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The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

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Old 05-25-2009, 05:17 PM   #1
I STILL don't get it
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Have you guys and gals ever experience that feeling when you want to leave that place whenever you see your ex / crush ?
Like, let's say you randomly went to a certain place and suddenly seeing your ex/crush right beside you, what would you do?
would u feel awkward and try to walk away, or do you just ignore them and keep on doing what youre doing?

I would like to know everyone's experience

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Old 05-25-2009, 05:54 PM   #2
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say hi and go on with what your doing! BE A MAN!
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Old 05-25-2009, 07:24 PM   #3
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^she's a girl.

I go over and say 'hi'. I befriend her new love interest (if he's present), and tease her about her new choice. If by chance that there is a girl beside me, I'd tell her that the girl is a lot better in bed than she was, even if I've never slept with the girl standing next to me.
Being friendly to your ex and her company demonstrates that you're mature about whatever happened between the two of you, and it also demonstrates your value as a happy-go-lucky person. I've seen cases where guys around me show hostility to their ex's new boyfriend--which is just setting bad precedents.


edit: crushes on the other hand--why would you leave the room if you have a crush on him? lol
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Old 05-25-2009, 07:30 PM   #4
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really depends on ur current relationship with ur ex. did the relationship end in shit, or was it mutual and remain friends?
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Old 05-25-2009, 07:55 PM   #5
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Saw my ex the other night. Reached across the table while he was being searched, poked him and asked "what you don't say hi anymore?" It's not that difficult to deal with. Just be mature and don't let them think you miss them.
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