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BoneThug 01-08-2009 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by [HuCk DuCk] (Post 6212208)
not everyone believes in abortions bro

i just find it funny that on a website full of atheists so many people still have weak christian sentiments. you have a problem and or made a mistake. fix it. easy. expensive, but the lessons from most mistakes are. why bring a child into the world that you are not ready to have. you can bring him/her into a life of poverty?

I love kids. and when I have mine I want to give them anything under the sun. But if I fuck up, then I fucked up. Why screw the kid over for that?

!Yaminashi 01-08-2009 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by BoneThug (Post 6212680)
i just find it funny that on a website full of atheists so many people still have weak christian sentiments. you have a problem and or made a mistake. fix it. easy. expensive, but the lessons from most mistakes are. why bring a child into the world that you are not ready to have. you can bring him/her into a life of poverty?

I love kids. and when I have mine I want to give them anything under the sun. But if I fuck up, then I fucked up. Why screw the kid over for that?

I agree with this

Noir 01-08-2009 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by BoneThug (Post 6212680)
i just find it funny that on a website full of atheists so many people still have weak christian sentiments. you have a problem and or made a mistake. fix it. easy. expensive, but the lessons from most mistakes are. why bring a child into the world that you are not ready to have. you can bring him/her into a life of poverty?

I love kids. and when I have mine I want to give them anything under the sun. But if I fuck up, then I fucked up. Why screw the kid over for that?

+1.

It's a good topic to discuss that I think if you want to go there, it merits its own thread instead of hijacking this one.

BoneThug 01-08-2009 10:02 AM

i didnt mean to hijack. its just a subject I feel strongly about.

vmec 01-08-2009 10:38 AM

To the dudes who think abortion is just a correction to a mistake and "it's not a big deal"

It's a huge deal, the mother to be can be extremely depressed with her loss, and can grieve the loss of the unborn for years... I believe in abortion in some cases but don't kid yourself that you wipe your hands clean once the fetus is gone, especially not for the woman.

Not to mention there is always adoption if you don't want the kid to live in poverty, have it give it up. "No big deal?" Yeah, right...

BoneThug 01-08-2009 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6212769)
To the dudes who think abortion is just a correction to a mistake and "it's not a big deal"

It's a huge deal, the mother to be can be extremely depressed with her loss, and can grieve the loss of the unborn for years... I believe in abortion in some cases but don't kid yourself that you wipe your hands clean once the fetus is gone, especially not for the woman.

Not to mention there is always adoption if you don't want the kid to live in poverty, have it give it up. "No big deal?" Yeah, right...

it is a big deal cause then there is a real life that is messed up cause it doesnt know where its parents are and why they gave him/her up. Depression isn't a good enough excuse for me though. I've been depressed. You can suck it up and just move on. But then its not my body so its not my choice to make.

vmec 01-08-2009 11:12 AM

^ Sometimes. I know a few kids who've been adopted and they're doing just fine. In fact I know her parents as well and this kid is way better off being adopted. Sure she may wonder one day but she will grow up with a life she could have never had otherwise. This is not one single isolated example either.

Abortion or adoption in both cases the mother is losing a child she will never know. In both cases it is a huge deal.

But you're right about one thing, you don't have a choice. Can't make her kill it, can't make her have it.

yuusha 01-08-2009 01:36 PM

^ Precisely why the OP should step up and take charge of the matter of using birth control whether it's in pills or condoms (or both, just to be wary of STDs).

BoneThug is right when he says it's easy - for the guy. The girl's the one that has it rough. But realistically (taking into account the time, money and effort needed to even get through a pregnancy, let alone raise the child), it is much easier to abort or put the child up for adoption.

Bottom line, no matter how much pain it would be to lose the child by abortion or adoption, if you weren't ready to raise it at all then why would you take the chance of conceiving it in the first place? Why didn't you take the precautions when there were so many options available? Prevention is better than Correction.

vmec 01-08-2009 02:19 PM

That's why I think men are idiots for saying go without a condom and or pill. I'm all for prevention of babies or herpes and the like.

BlackV62K2 01-08-2009 08:40 PM

So say things are getting really hot with some girl (you guys are all over each other), she's not on the pill and you have no condom.....you wont fuck then? In the spur of the moment, it would be hard to resist.

yuusha 01-08-2009 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackV62K2 (Post 6213650)
So say things are getting really hot with some girl (you guys are all over each other), she's not on the pill and you have no condom.....you wont fuck then? In the spur of the moment, it would be hard to resist.

Your brain vs your balls. If your brain ain't in control of your balls then what else are you not in control of?

steel_chain619 01-15-2009 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackV62K2 (Post 6213650)
So say things are getting really hot with some girl (you guys are all over each other), she's not on the pill and you have no condom.....you wont fuck then? In the spur of the moment, it would be hard to resist.

Morning after pills

Noir 01-16-2009 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by steel_chain619 (Post 6227272)
Morning after pills

Or pulling out :D

StaxBundlez 01-16-2009 12:22 AM

i love sex without a condom....

its great
lol

but if its a fling or a one nighter.. gotta use a condom..

danlee78 01-17-2009 08:21 PM

http://i224.photobucket.com/albums/d...m962/funny.jpg

you should both go to a clinic and get checked by the doc and then he/she can discuss what her options are about going on the pill...maybe i missed this, but maybe she was confident in saying "it's alright" because she is already on the pill? As, miss-crayon said...you don't want lil crayons coming out of the box or own a kid like above...

poweredbyph 01-17-2009 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackV62K2 (Post 6213650)
So say things are getting really hot with some girl (you guys are all over each other), she's not on the pill and you have no condom.....you wont fuck then? In the spur of the moment, it would be hard to resist.

Take your dick out before you shoot white shit and splash it all over her face. That is how pornstars do it. It works for them. :P

noots 01-18-2009 02:05 AM

Yeah get her checked up. If you two break up, not much worse than to tell a girl about your time with a STD.

It's always better to be safe. In a past relationship, my gf at the time was on the pill and sometimes we still used a condom. Dont know how that all started actually...

[HuCk DuCk] 02-01-2009 06:32 PM

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti....html?ITO=1490

BoneThug 02-01-2009 09:26 PM

fyi pulling out is not going to stop a girl from getting pregnant. or paegent or whatever

Tegra_Devil 02-01-2009 09:34 PM

condoms blow..i never use them...

BoneThug 02-01-2009 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Tegra_devil (Post 6258457)
condoms blow..i never use them...

you a volunteer firefighter or full time. and are you in kamloops or van?

The_AK 02-01-2009 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by E-40 (Post 6209886)
My co-worker has herpes and she is one of those girls always has a BF/ fuck buddy around, but never practices safe sex. Basically, she keeps it a secret with all her partners and has sex with them without a condom.

When they suggest using one, she says no it’s fine& that she got herself tested recently and she’s fine & on the pill. WTF right? There are a lot of irresponsible people out there. To be safe, you guys should both get tested and then take it from there.

her name isn't moony, is it? lol

cls55coupe 02-02-2009 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by steel_chain619 (Post 6227272)
Morning after pills

Plan B

yuusha 02-02-2009 11:00 AM

^Don't get too used to taking emergency contraceptives. I know this one chick who used them like 9 times in one month, she bled out like crazy.

Tapioca 02-03-2009 08:41 AM

I'm not religious, but even I realize that it's pretty easy for most of you to talk about abortions in the abstract. Abortions are never easy emotionally and there are health risks for the woman.

There are some decent condoms out there like Crown or Kimono. I haven't tried Crowns, but I've heard very good things about Crown skinless condoms.


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