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Old 02-11-2009, 07:58 PM   #1
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[Confidential] Saying "I love you"

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Alright, so when ever my gf and I are hanging out. When cuddling we do some small sweet talk. Then I end up saying "I love you" in response I get an "I know". One thing I don't get is that she says "I love you" over the phone. Is it cause she shy? Because shes the shy type or it could be something else?

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Old 02-11-2009, 08:05 PM   #2
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Old 02-11-2009, 08:22 PM   #3
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Cos she doesn't love you as much as you love her. Stop saying "I love you" until she feels the same way. You will find out soon enough that she will try to please you more.
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Old 02-11-2009, 08:23 PM   #4
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it happens, on my second date with my boyfriend, he's like ' i love you ' and i just smiled and blushed, cause i was shy to say it back to him so i just kissed him.

she's probably shy imo, but the more you're with her, the more she gets used to you and saying i love you will be a snap.
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lol. thats why you never say it. she han solo'd you
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maybe she thinks its weird saying the same thing that you just said?
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Old 02-11-2009, 09:17 PM   #7
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maybe she thinks its weird saying the same thing that you just said?
do you really believe that?
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Old 02-11-2009, 09:23 PM   #8
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Cute, but say it too much too early and IMHO it starts to dilute the meaning. They're strong words and they should stay that way.














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Old 02-12-2009, 07:31 AM   #9
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she probably thinks its too early to say it back
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lol. thats why you never say it. she han solo'd you

best response to an i love you by far
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:22 PM   #11
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Most overused phrase almost that's why!
You see kids dating and throwing it back and forth like nothing.
I feel like it's really lost all meaning if you say it too early or too often.
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she probably thinks its too early to say it back
She says it over the phone though.

This is a weird situation
she's probably just shy
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:19 AM   #14
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Most overused phrase almost that's why!
You see kids dating and throwing it back and forth like nothing.
I feel like it's really lost all meaning if you say it too early or too often.
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Old 02-14-2009, 10:20 AM   #15
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dude dun say it too much or she will think ur saying it just cuz and it would be no meaning to it and she would think u dun actually love her...it's just maybe u love her more now and she think it's not necessary to say it...or u guys have been together for a while that saying this is not something that is uncommon...so just dun wry so much and dun have to say it that much...
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she is cheating on you.
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Old 02-19-2009, 04:36 AM   #17
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maybe she doesn't actually 'love' you yet. the word love is harsh played out nowadays, people say it so easily so maybe she wants it to be special and actually be meaningful?
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Did she look you in the eye when she said it?

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Old 02-22-2009, 10:49 AM   #19
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so when she says it to you over the phone, is it in response to you saying it first, or is she initiating?
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Old 02-22-2009, 12:48 PM   #20
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ouchies hahaha

next time wait and let her say it first or say something else such as "i appreciate you" hahahahaha
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Old 02-22-2009, 06:00 PM   #21
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Words lose their value when they are used too frequently.
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