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   |  |       |  01-14-2009, 11:39 AM | #1 |   | Banned (ABWS) 
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 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 11:41 AM | #2 |   | Rs has made me the man i am today! 
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					Originally Posted by diesel_test  So i decided to join this dating website and i messaged a few girls there and i got some responses.
 
 In getting to know each other through email, what are you supposed to talk about in getting to know each other better?
 
 i'm new to this.
 |  umm well, you can start off with the basics?   
find out some info about them? make jokes? ask about work? hobbies? interests? how big her penis is? make sure its an actual woman?
		 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 11:43 AM | #3 |   | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS 
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			yeah, isn't the whole point to see how they are, what they like and so on
		 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 11:58 AM | #4 |   | Banned (BBM) 
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					Originally Posted by diesel_test  So i decided to join this dating website and i messaged a few girls there and i got some responses.
 
 In getting to know each other through email, what are you supposed to talk about in getting to know each other better?
 
 i'm new to this.
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		 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 01:23 PM | #5 |   | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum 
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			make sure theyre not men
		 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 01:24 PM | #6 |   | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon 
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			make sure u repay ur gambling debt first.
		 
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 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 01:50 PM | #7 |   | My homepage has been set to RS 
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			yourself. talk about life and whats going on currently with it. talk about friends and family but vaguely and give no names. gently enquire about hers. dont push, dont be invasive and never be negative about anything. just cause it makes you look like a negative person. remember that through out the whole exp people are looking for flaws. even though im sure both you and the girls you are talking to are nice cool people, most people think that if someone is doing this on the net, they probably have some flaws and they will be looking to find them now before you actually meet. so dont give them ammo to use against you.
		 
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 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 03:09 PM | #8 |   | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001 
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			ahaahaahuninstall life.
 
 i'm sort of glad that you got some responses but seriously, this will be a huge learning curve.  just go with your gut feeling and just talk what you want to talk about.  it's a hit and a miss on when some girl will find you interesting or not.
 
 refer to previous thread about "what should i talk about with girls"
 |   |   |   |      |  01-14-2009, 04:14 PM | #9 |   | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy 
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		 |   |   |   |      |  01-16-2009, 12:57 AM | #10 |   | My dinner reheated before my turbo spooled 
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			haha its the new age man.. i dont see why you cant date over the internet!
 
 Just try to find out as much about her as you can (but dont sound creepy..like..WHAT UNDERWEAR SIZE ARE YOU??)
 
 but dont forget to talk about yourself a little
 
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			Talk about the same things you would talk about if you met someone in real life.Current events, life, school, work, family, friends, interests, hobbies, etc.
 
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 |   |   |   |      |  01-16-2009, 03:49 AM | #12 |   | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS 
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					Originally Posted by Hyde  rich ppl dont need respect from poor ppl |   Last edited by b-dub; 01-16-2009 at 03:49 AM.
 |   |   |   |      |  01-17-2009, 03:07 AM | #13 |   | I am Hook'd on RS 
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			Just ask random questions, be yourself!  
 But one tip my friend told me .... is to meet the person ASAP b/c the longer someone talks to the person ... the more they create this false image of them.
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			tell them how you blow all your money at gambling and then liquidate everything to keep it going.  I'm sure girls will love it.
		 |   |   |   |     |  01-17-2009, 02:46 PM | #15 |   | RS controls my life! 
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			lmfao @ wat. i have that too.
 well yeah, make sure they're female first.  groom yourself well before you meet
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