right, i agree with him.

it's best to tell her than to have her bitch about it later

captain obvious...

that's why you lie...

so are you telling me to tell my girlfriend that, that very physically attractive girl that i met *insert location here*, that also likes me, and asks me to hang out a lot, but i can't really avoid her cuz she's always at *insert location that you always go to* (school or work is a good one), is going to meet me tonight or go clubbing with my friends tonight or whatever balhbalh, go for coffee whatever.

yeah fucking right. you have to be as cruel as the cruelest thing on this planet to survive. oh, women are the most cruel creatures lol. i need a plan B, and a plan C, and a plan D...etc. these plans have to be maintained, sometimes I need to find new backup plans incase they get taken.

a woman will leave you for a better man in a blink of an eye. she'll cry about it, she'll say all these things, but you know those are only temporary tears. you'll be long forgotten before you find your next girl.

you have to be as cruel as them, most women, the most cruel, the women best at being women, always have a "good" man. you should be no different. you have to be as cruel and cold as them. you take what is better, throw out the old and used.

yeah, i learnt a lot from past relationships. trust is a must.

TRUST IS A MUST ya hear?

but you also know what, ignorance is fucking bliss. that's why you only really have one shot. if you get caught you're fucked. so good luck. you better be a super soldier and your plans better always lay the fuck out 110% properly. you usually only get one shot anyways, so you might as well fuck around.

treat women no different than your work. be precise, efficient, and don't fuck up, you'll get fired. (don't get caught slacking off/fucking around, it doesn't mean you can't once in a while).

just be ultra smart about it. ninja styles. if you're willing to cheat, at least put in the fucking effort to cover up your tracks.


oh yeah, and whoever said you can't sincerely love more than one woman at a time?


for the record i've never cheated. but it doesn't mean the thought of it, or the temptation has heavily influenced me to do some things I didn't think I'd do. nor does it mean I won't ever cheat in my life. In all probability, I'd probably have to bet money that I will.

What if she's sure to get jealous if you tell her? and at the same time, she'll make a big issue if you don't tell her and accuse you of lying to her? =p

Just something to think about.

that's why you just don't tell her and be smart enough so she shouldn't even have the slightest clue.

if she's accusing you, you're shouldn't be fooling around unless you like being caught and accused.

Just tell her, and if she gets jealous then give her the talk that you and your friend were just chilling and stuff...so atleast if something happens between you and your friend, your gf wouldn't be pissed as much as if she didn't know :)

no

i think it depends on whether you expect your gf to tell you when she's gonna hang out with her guy friends alone. it's a double standard thing i guess.

Then I would've never dated her to begin with.
With me it's a prerequisite.

a little is ok, but some girls are WAAAAY too jealous for their own good