Good "Date" Conversation (first/2nd dates)
 

So if you ask a girl for a date, say over a movie, walk, something like that, whats are some good questions and conversations? something to get the girl interested in you as well.

(Serious responses only please)

There's so much man, just talk about your background, your interests, what you do, ask her the same and there won't be enough time to cover everything.

if you're a well-travelled guy, I've found that travel stories interest girls :)

I'd stay away from money/politics until the 3rd or 4th date unless you're both very mature =p

might as well toss in religion ;) and even mature people can have disagreements that will end up both hating each other lol...just stay away from the topics :D

Talk about sex. It shows that you're an open kinda guy.
Talk about your exes. It shows that you're over them.
Talk about her exes. It shows that you're secure and can handle it if she's still close to them.

Had a threesome? Mention that and you're good. She'll be thinking "my god, what a stud"
Done drugs? Shiet, then describe those feelings while touching her lots. "Man, there was this time I did E and it felt soooooo good when people touched you. Don't you think it'd feel so good if I touched your neck here?"

Hope this helps!

stories. these are the story dates. she tells a story, links to one of your stories and it snow balls. you find out stuff about each other and stuff you have in common. done.

First date would probably be better spent over coffee or something casual where the environment is good for conversation. I never understood why people go to movies on their first few dates because all you end up doing is sitting beside them with no communication during those 1.5-2 hours while watching the movie.

I'd rather spend that 1.5 hours talking and getting to know the person instead.

:rofl this is the only route to success

another vote for sex

get it out in the open - you're a crass individual only interested in what's in her various orifices.

shit, once that's out of the door things can only get better right? Next time you open her car door = someone's getting a blow job in the parking lot afterwards!

sex, stories, interests

I try to veer away family, school, work bla bla bla just cause it can get boring imo. I'll touch on it but never stay on those topics for long.
Its not too much about what you talk about. I just try to make a fun atmosphere, make her more relaxed and laughing then the conversation'll come at you like water through a broken dam.

sex as a convo?
cant say Ive tried it on a first/second date, what do you folks bring up regarding sex?

:lol :thumbsup:

they're just fucking with the OP

Bring it up as a third party example.

For example:

You: Man, my friend told me the craziest shit today! He was in his office and his really hot co-worker came up to him and said "I want to fuck your brains out with my twin sister until you're so tired you can't move anymore" Isn't that just totally crazy?

Girl: oh wow.. yah. That's so crazy.

You: Something like this ever happen to someone you know?

Girl: Oh yah my girlfriend was a TOTAL slutbag before and.. blah blah blah. OR
Girl: Hum I dont think so...

You (regardless of what she says): Neat. Do you think you're adventurous?

Her: yes/no/maybe

You: Oh really?/oh come on.. I bet you are/try me. What's the craziest thing you've ever thought of doing?

Her: I dunno...

You (testing for whatever you want): come on, I'm sure you've thought about (sex on first date/threesome/kissing another girl/etc etc).

Her: yah well I guess...

You: let's do something you've never done before

Her: What?

You: close your eyes

.. she does

*BUKKAKE*

You'll TOTALLY get laid this way.

^^ 0_0 ill try that sometime thanks

how about play the "tell me facts that i dont know about you" game

and vice versa

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i can honestly say this has been the only RS post to ever make me actually laugh out loud really hard, oh man bukkake. i totally wasn't expecting that one.

time to experiment.

da fonz you have one hell of imagination fuck yea!

bukkake involves more than 1 person.
if anyone ever plans to go through with this plan call me up.
I'll be ready

don't tell her your qualities, insteaad, demonstrate it through stories. that way you don't come off as trying to show off

this is true

I agree entirely.

tell stories about your experiences,
it's personally the easiest way for me to speak naturally without awkward pauses here and there when I try to think about what to talk about next.

i said this several posts ago. but no one ever agrees with poor ol bonethug :(

:ratedb: there there, I'll take your advice on the Bros Before Hoes thread.