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Old 04-11-2009, 01:14 PM   #76
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Old 04-11-2009, 02:28 PM   #77
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Lol fml
like 20 mins after i posted he stoped talking to me
he went on msn
and SHAZM
started talking to me
first he was being rude and a jerk
and then trying to be all buddy buddy and then a jerk again and then buddy buddy
and now hes telling me that
we could have been amazing together and not anymore though because im a bitch
fml hahaha
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Old 04-11-2009, 05:34 PM   #78
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LMAO
hmmm i wonder how i went from being hooked on revscene to a S-S-S SOUL CRUSHER
HAHAHAHAHAH
thats funny
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Old 04-11-2009, 06:00 PM   #79
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i can see this going off topic so let this be the reminder for all to stay on topic and to leave all talking with PMS and msn

enjoy the weekend errbody!

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Old 04-11-2009, 06:26 PM   #80
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Lol fml
like 20 mins after i posted he stoped talking to me
he went on msn
and SHAZM
started talking to me
first he was being rude and a jerk
and then trying to be all buddy buddy and then a jerk again and then buddy buddy
and now hes telling me that
we could have been amazing together and not anymore though because im a bitch
fml hahaha
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Old 04-11-2009, 08:51 PM   #81
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Is it really nessacary for him to be a jerk to me say rude tings and then all fo a sudden just SHAZM out of know were say this

**** said (1:17 PM):
instantly as soon as i met you, i was like... ( and im for serial here ) WOW.. how can i have this wonderful woman for me.. like.. dont mean to sound like a huge creeper but i got chills when i met you. felt i'd be able to relate alot with you..

How does someone go from saying terrible things to saying that!!!
WHAT DOES HE WANT FROM ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 04-11-2009, 09:57 PM   #82
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I was waiting for the day your sentences/phrases would stretch across the page instead of having the 'enter' button being pressed constantly...

For the love of god, just block him. He sounds like trash regardless of any guilt you might feel. You're exploiting this fiasco by keeping in touch with him. If you dislike it so much, why bother maintaining this sort of relationship with him. Tell him no means no, sorry u didn't mean to mislead him and that's that...stop bothering me (you) please.
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Old 04-12-2009, 12:07 AM   #83
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Just block and ignore the guy.
He keeps acting all messed up and retarded and you keep going along with it.
If you really didn't want to deal with it anymore you would've cut him out of your life already.
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Old 04-12-2009, 12:35 AM   #84
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If you really didn't want to deal with it anymore you would've cut him out of your life already.
I have to agree with this, if you don't want all the attention from him block him from facebook, msn and everything else and do not answer or return phone calls/texts
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He wants closure. Give it to him.
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Its hard when he goes through facebook msn text message ..texting my friends nexopia myspace
makes different accounts.

And how do i go abouts giving him the clousre that he wants haha
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I'm sorry but I don't like you/no interest/never going to happen and please understand blah blah
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I already did that ha
this one doesnt give up and refuses to listen ha
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You can make your facebook private. Don't accept any weird foreign requests on it nor on msn. If he harasses you through friends, you can easily report him.

It sounds like you're taking this pretty lightly.
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For the love of god, just block him. He sounds like trash regardless of any guilt you might feel. You're exploiting this fiasco by keeping in touch with him. If you dislike it so much, why bother maintaining this sort of relationship with him. Tell him no means no, sorry u didn't mean to mislead him and that's that...stop bothering me (you) please.
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Just block and ignore the guy.
He keeps acting all messed up and retarded and you keep going along with it.
If you really didn't want to deal with it anymore you would've cut him out of your life already.
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I have to agree with this, if you don't want all the attention from him block him from facebook, msn and everything else and do not answer or return phone calls/texts
You know what's wierd. Sometimes it's not that easy to be mean.

I have my previous situations where I could've saved myself and the other party a lot of grief by being more forward, stern or even cruel just to cut ties. But for some reason, crossing that line from being cordial to jerk is sometimes hard to do.

It takes one hell of a pushing to bring the worst out of another IMO.
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lol how do you make it private?
i didnt even know you could do that

Yeah im takin it a little light because im not trying to make a HUGE deal about it
i mean if it gets worse then yeah ill act differently but for now im not gonna over react about it.
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You can make your facebook private. Don't accept any weird foreign requests on it nor on msn. If he harasses you through friends, you can easily report him.

It sounds like you're taking this pretty lightly.
True. Maybe it's something new to her? I dunno.

Google up a guide or two regarding the Facebook security settings to set; it's too complicated now... especially when trying to keep church elders as friends to humour them but blocking them from all access to your...everything lmaooo -_-
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You know what's wierd. Sometimes it's not that easy to be mean.

I have my previous situations where I could've saved myself and the other party a lot of grief by being more forward, stern or even cruel just to cut ties. But for some reason, crossing that line from being cordial to jerk is sometimes hard to do.

It takes one hell of a pushing to bring the worst out of another IMO.
Been there, done that, and you definitely hit that point on the nail. Just part of learning and growing in finding that balance between being stern and being accommodating.
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You know what's wierd. Sometimes it's not that easy to be mean.

I have my previous situations where I could've saved myself and the other party a lot of grief by being more forward, stern or even cruel just to cut ties. But for some reason, crossing that line from being cordial to jerk is sometimes hard to do.

It takes one hell of a pushing to bring the worst out of another IMO.
Yea I know what you mean. Took me a month before I firmly decided to block someone who was bothering me. Even worse is when you block, things cool down and you unblock and shit hits the fan again.

Holly, check out the security settings on your page. You can make it so that only friends or ppl in your network can access your page. You can also restrict access to pictures as well. Do this after you deleted this dude though. What a nutcase... make multiple accounts to get to you... whoaz
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It just dawned on me that he might step up infront of your door if he has enough stalker ballz. -__- careful there.

I did not feel good when that happened to me. =_=
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Ok i will deff do that right now
thanks

Yeah i hope that doesnt happen to me ha seeing as how he knows where both of my houeses are!
but i dont th ink he will have the balls to be that creepy seeing as how my dads a cop ha
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Ok i will deff do that right now
thanks

Yeah i hope that doesnt happen to me ha seeing as how he knows where both of my houeses are!
but i dont th ink he will have the balls to be that creepy seeing as how my dads a cop ha
Your dad is a cop? lol That must scare away all the boys haha
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Old 04-12-2009, 03:22 PM   #97
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Haha yeah he is a cop he has been at the VPD for 28 years and is a sargent
he actaully worked the RS spring meet
mind you guys i told him NOT to give out any VI

but yes so i dont think that guy will have to balls to come to my house
i think he is just like internet stalker creepy
i dotn think he will go any farther lol
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Yea I know what you mean. Took me a month before I firmly decided to block someone who was bothering me. Even worse is when you block, things cool down and you unblock and shit hits the fan again.

Holly, check out the security settings on your page. You can make it so that only friends or ppl in your network can access your page. You can also restrict access to pictures as well. Do this after you deleted this dude though. What a nutcase... make multiple accounts to get to you... whoaz
Yeah, some guys never change, you block them for ages thinking things have cooled down and maybe they're normal now since it's been so long but no...
It's the same crap over and over again. Some people are meant to be cut out forever. Stalker guys are annoying and creepy as hell. Especially when they try to get back into your life after you've cut them out through your friends and people you know.
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Can you use periods and commas, i found this very hard to understand.
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he's crazy.. obviously trying to push a non existing lover's relationship... i'd be cautious
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