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Old 03-07-2009, 12:03 AM   #26
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Just bring her somewhere casual. Like Nando's!
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Old 03-07-2009, 12:05 AM   #27
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take her to a korean restaurant on robsons, it cost 10$ , 15$ max, tell her to bring some other girl friends, this way, you may not have to buy her dinner, also maybe her friend is hotter, your 10$ is worth the time
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Old 03-07-2009, 01:34 AM   #28
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I would say to do anything but dinner if that is to expensive to waste on a possible freeloader> if she acts upset that you want to do somthing different then theres your answer!
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ah just go and wing it. if you're really hitting it off and it's going well, i doubt you'd mind buying her dinner. you'll come off as cheap not paying on the first date anyway. deal with the details later, if there is a later. =)

if the date's not going well and you're not hitting it off, why continue? you're the one taking her out, so what's to stop you from saying oh damn i'm beat.. and i just remembered i have some uh... shit to take care of... let's head home. haha.
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Old 03-07-2009, 08:19 AM   #31
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WILL YOU BUY ME DINNER?
Bitch Please!!! WTF who asks that on a text message???
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What's with these brand new accounts always posting up threads with the EXACT same wording on other forums?

http://www.google.ca/search?rls=ig&h...il+addy+&meta=
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Old 03-07-2009, 10:26 AM   #33
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Well pretty much i met this girl at the bookstore while she was looking at the book sale clearance section. i approached her and said hello and talked. pretty much a random approach-sheabout an average looking girl. i did at one point gave her my number and email addy out, and she without me asking wrote down her email addy out on a piece of papaer and gave it to me. we parted since i didn;t have much to talk anymore and said i had to go. see ya

well i emailed her a few days ago, but haven\t heard from her yet. i emailed her again and she replied back today.


i wrote at the top and she replied at the bottom. what i didn't like about her was her 4th line in the email shown below "|Will you buy me dinner". i did previously when i met her at the bookstore say "hey we can meet again and go for coffee" and she agreed. its just weird , but dinner and paying for it for a person i just met and now for 8 minutes. huh
do you think this girl is a freeloader and looking for a free meal or not. i do believe she is from overseas korean.
i'm not making a lot of money in my job,and saving up for things. so its not like a have money to blow either.
i was thinking about meeting again for ice cream, coffee, and check out some scenarious in vancouver area since she is from out of town. imean if i like her then dinner would be a thing.
i'm not even sure how long shes planning on staying in vancouver. i believe she said till sept

i just don't like the idea of her expecting a dinner from me. why dinner, isn;t coffee, ice cream and walk in the park or around good enough . and we don;lt even now each other at all, but for 8 minutes we chatted
what would u guys do in this sittuation-what would u do-

Hi Jenny
How are you doing today.we met at chapters a few days ago
when are you free? want to meet for coffee? i can show you around vancouver
theres this nice ice cream place near main st.

HER RESPONSE

Yes.. I remember you^^ How are you? I was a little bit busy because of my homework. I am free after school on thursday. Tomorrow and wednedsday i have an appointment.
If you are also free on thursday, we can meet together.^^ Will you buy me a dinner?^^
Let me know if you are available or not^^
Take care~ See you
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maybe its a popular situation happening around the world,but now we know OP is not only cheap, he is lazy.

Can't get some with cheap and lazy attitude.
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pretty sure fob's english isn't perfect and its just another way of her saying want to take me out for a dinner date...
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Old 03-07-2009, 01:57 PM   #36
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why don't you do it like this, if she's worth it pay for the dinner

if not, call it 50/50 or just book it

just my 2 cents
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Old 03-07-2009, 05:36 PM   #37
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What's with these brand new accounts always posting up threads with the EXACT same wording on other forums?

http://www.google.ca/search?rls=ig&h...il+addy+&meta=
lmao. BUSTED!
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I was wondering where I read the exact same thing before!

Gah. It's Joe again
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Gah. It's Joe again
Just curious who this Joe character is? Sounds like an infamous guy lol
anyone wanna fill me in?
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Old 03-07-2009, 09:52 PM   #41
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If money is a big deal to you, just take her out to somewhere relatively cheap. She's korean so why not a nice little bubbletea restaurant? Kerrisdale has a few that are decent and with food and drink for the both you, won't be much more than $20.
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Just curious who this Joe character is? Sounds like an infamous guy lol
anyone wanna fill me in?
It's a guy that goes on every single forum on the internet and asks the same question. People give genuine advice and he never acts on advice people give him. He's annoying like that.

ie. For this particular thread.

http://boards.askmen.com/viewtopic.php?t=69981&
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11737201.aspx
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/inde...owtopic=190450
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t178477/
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopic_70416.htm
http://members.lovingyou.com/showthr...hreadid=237801
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=270367

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Old 03-07-2009, 11:56 PM   #43
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If money is a big deal to you, just take her out to somewhere relatively cheap. She's korean so why not a nice little bubbletea restaurant? Kerrisdale has a few that are decent and with food and drink for the both you, won't be much more than $20.
Do they dig bubble tea too? I thought it was mostly a Chinese/egg thing.
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you are pathetic. obviously she likes you. take her out on a date if you're really into her... money isnt the issue here its you.
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does a dinner vs coffee really break your arm & a leg?

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Old 03-08-2009, 05:47 PM   #46
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If this girl's high self-worth is bothering you, you can always incrementally do things to lower her self-worth to the point when you can say to her, "You're sooooo lucky that someone like me is even going out with you!"

After you destroyed her self-worth, she wouldn't dare to upset you by asking for things because she just might lose you.
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Old 03-08-2009, 06:22 PM   #47
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It's a guy that goes on every single forum on the internet and asks the same question. People give genuine advice and he never acts on advice people give him. He's annoying like that.

ie. For this particular thread.

http://boards.askmen.com/viewtopic.php?t=69981&
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11737201.aspx
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/inde...owtopic=190450
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t178477/
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopic_70416.htm
http://members.lovingyou.com/showthr...hreadid=237801
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=270367

and many more.
woww...I highly doubt he met this girl at a bookstore now. Probably met her through plentyoffish.
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idiot. i highly doubt he met her at all.
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Old 03-08-2009, 08:25 PM   #49
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Old 03-08-2009, 09:19 PM   #50
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Just take her somewhere casual and you're good to go. She sounded like she was joking about the "buying her dinner" and using that as a way of asking YOU out to dinner. Maybe she doesn't drink/like coffee and would prefer going out for dinner because that's usually a good 1.5-2 hours.
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