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02-10-2009, 01:57 PM
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pff you would say that
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02-11-2009, 06:59 PM
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her: I need this break for more time to myself and without having to worry about the commitment necessary for you.
me: I'm just attached additional stress you mean?
her: I just need more head space. Why are you so stubborn, Why can't you seem to understand it, If you're not understanding, lets forget about it and just turn the page.
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Turn the page? WTF, we were never even on the same page. You think this is okay?
You'll have all the head space you want. I'm not going to wait for you anymore because you are insecure with being limited to one cock. I applaud you though, you were able to treat me like a light post, thinking sure I would stay there and turn on for you when your lights went out.
Oh, and take off those shoes I bought you, I'm not going to be the one keeping you on your feet anymore.
her: I'll come to you, just think about this...
I deleted her contact info/number/etc in front of her.
I feel like shit because I thought we were going strong, but I feel good not having to deal with that period of BS.
We went out for 2 years, and her family has developed a pretty strong relationship with me as well. Hopefully things won't be as awkward as is expected.
I'll get over it...
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02-11-2009, 07:20 PM
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Good job buddy, you kept your cool while doing the right thing.
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02-11-2009, 09:04 PM
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#29 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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Originally Posted by Los Bastardo  The following is a reply from the Anonymous member
Turn the page? WTF, we were never even on the same page. You think this is okay?
You'll have all the head space you want. I'm not going to wait for you anymore because you are insecure with being limited to one cock. I applaud you though, you were able to treat me like a light post, thinking sure I would stay there and turn on for you when your lights went out.
Oh, and take off those shoes I bought you, I'm not going to be the one keeping you on your feet anymore.
We went out for 2 years, and her family has developed a pretty strong relationship with me as well. Hopefully things won't be as awkward as is expected. | Good job on confronting the situation and staying strong on your stance. I really liked your choice of words:
"you were able to treat me like a light post, thinking sure I would stay there and turn on for you when your lights went out.
Oh, and take off those shoes I bought you, I'm not going to be the one keeping you on your feet anymore."
Being close with the family IS definitely an issue, but just like you did with her you have to cut the ties.
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02-12-2009, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Los Bastardo The following is a reply from the Anonymous member
her: I need this break for more time to myself and without having to worry about the commitment necessary for you.
me: I'm just attached additional stress you mean?
her: I just need more head space. Why are you so stubborn, Why can't you seem to understand it, If you're not understanding, lets forget about it and just turn the page.
me:
Turn the page? WTF, we were never even on the same page. You think this is okay?
You'll have all the head space you want. I'm not going to wait for you anymore because you are insecure with being limited to one cock. I applaud you though, you were able to treat me like a light post, thinking sure I would stay there and turn on for you when your lights went out.
Oh, and take off those shoes I bought you, I'm not going to be the one keeping you on your feet anymore.
her: I'll come to you, just think about this...
I deleted her contact info/number/etc in front of her.
I feel like shit because I thought we were going strong, but I feel good not having to deal with that period of BS.
We went out for 2 years, and her family has developed a pretty strong relationship with me as well. Hopefully things won't be as awkward as is expected.
I'll get over it... | YOU are the new HERO in town.
I LOVE it when girls say "Why are you so stubborn, Why can't you seem to understand it.... " that's like the first defense mechanism they pull on us men getting us to start doubting ourselves and making MEN thnik that we need to consider why they need space.
If you ever see the family and asks, just say oh, your bitch daughter *ahem cheated so i dumped her ass. hope she's doing well. okthxbye... and walk away. 
lastly, again, props on "I deleted her contact info/number/etc in front of her.". Everyone on this forum has given this suggestion to people before but you're one of the few that actually did it.
You'll be so happy you're out from this relationship. Keep ur head up high.
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02-12-2009, 09:18 AM
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ill add to the props. not a lot of guys have brass balls to stand up like that, show the girl that she's not worth your time, and move on like she's last week's episode of House. You, my friend are not gonna regret what you did. You will come out on top of this and she will be the one to suffer the lose. We all applaud you here for what you did. You are Zhang Fei among dynasty warriors, Afro Samurai among samurais, and Chuck Norris among martial artists!
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02-12-2009, 09:54 AM
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#32 | | How I Mod your mother
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Nicely done, the way I see it she did have something to hide if she couldnt give you a straight answer
I think vmec was right, she just wanted a break so she could fuck around, then come back
and say she's ready to be a better gf
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02-12-2009, 10:48 AM
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good job bro
from everything, she has to be hiding someone in the closet
but damn, i applaud you for what you did
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02-12-2009, 11:15 AM
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#34 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Originally Posted by haymura You are Zhang Fei among dynasty warriors, Afro Samurai among samurais, and Chuck Norris among martial artists! |  | |
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02-12-2009, 11:17 AM
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#35 | | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
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Originally Posted by 6793026 YOU are the new HERO in town.
I LOVE it when girls say "Why are you so stubborn, Why can't you seem to understand it.... " that's like the first defense mechanism they pull on us men getting us to start doubting ourselves and making MEN thnik that we need to consider why they need space.
If you ever see the family and asks, just say oh, your bitch daughter *ahem cheated so i dumped her ass. hope she's doing well. okthxbye... and walk away.
lastly, again, props on "I deleted her contact info/number/etc in front of her.". Everyone on this forum has given this suggestion to people before but you're one of the few that actually did it.
You'll be so happy you're out from this relationship. Keep ur head up high. | I wouldnt tell her family that she cheated on you without actually knowing for sure.
Just tell them that things werent working out and she wanted space so you two broke up. By making accusations without any proof you are just making yourself look immature.
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02-12-2009, 11:34 AM
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#36 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Totally good for you for calling her out. Now she knows that her version of a break is far different than yours.
Giving time and space is one thing giving time and space for her to screw around with other dudes is something else.
Notice how she didn't respond to your calling her out on be limited to just one dude?
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02-12-2009, 01:01 PM
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that was a nice read
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02-12-2009, 02:56 PM
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#38 | | Everyone wants a piece of R S...
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Good job buddy...but Cliffs man!! CLIFFS!
Anyway, I read some of it and it was obvious there was someone in the picture. She's just using you as a plan b. Girls want what they can't have.
Good to know that there are some real men out here out here...proud of you buddy. You really are a man...now go find a new girl. So many pretty girls in vancouver and I'm sure they will appreciate your confidence if not they can go go ef themselves hah.
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02-12-2009, 07:52 PM
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#39 | | Chinese Guy, Swedish Rides
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Good on ya, mate. Sometimes the harder line is the better line. Quote:
Originally Posted by haymura You are Zhang Fei among dynasty warriors, Afro Samurai among samurais, and Chuck Norris among martial artists! | Best. Quote. Ever. | |
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02-12-2009, 07:52 PM
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#40 | | I bringith the lowerballerith
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good on you op.
it does seem like she is hiding something, probably waiting for the homewrecker to verify and confirm their feelings for her before she breaks it up with you.
and this "her: I need this break for more time to myself and without having to worry about the commitment necessary for you." a relationship is all about commitment. if she can say something like that, then she is already saying you are a burden. in a relationship, the commitment should be a good thing that is willingly put out by both parties.
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02-12-2009, 08:48 PM
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#41 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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Originally Posted by cyy11 that was a nice read | Totally agree its nice to see someone do the right thing for once instead of always being in denial.
Godspied Mr. [Confidential] What's going on?
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02-12-2009, 09:05 PM
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speed not spied
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02-12-2009, 09:13 PM
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#43 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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Originally Posted by BoneThug speed not spied | and polar bear's toes are possessive.. who cares.
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02-13-2009, 12:22 AM
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#44 | | HELP ME PLS!!!
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so did she cheat on you?
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02-13-2009, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Jassanova and polar bear's toes are possessive.. who cares. | if i wanted to embarrass him i would have quoted him so he couldnt change it. some people who are not from this country are sensitive about shit.
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02-13-2009, 12:47 AM
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Eh it's happened to me before. Honestly, we all know deep down there is no other reason for her not to show you her phone UNLESS she knows there is something that would make you unhappy.
Anyway, it's happened to me too, so I know exactly how you feel.
Good job for standing up for yourself. I wasn't able to do it, and really wish I had...
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02-13-2009, 07:07 AM
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like the poster above said, if she doesnt want to show you her phone then either she's doing something sneaky or she's just an insecure bitch. Good job
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02-14-2009, 04:35 PM
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congrats for putting your foot down.
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