First date.......what to do ?

[rslater]

What about taking her to theatre under the stars?

[RabidRat]

Originally Posted by ecchiecchi

We didn't really shop- Just walked around and talked. lol It was unplanned and random.

I don't think it really matters where you take her. As long as you can show you're a fun person to be with. Don't be afraid to talk about yourself- at the same time, get her to talk about herself too.

The most important thing is to keep things interesting and not awkward. Location is least important- just find a place where you guys can relax and talk. Aquarium, Park, your little secret place, etc etc.

nice. haha i'm kinda random like that too but like someone else said, i don't think i'd be quite ballsy enough to actually take someone to superstore on a date =D.

Originally Posted by trancehead

Girls lose respect for guys who pick up the tab.
Unless maybe, your bangin her already

hmm not sure about this one, most girls i know would think the guy's cheap if he doesn't pick it up. on the first date, anyway.

[BlackV62K2]

Paying for the bill on the first date is a tricky one. Yes you look like a cheap ass if you dont but you also look like a wuss for doing it. If and when I get a feel that she's not gonna pay her half, I at least say.....I'll grab this one, you can get the next one (something along that line).

If you're not going to see her again, then for sure do not pay for the entire bill lol.

[butter_sashimi]

I do not view any man as a wuss if he chooses to pay for the bill. If he manages to put his card down before I can open up my wallet and get my money, I would be surprised since Im expecting to pay for what I ate but I woudln't be incredibly displeased. After an objection, if he still insists, then so be it.

[jbsali]

i took my gf to dinner and a movie on our first date. we were young and didnt have much to do around town so i figured that be good enough. she loved it. we go to dinner/movie at least once a month now.. i think its like a ritual or something lol. spice it up though, otherwise its just dinner and a movie.. and dont put your "motha-fukn dick in a box" LOL.. if you must, use the pop corn bag.

[BallPeenHammer]

1. Toys R Us is a good place to mess around in. That's a test I do actually. Thought not all the time.

It tells me if she's got that side that can be lighthearted and not too serious.

It's a bummer when most girls I know or get set up with are jsut too involved in looking pretty and not get embarrassed.

Sounds weird, but it works! and it can be fun!

2. I think the real answer to the OP's question is: It's the time you spend, not where you spend it at. I've had successful dates on skytrains, busses, Toys R Us, Aberdeen, Metrotown, Stanley Park, and the list goes on. IF u 2 click, u 2 click. Planning it too much IMO just makes things too tense and the person not ready for random change.

3. Stop hatin on Physixx. I think his comments have been much needed in the R&G section of RS. I've seen so much of the one liners and the stick-it-up-her-bummers instead of actual HELPFUL advice. People here post to ask for help, wheteher indirectly or directly. As a COMMUNITY, we should do what we can to help a person, instead of judging or trying to be a witty smartass.

IMO, if u don't have anything helpful to say to the OP and the original issue, the
STFU, GTFO. I have no patience for people like that.

[rsx]

Costco shopping

[03aspec]

Originally Posted by BallPeenHammer

It's a bummer when most girls I know or get set up with are jsut too involved in looking pretty and not get embarrassed.

i had same problem with the last girl i went out with, turned me off right away... its sad because shes actually mature and has a good head on her shoulders, but i need womens with that lightheartedness.

[BallPeenHammer]

Originally Posted by 03aspec

i had same problem with the last girl i went out with, turned me off right away... its sad because shes actually mature and has a good head on her shoulders, but i need womens with that lightheartedness.

imo, you're head's not in the right place if you can't find time/place to just let loose and have fun. =)

I can't stand it when women try so damn hard to keep that "image".

Seriously speaking, if a woman thinks she can only look good by doing as little physical movements as possible, then we probably have a problem. LOL

[you]

take her to the hottest porn store in town
shell be all over u just like that

[03aspec]

Originally Posted by BallPeenHammer

imo, you're head's not in the right place if you can't find time/place to just let loose and have fun. =)

I can't stand it when women try so damn hard to keep that "image".

Seriously speaking, if a woman thinks she can only look good by doing as little physical movements as possible, then we probably have a problem. LOL

lol exactly, you should have seen her on our second date, it was halrious. we went out for icecream at the beach in whiterock, since shes all about her looks etc, she wore stilletos i think? anyways, we got to walking around and decided to head down that huge dock at the beach and her heel kept getting stuck in between all the planks! haha, i could not stop laughing the entire time. then it got cold and she refused to put on her jacket because it didnt "flow" with her outfit.. hahaha. she ended up with a fever the next day. damn women.

[drunkrussian]

Originally Posted by ecchiecchi

Just do whatever- Do random shit you haven't done before. Planning is a recipe for fail. Just get a general idea of what she'd like to do- let everything else along the way work itself out.

If feelings are mutual, you'll enjoy the date no matter what.

I took my gf to Superstore for an official first date. From every perspective that's the most pathetic place you can take a girl for a date but i strongly believe we both had fun. You can ask her though. =p

u are a pimp!!

[Durrann1984]

Originally Posted by BallPeenHammer

1. Toys R Us is a good place to mess around in. That's a test I do actually. Thought not all the time.

It tells me if she's got that side that can be lighthearted and not too serious.

It's a bummer when most girls I know or get set up with are jsut too involved in looking pretty and not get embarrassed.

Sounds weird, but it works! and it can be fun!

2. I think the real answer to the OP's question is: It's the time you spend, not where you spend it at. I've had successful dates on skytrains, busses, Toys R Us, Aberdeen, Metrotown, Stanley Park, and the list goes on. IF u 2 click, u 2 click. Planning it too much IMO just makes things too tense and the person not ready for random change.

3. Stop hatin on Physixx. I think his comments have been much needed in the R&G section of RS. I've seen so much of the one liners and the stick-it-up-her-bummers instead of actual HELPFUL advice. People here post to ask for help, wheteher indirectly or directly. As a COMMUNITY, we should do what we can to help a person, instead of judging or trying to be a witty smartass.

IMO, if u don't have anything helpful to say to the OP and the original issue, the
STFU, GTFO. I have no patience for people like that.

ur the pimp

[drunkrussian]

^^ i take it back, ur right. Dayum a date on a skytrain. Wooing a girl over dirty hobos with leaves in their hair and the aroma of fresh urine = skillz.

[BallPeenHammer]

Originally Posted by Durrann1984

ur the pimp

that's why I got the magic stick. LOL!

j/k j/k.

[BallPeenHammer]

Originally Posted by drunkrussian

^^ i take it back, ur right. Dayum a date on a skytrain. Wooing a girl over dirty hobos with leaves in their hair and the aroma of fresh urine = skillz.

Buddy, the things u can do when there's no one on the train or the bus.....
epic.