reminding people especially your own wife, because like you said they should already automatically do it when they see at home (chip in when needed).