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Old 03-09-2009, 07:14 PM   #1
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So confused any help?

k well this chick i knew back in highschool randomly gets in touch with me. so we go out play pool then go to some drinkin place and have a few drinks she says she used to like me back in the day an shit. and i didnt think she had a bf right now.

so we arrange goin downtown to some lounge the next weekend with one of her friends and she tells me she has been goin out with this guy for 4 years now and i told her i didnt no that (basically saying if i new that i prolly wouldnt be hangin out with u)

so the next day she still wants to hang out even tho she musta known i wanna get with her at some point if we keep hangin out. i met her bf when i picked her up from her place for like 5 min and he didnt seem happy she was hangin out with me, but then so we go to the casino and her bf calls her while were there and asks her to go to this casino hes at and she blows him off sayin shes gunna stay with me. then we went for dinner afterwards till like 4 in the mornin havin a good time.

durin the week im gettin like 30 txt messages from her an shit and she asks me to go to one of her friends bdays with her which ended up at some bar. so i go to that with her and these 2 other chicks an get pretty liqurd up, and go to some restaurant afterwards and when were outside she makes it look like were goin out or somethin how shes always holdin my arm.

now we got plans to go up to whistler this weekend

Im so confused what to do, should i ask her to dump her bf for me? i can tell shes not gunna cheat on her bf when shes still with him. my buddys advice isnt to helpfull lol all they say is bang her an get out. but i want more then jus that with this chick.i could care less about her bf as i dont no him an if he wanted to fight id prolly end up on top.
any help would be great thanks.

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Old 03-09-2009, 07:21 PM   #2
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Old 03-09-2009, 07:26 PM   #3
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She seems scandalous dood.

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Old 03-09-2009, 07:34 PM   #4
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lol thats what i thought but she doesnt act like that around anyone else that ive seen
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Old 03-09-2009, 07:40 PM   #5
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Well it sounds like the wants you to be exact. You you don't care hit it and see where it goes. She may be in a dead end relationship that she wants to get out of and don't know how.
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Old 03-09-2009, 07:47 PM   #6
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well dude.. you're just seeing her nice girl side and not her real self. Keep this mind if she does this to her current bf, what make you think she wont do this to you as well. She's playing both field at once and see which one she likes more.

My two cents GET THE FUCK OUTTA THERE!
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Old 03-09-2009, 07:54 PM   #7
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u make a good point philly lol
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Old 03-09-2009, 07:59 PM   #8
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Perhaps you're being used and don't know it.
maybe she's using you to get back at her boyfriend or something along those lines.
or maybe she's genuinely interested in you.

Whichever the case, she's not exactly a girl who's going for in a long term relationship, if that's what you're looking for. She's gonna need to earn your trust if she's really looking to forward to hooking up with you.
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Old 03-09-2009, 09:17 PM   #10
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Perhaps you're being used and don't know it.
maybe she's using you to get back at her boyfriend or something along those lines.
or maybe she's genuinely interested in you.

Whichever the case, she's not exactly a girl who's going for in a long term relationship, if that's what you're looking for. She's gonna need to earn your trust if she's really looking to forward to hooking up with you.
i agree...why would she get u to pick her up when her bf is around...she sounds like a bitch in my opinion and she'll prob do it to u too if u end up being her bf....
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well dude.. you're just seeing her nice girl side and not her real self. Keep this mind if she does this to her current bf, what make you think she wont do this to you as well. She's playing both field at once and see which one she likes more.

My two cents GET THE FUCK OUTTA THERE!
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You said she doesn't seem like she'll cheat on her current bf but isn't this kind of leaning towards emotional cheating? If she's doing that to her current bf what makes you think she'll treat you any differ? Get out of this situation asap is right!
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Just think, you make her yours and then she wastes four years of your life by doing the same thing to you!
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Old 03-09-2009, 11:49 PM   #13
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Shit smells fishy already.
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Old 03-10-2009, 12:28 AM   #14
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Shit smells fishy already.
^+3 i donno man.. if shes willing to do this when shes already wif her bf.. what about if she ever gets wif u? then what will she do? just my 2cents.. dont take it 2 heart
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Old 03-10-2009, 01:06 AM   #15
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There's several possibilities here:

a) She does like you and is just waiting for you to make a move before she dumps her bf (n the comfort of being in a steady relationship)

b) She's not really interested....she's just bored and/or craving attention. After being in a long term relationship for 4 years, she might just want to feel that she's wanted or could still get a guy's attention

C) She's trying to make her bf jealous/piss him off and you happend to be a suitable person for the job. The second her bf gives her the response she wants...you could be out of the picture.

I agree with most of the posts above me....if she can do this to her current bf what makes u think she won't do it to you?!
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Old 03-10-2009, 01:08 AM   #16
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yeah i totally get where u guys are comin from but to me it kinda seems like he doesnt even hang out with her much and shes lookin for someone else before she ends it with him, like im no expert on this but iunno seems like it may be a possiblity
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yeah i totally get where u guys are comin from but to me it kinda seems like he doesnt even hang out with her much and shes lookin for someone else before she ends it with him, like im no expert on this but iunno seems like it may be a possiblity
Lets put what he doesn't do aside, do you really want to be that someone before she ends it with him though? It sounds like you are really interested but from how she's dealing with her current bf, doesn't sound like much of a catch. Maybe you should get to know her a bit more before you decide what you want to do since you don't really seem comfortable asking or clarifying what's going on with her right now.
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Old 03-10-2009, 01:26 AM   #18
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i know her pretty well she was good friends with my best friend back in highschool and hung out alot, there was always somethin between us but i ended up goin outta country for abit and when i came back she was startin to go out with this guy and i started hanging out with differnt people. and i dont really wanna become that gooda friends with her so i end up fallin in the "friend" catagory
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yeah i totally get where u guys are comin from but to me it kinda seems like he doesnt even hang out with her much and shes lookin for someone else before she ends it with him, like im no expert on this but iunno seems like it may be a possiblity
If that's the case then all the more reason not to go for her. If she's completely comfortable doing this to him now, she just might do it to you someday. That's just bullshit and drama, and it seems like you're taking her rather seriously.
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ok.. so she does this to her bf right now and when you two do start going out, she's gonna do the same shit to you. do you want to bother with a girl like that?? i am guessing that if she's like that around you, there's a possibility she's like that with other guys she's interested in or whatever too.
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1. Bang her and leave
2. Forget about her, she aint gf material cuz she'll do the same shit she's doing to her current bf to you later on if u guys end up going out.
3. Talk to her and see what she "wants"
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I agree with what alot of people said on this board already, what makes you different?
If shes doing this with her bf now, what makes you different than him?
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If shes doing this with her bf now, what makes you different than him?
Truth. Think twice before continuing any further with this girl
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Do what you want with her but the bottom line is, don't get into a committing relationship with her, make sure you make it clear with her that its not want you want cause she sounds like trouble. Like others have said, she will most likely pull that same shit on you. Oh and if possible, make sure shes already broken up with her bf before you bang her, it's such an easy thing to do to avoid unnessarry drama so why not?
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1. Bang her and leave
2. Forget about her, she aint gf material cuz she'll do the same shit she's doing to her current bf to you later on if u guys end up going out.
3. Talk to her and see what she "wants"
Yeah i think this is whats going to end up happening haha thanks for the tips guys
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