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mangopudding 01-05-2009 01:56 AM

looking back on my past relationships, i refrained from saying too much about my previous partners and what they did. i find it kind of selfish to bring up something from the past with the future. i never want my guy to feel like he's being compared to...so something like your gf saying her and her bf use to do it with a condom was just horrible on her part.

i know everyone has a past when it comes to sex, but i know myself i would never want to know cause i never want to feel like i have to question if im doing better than the rest or if i'm not up to par. you know what i mean?

Gumby 01-05-2009 11:09 AM

You have the right approach; your gf, not so much...

quasi 01-06-2009 11:54 AM

Do what makes you comfortable, if you want to wear a condom wear one. Saying that I haven't wore one in over 10 years but I'm in a monogamous relationship. She hasn't even been on the pill for over 3 years. Can be sort of a dangerous game but we're married and already have one kid if an unplanned on came it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world.

LC21 01-06-2009 04:01 PM

IF she gets pregnant tell her she didnt want him to use condoms =D Backfire.

E-40 01-06-2009 08:40 PM

My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

3xta 01-06-2009 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6209886)
My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

:eek:

BoneThug 01-06-2009 10:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6209886)
My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

why would say that? ruining everyones ignorant bliss.

fuhkyu 01-06-2009 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BoneThug (Post 6210119)
why would say that? ruining everyones ignorant bliss.

haha that made me laugh

BlackV62K2 01-06-2009 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6209886)
My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

What a ho!

miss_crayon 01-06-2009 10:50 PM

uhhh..isn't it illegal to not tell their partner about their stds? or maybe not illegal..but im pretty sure they can get sued

poweredbyph 01-06-2009 11:01 PM

Can we get the first name of the co-worker just incase... :D

E-40 01-07-2009 12:27 AM

Yeah ... She's a little gross.

When she's working, I always keep a close eye on my drinks.

Marco911 01-07-2009 08:13 AM

1)You can get herpes even with condoms.
2)You only have to tell your partner you are HIV+ if you know about it and want to start having unprotected sex with him/her.

Gumby 01-07-2009 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6209886)
My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

How do you know this? :D

!Yaminashi 01-07-2009 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6210379)
Yeah ... She's a little gross.

When she's working, I always keep a close eye on my drinks.

Sorry, but why do you keep an eye on your drinks?
Do you think she's gonna go touching herself then rub her hands all over your cup or something?

Talk about paranoid:haha:

E-40 01-07-2009 11:33 AM

If she drinks something of mines. I'll get oral herpes.

E-40 01-07-2009 11:34 AM

& Yes .. I'm really paranoid.

!Yaminashi 01-07-2009 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6210936)
If she drinks something of mines. I'll get oral herpes.

Thats only if she has it on her mouth, there are 2 different types
And if you're that paranoid, best start reading up :lol

sexyimportdiva 01-07-2009 06:01 PM

i don't agree
 
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Originally Posted by Fobman (Post 6197945)
u don't need to use condom if she goes on BCP

you posted that comment right before the new year. i was reading it, and i totally disagree. i mean, i'm a girl, and you really don't think that a condom should be used just because she's on BC? not everyone's body accepts bcp. condoms don't "need" to be used for anything, but it's always smart to use condoms as an extra precaution, no?

BoneThug 01-07-2009 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sexyimportdiva (Post 6211650)
you posted that comment right before the new year. i was reading it, and i totally disagree. i mean, i'm a girl, and you really don't think that a condom should be used just because she's on BC? not everyone's body accepts bcp. condoms don't "need" to be used for anything, but it's always smart to use condoms as an extra precaution, no?

you dont think it may be overkill, IF the girl is using bc right. worst comes to worst you can just split the abortion. its doesnt have to be a big deal

BlackV62K2 01-07-2009 06:59 PM

Bareback sex > sex w/ condom. If she's on the pill and you both are clean, fuck just go in there and give'r LOL.

Noir 01-07-2009 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by sexyimportdiva (Post 6211650)
you posted that comment right before the new year. i was reading it, and i totally disagree. i mean, i'm a girl, and you really don't think that a condom should be used just because she's on BC? not everyone's body accepts bcp. condoms don't "need" to be used for anything, but it's always smart to use condoms as an extra precaution, no?

If you really want to be MORE safe, why don't you have him wear 2 plys of condoms in addition to your BCP. It should work theoritically right :rolleyes:

[HuCk DuCk] 01-07-2009 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by BoneThug (Post 6211737)
you dont think it may be overkill, IF the girl is using bc right. worst comes to worst you can just split the abortion. its doesnt have to be a big deal

not everyone believes in abortions bro

Milhouse 01-08-2009 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by [HuCk DuCk] (Post 6212208)
not everyone believes in abortions bro

:werd:

trdees 01-08-2009 04:29 AM

but everyone belives in the shove down the stairs. Right right?


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