when did this become the "i hate school thread" ?


The best thing I learned this month:

Sadness needs its proper place so Joy can have it's permanent place.

I hate this place sometimes. Just want to leave for a bit.

I guess I can look forward to Fridays from now on lol.

it's so easy to find someone to chill with
but hard to find somebody to actually grow with

:rukidding:
where is that damn life reset button

friends are all moving onto a different stage of life and yet I haven't advanced at all. :facepalm:

At least you have someone to chill with. Feel there is nothing to talk about to my fiancée at all. So hard to find topics maybe we are not meant to be together......

At least you have someone. All I have is a racecar, motorcycle and my health...
oh wait... :alonehappy:

yikes...

better work it out or realize what changes you need to make sooner than later

i suggest you guys take off for a little get away :)
do something spontaneous

Long distance....... but I visiting her in Feb for a few weeks.

Long distance?! Who's going to be living with who when you guys get married?
If you guys play online games together I guess it would keep things a bit more interesting too haha. I know a long distance couple who got married and thats what they do

how much are you getting paid to marry this girl?
Canadian citizenship aint cheap yo

and if she cuts the marriage you're on the hook from the government to pay everything...

Err.. it's gonna take at least 5 years to bring your wife over here.

A buddy of mine is married with a kid and his wife and kid was finally approved, the process was a bitch.

Wasn't it like 2M that someone was offering? There was a thread I think...

Got engaged today

^ Congrats!

How would you go about approaching your friends who owe you money? It's been 5 months now and I've only received 2 payments

"I understand you've had some financial difficulties and I was happy to help out, but I really need you to start paying me back."

It might get ugly, so you may have to weigh the value of the money vs the value of the friendship.

This is why people say don't lend friends money. I don't prescribe to that mantra myself, but I consider any money "loaned" to my friends as gifts. If they pay me back, great. If not, I already made my peace with that before I handed over the money.

Hope your "friend" isn't buying new shit still, instead of paying you back. If that's the case you need to be direct.

"Hey, I see you buying ______ and ______, yet you still owe me $xxxx"

If they are truly down and out on luck, you got to finesse it.

"Hey, don't forget that you still owe me $xxxx, I'm starting to get low on funds myself and kind of need it sooner than later."

Why is it that I work hard everyday, but can't get good sleep on my own bed?

Why is it that I work hard everyday yet I feel trapped?

I can't do the things I love, I can't eat the things I love, I can't see the friends that matter.

I can't spend the money I want to on things I want to, because I don't have any money left to spend on the things I want.

I should be empowered but I'm not.

I am suffocating, I am trapped.

you create a new life button!

Sounds like the stuff I was talking about in the ITR thread

Fuck, why'd you have to come back? And now I'm over thinking everything again. Fuq.