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hey this girl owes me money and its been way too long. shes basicly ignoring my calls facebook and in general avoiding me is there anything i could do?

thnx lets try to be serious :P

Small Claims court?

wouldnt it waste more time? or cost more? how does it work

how much does she owe $ you

tripple digits not really important i just wanna figure this out its been like half a year

Unfortunately if it's not over a certain amount, you can't take her to small claims court.

Just write it off as a learning experience. Never lend money to people you don't trust. The only people you should ever lend money to is your kids or your spouse.

shit that sucks maybe il go to her work

heres the scenario i call if she picks up she says she has the money but

a) either too busy to drop it off

b) hides for a couple off weeks again

Call her every 10 mins to pay up or spam her phone with text messages if you have a text plan. She'll eventually get annoyed and pay you back. Do you know where she lives?

Go to her house.

Stalk her

Go to her house and talk to her parents. Explain the situation to them and i'm sure the parents will pay you back.

If not, post it up on Facebook and make sure everyone sees it. In otherwords, call that shit out ;)

go to her house and wait there for her candy ass to come home

mutual friends?

Good advice.

Hopefully it wasn't a huge amount that you lent to her.

I would just write it off as a life learning experience. Let it go and if she ever comes running back to you, tell her to drop dead.

yeah kinda sucks i did sometin nice and this is how she repays me.

yeah il start asking around but dont wanna make a big deal outa it cause im the type of guy who likes to stay off radar

If you're going to stay off the radar, you should just leave it and let it be. Let bygones be bygones unless you know that she'll sleep with your and give you endless blowjobs. Otherwise, take the financial hit and ditch the bitch.

I would treat it as a right off..

PS I'm the same kinda person and that's what I would do I have done it before but learn not to do it again but never learn :(

haha damn il do one more attempt but on a serious note i think i learned never lend money to asian chicks lol there good wit #s and know how to keep it away from you :p

I once did that... I called up the guy's house, got his mother, started asking for him. She flat out refused so I calmly explained the situation as best I could without getting toooo pissed off (he owed me about $400). His mother was so embarrassed by the time I finished explaining everything, I got my money within a couple days.

Rather than keeping it exclusive to Asian chicks, how about you open that up to all chicks and not lend people money in general.

exactly, as long as you're respectful to the parents, there's a chance that you can get the money back from them :)

most of the asian parents that i've met would be embarrassed about something like that as well and would have no problem covering their kids' debt to save some face.

trinity - glad it worked out for you. sounds like the guy is a deadbeat though for not paying back a girl (i assume you're a girl?)...sad.

don't bother their family, we're not in high school
then agin, if u want to get back at her, text her thru a website so she has to end up paying email to text feature
just make sure you do it quickly so she doesn't turn that feature off.

thnx everyone for the input :)

sorry burkes lol im just shooked its been so damn long

and the website text thing iunno how that works lol

i feel your pain. This girl owns me money too. Call she never answers, never replies on fb. Only thing left i can do is go to her house which she claims she doesn't live at anymore and ask for her money. Life lesson