sniff sniff....fair enough (blows nose hard)

- talk about her: her life, hobbies, exes, friends
- talk about the future: marriage (dont mention her being your wife or anything) careers, what she wants to become,
- give her compliments, on her outfit, hair, personality. (dont give her too many though)
- talk about the environment around you and her. (park, coffee shop, movies)

dont talk about her ex's. always tell them straight up the second they have the gall to start that the last thing i want to head about is their last guy.

what are topics that may get you into the friends zone?

or is it not about what topics but how you say it?

school
work
music

knowing what to talk about...i cant do it
i just go with the flow

Ask her questions about herself !!! its not the time for you to poor out your problems... haha..

ask and LISTEN !!! i think that is the biggest problem... alot of times.. they ask but they aren't listening !

haha okay so talking about own problems is baaad.

You: Hey, let's talk about exes
Her: Oh man, there was Cliff.. he was this 6' ft tall black guy and the things he did.. *swoon*
You: Oh.. um.. any others?
Her: Well, there was Angel. her touch was so soft and when she kissed me.. *swoon*
You thinking SHIT this isn't working: What you say we get out of here?
Her thinking about her exes: um.. listen, I don't think this is going to work out, but let me introduce you to a friend of mine. Here, email Alex.
You (sweet! this girl has hot friends).

*couple days later*

Tall blonde comes up to you and says, "Hi, I'm alex"
You: WTF? You're a guy!

Ha...best convo was with an internet find. The conversation was kinda dull as we were both feeling out where to go when we were talking about her music career. All of a sudden she tells me that she got added to a concert or performance by blowing the director.

Totally broke the ice.

We had sex that night. Awesome.

talking about sex is true, and i'm not trying to play with the OP. it does get it out there and it does get the tension off for a while. i mean guys and girls are both focused on the same thing and by talking it out, it works wonders.

OMG to all the guys that said talk about sex.. sry to burst ur bubble but NOO!
if u want it to be a serious thing DONT talk a about sex on the first/second date!!!
talk about anything! school, work, vacas, childhood, family, fav shows, what u do on weekends..... endlessss

How about the size of your penis? Or you're only single because you have a nickname "Big Wang Chang"? That's what I usually do, talk about my penis all night then when I bring her home she whips out a cock bigger then mine.

ahhh....omfg....this thread is so gd....i am laughing my ARSE off in the back of class right now.....havent read of these threads in a long time...