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Old 02-09-2009, 07:24 PM   #1
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[Confidential] Sex tapes

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Is it fair to as your bf/gf to delete sextapes that they've made with their ex?

How would you feel if your bf/gf hasa sexteape with their ex?

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Old 02-09-2009, 07:31 PM   #2
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Yes it is fair. Why would they want to watch it again anyway?

I'd feel disgusted
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Delete that shit. No reason to have pics or especially vids kicking around.

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i wouldn't feel alright if there's a sex tape floating around somewhere of the person i'm seeing...it'll be a huge no-no...

sex tapes are a bad idea in this time and age, all it takes is a couple of clicks for the world to see you naked.
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i would burn them

to the ground.
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I got one out there somewhere ahaha, stupid bitch.
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they're just gonna end up on the internet.
so why not?
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Fair enough to ask them to delete it, but the problem comes when they refuse, lie about having deleted it, or spread it around.
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i would start a collection and trade them with my friends like pokemon cards LOL jk
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I feel sick that the guy I'm seeing still has videos w/ his ex. How should i bring this up ...? Do some guys keep it as like a trophie, hence they will be reluctant to let it go.

What should I say if brings out the trust card and tells me to stop being insecure?
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^^ Leave him. Sex tapes with his ex has nothing to do with trust or security.
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If it were me, I'd probably delete it. Just make sure he/she hasn't made or kept any of you. A vid of someone else is one thing, one of yourself is even worse.
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If he tries to even suggest that he has the "right" to keep those sex tapes, lie and say well hell then maybe I should ask my ex for a copy of one of the tapes we made together, keep it on the computer to watch from time to time.
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In hindsight,
if I were to make a sex tape with my ex, I'd probably want to keep it too. *shrugs*
Just food for thought.
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In hindsight,
if I were to make a sex tape with my ex, I'd probably want to keep it too.
Just food for thought.
Ya know what I agree... however, once in a new relationship I'd think it'd be time to delete it. I don't like finding cards or stuffed animals from ex's and I don't think he'd like to find that shit either. And that's minor compared a sex tape. So really out of respect for the new boyfriend and the relationship watch it one last time and delete.
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Quite a few questions I want to ask.

Was it something that you 'found' on his computer or something he bought up?

What happens in previous relationship is the past. Let it go. Doesn't justify you judging him on previous videos when you have pictures of your previous pics with your bf. It's very subjective on what is ok and what's not. Is it ok to have p0rn? is it ok if it was your X's porn? Is it ok to have old pics of prevous lovers or wearing a necklace from previous lovers or is it ok to be mad at him still wearing his old gf's watch from their first love whereas you're using your LV, prada, gucci bags from all of your X bf.

where do you draw the line?
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I draw the line at practical vs. sentimental. If the item or gift in question is practical like a shirt/ table/ cup/ vaccume or TV sure, can't say much here as long as the item doesn't hold a sentimental value it's all good. I don't think it's cool to keep cards, love notes, jewlery, watches, stuffed animals, framed pictures and other shit that does hold sentimental value. IMO.
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Getting back to the original question - I'd give them the benefit of the doubt...maybe they made it long ago and he/she forgot about it and didn't even know it was there.

Ask him/her to delete it and see what happens. If they say no, then kick their ass to the curb. If they delete it, then all is good - they probably just forgot it was even there.

BTW: to the post above mine, I'd put watches into the practical category. Jewelry maybe, but it's not something I'd throw away since it has some monetary value to it.
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BTW: to the post above mine, I'd put watches into the practical category. Jewelry maybe, but it's not something I'd throw away since it has some monetary value to it.
IYO...

A watch given to me is like jewlery therefore sentimental. And just beacause it has to go doesn't mean it has to get thrown away.
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In hindsight,
if I were to make a sex tape with my ex, I'd probably want to keep it too. *shrugs*
Just food for thought.
Any guy would.

I've documented all my previous serious relationships. The OP's BF is just a douche for not being able to hide/keep it from his GF. I tried to refrain from responding to such an amateur mistake.
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