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Old 03-01-2009, 03:11 AM   #26
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IMO, if there are kids involved, you really have to consider the latter. If no kids are involved, then after what the girl is doing it sounds like he deserves better, and would be better off without her.
kind of off topic but i don't think the reason for a couple to be staying together should be soley based on children all the time. yes, children should be able to have their family all together and be happy...but i think it would be far worse to grow up in an environment where you are aware your parents are suffering from each other. definitely a big consideration to take when it comes to a divorce, but i think any parent have to look at the bigger picture.

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Old 03-01-2009, 03:20 AM   #27
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I just watched "He's just not that into you", a couple nights ago.. and your situation fits not EXACTLY, but closely related to this certain character in the movie haha

Anyways, you did your part. You don't have any feelings for her, yet she persists. She was half buzzed that night, and hopefully she had forgotten by the next morning. If she still wants to go out for coffee, follow the way of Tao, and cut all contact from her. You already told her how you felt, and nothing is going to change your decision because what's done is done. Highschool feelings are over. If you fall into her trap, that means that you're weak, and it's just going to make matters worse with the husband. (divorce, kids, you know what.)

Another alternative solution, is to tell the husband straight up what you're feeling. He may be disappointed, but better knowing than not knowing at all. That way, he can fix the relationship he's dealing with the wife, and might possibly go back to love between those two.

Just whatever you do, don't fall into her trap.
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Old 03-02-2009, 06:46 AM   #28
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ill make it simple for you, pm me the dudes number and ill tell him for you..
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Old 03-02-2009, 07:56 AM   #29
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Old 03-02-2009, 08:49 AM   #30
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This is like an episode of The office... lol
I have never watched that show, so I have no idea....

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Another alternative solution, is to tell the husband straight up what you're feeling. He may be disappointed, but better knowing than not knowing at all. That way, he can fix the relationship he's dealing with the wife, and might possibly go back to love between those two.
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