IMO... I think that relationship is just a fair game.... if you like/love someone then go for it... other variables are in consideration but not that important... if he/she eventually chooses you then it may mean that you could provide something better for them... if you can't they also have a choice to move forward or back...and its fair to proceed into something passionate once you both break off anyother relationship... or else its kinda cheating

honestly in the past four years there's been a few guys after my gf... and I'm not going to go up to their face tell them to F off or kick their ass. They can do whatever they want to get her interested but I'm doing my share of being a good bf... so we're still together..

dude why do you still care. you're being so weak.

You guys seriously need to fuck. Get it out of your system and out of the way. That way you can both move on when she leaves and not all be emo and reminscent.

Her decision not cheat is only done out of principle anyways, not out of love; she has already cheated emotionally a long time ago. Might as well be the straw that break's the camel's back. If not you, someone else will anyways, so might as well be you.

I'm going to straight-out speak my mind.

Ask her for non-obligated sex.
As Noir says, it's just in the system. After you clean the pipes you'll feel much better. You'll also stop stop thinking with your dick and think straight with your head--then if the feeling still lingers then you either fuck her again or you ask to be in a LTR.

maybe.. but its human nature to emotionally cheat... they may not want to flush it out of their system... sometimes its just always the "what if" that drives people.... "what if I was with this guy, what if I owned a Toyota instead, what if I was ugly..."

But over time it'll wear off once you stop seeing someone for a while.. I mean you won't always wonder what would the soup taste like just because you chose the salad...

Depends, its kinda vague. Especially in how one defines emotionally cheating.

I would say that when one checks out another person of the opposite sex, IS normal. But I define "emotional cheating" to be far more progressed than that.

As the OP already states, they're already cuddling together, already spending time together and already have an emotional connection established. Were it not for her current bf, they'd probably be in a relationship together, or a fling at least.

update 3 for those that have been following... thanks for your help.

there really is no point in asking for help when your mind is already made up. you like her, and it doesn't seem like anything we are saying is making you stop liking her.

she's a dramaqueen who will and is already bringing you lots of it. it seems like you can handle it because you keep on wanting her more so yeah. the end.

let me guess, asian and constantly goes to toronto?

If it is pm me.