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07-13-2012, 07:38 PM
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Last week my co-workers best friend and I hung out around Downtown. We both got drunk, she gets pretty sloppy while she drinks. We both exited one of the pubs. I tried taking her back to my work spot but she wouldn't. We both look at each other eye-to-eye and she gives me a kiss on the lips, then looks away. It's been bugging me ever since.
What should I do? I work with her best friend. Should I approach her best friend about it or just mention it to her?
It's been awhile since I've had something for a girl. I've bee super busy working and what not.
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07-13-2012, 07:56 PM
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I think in most cases and from what I believe, everything that happens after the moment you get sloshed should not be taken very seriously, so I personally wouldn't think about it too much. I think mentioning it to her would be a good idea rather than telling her best friend because that may or may not taint your friendship with them, or you can have a good laugh about it; depending how they take it. You could probably go and ask the girl whether or not there were feelings behind that kiss, but from what I've witnessed in most alcohol fueled shenanigans, nine out of ten times there usually isn't. *I hope that made sense.. Usually most advice sounds good in my head but doesn't come out as well as it should
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07-13-2012, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by AW607 I think in most cases and from what I believe, everything that happens after the moment you get sloshed should not be taken very seriously, so I personally wouldn't think about it too much. I think mentioning it to her would be a good idea rather than telling her best friend because that may or may not taint your friendship with them, or you can have a good laugh about it; depending how they take it. You could probably go and ask the girl whether or not there were feelings behind that kiss, but from what I've witnessed in most alcohol fueled shenanigans, nine out of ten times there usually isn't. *I hope that made sense.. Usually most advice sounds good in my head but doesn't come out as well as it should
Good luck though, I'd like to hear how this turns out | +1 talk to her in a way where you could laugh about it, but also be serious at the same time. gotta find that perfect moment. hope it works out!  | |
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07-13-2012, 09:33 PM
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I believe I'm drunk, but I don't didn't see you mention what gender your co-worker is. If your co-worker is a girl, then in RS fashion, I suggest threesome. If it's a guy, then he's already in the friendzone, and he'll be all like   , so just get in there and get some ass.
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07-13-2012, 10:03 PM
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Dude, if they are really best friends....she has already told her/him.
Forget about it....it was just a kiss.
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07-13-2012, 10:25 PM
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Dude, you're overthinking this.
Act like this isn't your first kiss, or that you rarely ever get kissed; so just like Dinosaur says, don't really dwell on it a lot like a highschool girl. Seriously, if you do, this is unmanly.
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07-13-2012, 10:30 PM
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tell yourself you had an awesome night and that's it.
deny till you die if you have a girl
but other than that, pat yourself on the back and that's it. stop overthinking.
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07-13-2012, 10:48 PM
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what's exactly bugging you? you're just wondering why she did it? do you like the girl who kissed you? how long have you guys been hanging out for?
how close are you with the friend that you work with? +1 to what Dino said. if they are best friends, the one you work with will already know for sure.
there's a chance she likes you, based on the fact she pulled back after the kiss and didn't ravage you like an animal in heat.
in my experience, if you're gonna jump someone under the pretense that you're "drunk" you just go for it. you don't hesitate because after all, you're "too drunk" to think twice.
bring it up, but don't make it a big deal. it's a just a kiss, she didn't grab your D and get aggressive so be nice about it | |
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