REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 01-29-2009, 01:48 PM   #51
MoD
 
k2_alpha's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a rainy city
Posts: 3,482
Thanked 1,803 Times in 225 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nvasion View Post
thats why call up the ones that will not be with girls for sure? lol
then you will be in a big group of losers....

all joking aside, it is a really depressing not only on Valentines day, but even the days following Valentines. Feels super stupid/awkward when your buddies tell you about his/her's Valentines.

__________________
Lets street race, first one to jail wins
k2_alpha is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-29-2009, 08:54 PM   #52
RS.net, where our google ads make absolutely no sense!
 
XtC_13aBy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 959
Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts
I find it unfair that there are all these ideas for guys to do for their gals and things to buy for the girls but you rarely hear about what the girls should do for their man. Any ideas??

Oh, and in response to your post, every girl is different in terms of what she will like... It's pretty easy to get gifts for girls as almost anything that is beautiful, cute or pretty she will most likely love. Flowers are not a necessity, but if you really want to, you could combine the flowers with a small gift of some sort. I personally don't like flowers and stuffed animals so I told my boyfriend that I don't want them. You could try asking what she would like. I'm sure she should like whatever you put your heart and thought into though and I'd say it's more worthy to spend all out for an anniversary or birthday rather than Valentine's day which is a marketing scheme.

Last edited by XtC_13aBy; 01-29-2009 at 09:02 PM.
XtC_13aBy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-29-2009, 09:23 PM   #53
I don't get it
 
michimaro's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 440
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Flowers are nice but I would rather it be for a special occasion or "just cause" kinda thing rather then "because it's vday and it's expected" Any gift that shows thought is the best kind of gift...regardless of cost
michimaro is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-29-2009, 11:19 PM   #54
ah_some
 
ah_cat's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: North Siiiiiide
Posts: 9,429
Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by XtC_13aBy View Post
I find it unfair that there are all these ideas for guys to do for their gals and things to buy for the girls but you rarely hear about what the girls should do for their man. Any ideas??
girls buy stuff for guys too, don't they?
by the end of the day, the girl just appears in lingerie or whatever satisfies their man, and it's all gravy after that.

regardless though, it's such a double-standard... which is why i think it's best that both plan out their evening together, rather than the guy surprising the girl and all that shiznit.

V-day is about expressing your love to each other, not to just the girl.
__________________
www.pientertainment.com:
Embassy Fridays @ Pop Opera
Live Saturdays @ Gossip


CoLoRs member #19 [The Enforcer, you maggots!]
RSB #6



ah_cat is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 04:54 AM   #55
Need to Shave n Shower, but I CANT STOP POSTING ON RS
 
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 19,767
Thanked 6,445 Times in 1,212 Posts
make sure you don't end up like this guy

Spoiler!
asian_XL is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 01:01 PM   #56
Banned (ABWS)
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: B.C.
Posts: 2,040
Thanked 101 Times in 57 Posts
trip to whislter and hot tub outdoor and enjoy the scene
silk is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 01:08 PM   #57
Banned (ABWS)
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: B.C.
Posts: 2,040
Thanked 101 Times in 57 Posts
BTW>>> DONT BUY HER ANYTHING ..rather.. tell her a story
v day was invented by bunch of businessman in the early 20s, they pump up the price on everything to make money from the boyfreind who wants to satisfied the girlfreind. V day just a scam..

Just tell your girlfreind this story, she will understand u ... if she really loves you
if she thinks you are bs, dump her !!! move on
silk is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 04:53 PM   #58
Hypa owned my ass at least once
 
Noir's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Japan
Posts: 6,747
Thanked 1,314 Times in 540 Posts
Why do we celebrate valentines day?
Noir is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 04:56 PM   #59
14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
 
Gtrr33's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 655
Thanked 469 Times in 109 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by BoneThug View Post
you should break up with her. thats what my gf did last year and its a gift i never forgot.

ownd.....sorry buddy
__________________
RB26DETT - Inline-6 Twin-Turbo Charged kazitorii tuned
JUN/NISMO/GReddy built motor cars ltd.

{{Statistics are like a bikini. What they reveal is suggestive but what they conceal is vital }}
Gtrr33 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-30-2009, 11:19 PM   #60
WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,638
Thanked 147 Times in 64 Posts
yes, nothing i can do (singles)
danned is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-31-2009, 12:00 AM   #61
OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
 
death_blossom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2001
Location: Vancouver, BC
Posts: 5,064
Thanked 179 Times in 95 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by raygunpk View Post
Night Shift Nurses
__________________
Nullify the Vegetarian crusade!
death_blossom is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-31-2009, 12:57 AM   #62
Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
 
noots's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 321
Thanked 137 Times in 29 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp View Post
LV bag form china town!
She won't know the difference.
No man, it's an LW bag there, well at least at night markets
noots is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-31-2009, 01:25 AM   #63
OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
 
LC21's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: richmond Lah!
Posts: 5,460
Thanked 472 Times in 223 Posts
gift to her favorite store
__________________
My Feedback~



BlAh~
LC21 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-31-2009, 03:08 AM   #64
RS controls my life!
 
Gary Oak's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Surrey
Posts: 707
Thanked 747 Times in 121 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by death_blossom View Post
Night Shift Nurses
JAP TV FTW
Gary Oak is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-02-2009, 06:29 PM   #65
Why'd you do that for?
 
rk604's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 1,395
Thanked 300 Times in 136 Posts
my friend is takin his gf to a restaurant and planning to play the piano for her in public....(fken asshole..makin my planned plan look so bad)..anyways....sth happened between me n gf so...i guess i got nothin to wrry bout now

anyways...most girls that i've known look at the work you've put into to get the present...or w/e it is...so...IF you actually pay attention to what your gf says...then take her to some place that she likes or somthin n just chill.....OR...you can go to one of those DineOut restaurants...never been but....alot of my friends seemed to like it
rk604 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-03-2009, 02:17 AM   #66
Ready to be Man handled by RS!
 
TreeHugger's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 80
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
For a self proclaimed pimp... yeah. It honestly depends on what kind of girl she is. Whether she prefers materialistic things or just going out (simple things. Maybe it's just me, but I find flowers a pretty useless gift.
TreeHugger is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-03-2009, 03:19 AM   #67
I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
 
raygunpk's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: vancouver
Posts: 3,711
Thanked 2,584 Times in 610 Posts
Celebrate a week later or earlier, that way prices are normal.
raygunpk is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-03-2009, 09:39 AM   #68
14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
 
vmec's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 589
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by XtC_13aBy View Post
I find it unfair that there are all these ideas for guys to do for their gals and things to buy for the girls but you rarely hear about what the girls should do for their man. Any ideas??

I'm sure she should like whatever you put your heart and thought into though and I'd say it's more worthy to spend all out for an anniversary or birthday rather than Valentine's day which is a marketing scheme.
I totally agree! As much as I would like to celebrate love day one way or another I don't think it's up to my boyfriend to do something for me while I just sit back and enjoy. How's that fair!?

I love doing small, cute, romantic things for my man. It shows I still put forth effort, reminds him that I'm still working on us, keeping the spark, and showing my love for him.

The things I might do for him include: making from scratch some sort of meal he loves, making him a card, framing a picture, telling him I'll go to one of his "events" with him (one of those I don't really want to go, but I will go becuase I love him type of events... maybe like nutcracker at xmas for the boys...), take him to an action filled no love story movie, surprise him with a little road trip to wherever, buy him a small gift (something he always said he wanted), and lastly but certainly not least is something special behind closed doors. It really is the thought and the effort that counts.

As for flowers... I like them but on valentines it is a little cliche, not to mention that I know he's been ripped off. Buy them on just another day... it means more.

As for suggestions for the man anything of the above will do for her too!
__________________
As Gordon Ramsey says: "Fuck me."

Last edited by vmec; 02-03-2009 at 09:45 AM.
vmec is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-03-2009, 09:47 AM   #69
RS Veteran
 
Conan O'Brien Sex Video's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: .
Posts: 2,047
Thanked 25 Times in 19 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by raygunpk View Post
Celebrate a week later or earlier, that way prices are normal.
that's what i'm doing though it's not even as a "valentine's" celebration.
Conan O'Brien Sex Video is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-03-2009, 10:24 AM   #70
RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
 
Gumby's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 9,262
Thanked 2,318 Times in 872 Posts
We had our "Valentines dinner" in late January and took advantage of a Dine Out menu!
__________________
Do Not Put Aftershave on Your Balls. -604CEFIRO
Looks like I'm gonna have some hot sex again tonight...OOPS i got the 6 pack. that wont last me the night, I better go back and get the 24 pack! -Turbo E
kinda off topic but obama is a dilf - miss_crayon
Honest to fucking Christ the easiest way to get a married woman in the mood is clean the house and do the laundry.....I've been with the same girl almost 17 years, ask me how I know. - quasi
Gumby is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-09-2009, 03:12 PM   #71
Ubereem Mod
 
Gt-R R34's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Richmond
Posts: 3,070
Thanked 120 Times in 63 Posts
keep those suggestions coming =)

It's fun read.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture View Post
sometimes I like to use kindergarten art class scissors to cut my pubes
Gt-R R34 is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 10:54 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net