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Good yet tough post.
I do think she called you out a few things which you need to self reflect. If one is always going to under your parent's wings, then you'll never escape. Fight or flight, conflict avoidance... etc. If you were in your mid 20s sure, tell her to kick rocks. Being 30s, gotta be the man and stand strong on what you truly love.
Heck, I might even think she'll be the one that got away when you look back 10 years from now. Mature, smart, independent...where do you get these 3 in a package nowadays. Getting married in two years is actually pretty fair.
My X definitely went on dating apps as well when we broke up and I had the same feelings as you. I realized a) I'm looking at a mirror as I was also on a dating app. b) we are always looking for something better, thinking something out there is better.
The result is that there is none. It's really to deal with your own shit first.
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