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Originally Posted by Badhobz
I didnt know this thread existed.....
i dont wanna sound like a dick, but did you not know she would be like this when you married her?
Most of the dudes i know who have marital issues all go in with horse blinders on and pretend they didnt know the other person's issues. The signs are obvious from the getgo, most people just chose to overlook/ignore them.
My wifes the same: she comes from HK money, never had to work or do anything. spoiled from her parents, her upbringing, that little cunt flower school, etc.
I wouldnt expect her to cook / clean, although recently shes been getting pretty good at cleaning up but thats cuz i keep yelling at her about her guanddong hoarding.
You cant change the other person, especially at this age and time. You can only change yourself. Either you can put up with it, or you cant.
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No man I've been blinded sided LOL. Legit.
When she moved into my condo she would bake/cook and do the laundry every few days. She likes to bake/cook when I met her. Even told me she hated video games. Suddenly after we moved into the house, 360 change. Doesn't bake, do laundry, and playing video games. No idea if this is due to COVID where back then that was the only thing could do at the condo. Whatever it is, I've been quite fair in terms of my approach. You can play your games, but the games should go after your family things first (not the other way around, the family go after the games).