:haha: someone's been playing too much Left4Dead, but in all seriousness I wouldn't be expecting that money back.

You can pursue it like some members have suggested by hassling her. She'll probably deny having to pay you back like you said. But eventually she might get fed up and pay you back? None of us on here know her so it's hard to say if she'll give in.

"Chalk it up to experience" and never lend money to anyone.

Good luck.

The OP said he lent it to her before the break up. but yea... how much did u lend?

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The following is an Anonymous submission from a Revscene member. If the OP would like to respond to anything said in this thread, please PM me.

So I borke up with my ex about 1.5years ago. Before the break up I lend her some money(not a whole lot but still quite a bit) which she never paid.QUOTE]

Take in consideration that its your words against hers. If you go get her parents involved she can always say. He is lying i already paid him back months ago. With no written documents you dont have a say in any of this.

Even if you did lend her 100,000$ there is nothing much you can do about.

If its not a WHOLE LOT of money than just let it go. And be smart about it next time, dont lend money to others. or if you do make it black and white.

best advise ive heard:haha::haha:

Throwing a condo works too.

If it's that important to you financially, then maybe you should go find her parents. If it's just about rep... like you're holding a grudge against her just because she didn't pay it back and not because of the money... then let it go.

....you think you got it bad buddy???

i lent in total maybe 10grand to my ex while we were living together, she knew she had to pay that shit back, when i finally dumped her ass....i didnt get a penny back..

im kicking myself daily...i see my bank account balance...its not drained or anything...but she definetly did a dent in it...

bitch


dont lend money to women.

Yeah, women are cunts.

All buncha teasers. I can see why some guys go gay but I will never do it. FFFUUUUUU

Umm.. No. You're just bitter 'cuz you = fail@life, just like the OP. :thumbsup:

As for the OP: You're pathetic for trying to 'buy' your girlfriend back. You should forget it and move on.

^ouch stewie....

I'd go talk to your ex-friend rationally...not hostile.....and see what her situation is...

good luck