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snowball 05-29-2009 08:01 PM

I would also like to add that I do not agree with a 27 year old dating a 16 year old, if anything bad really happens in the relationship the 27 year old being more experienced could easily brush it off and get over it, whereas a maturing 16 year old may be traumatized.

Teriyaki 05-29-2009 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Gatorade (Post 6443431)
I would also like to add that I do not agree with a 27 year old dating a 16 year old, if anything bad really happens in the relationship the 27 year old being more experienced could easily brush it off and get over it, whereas a maturing 16 year old may be traumatized.

Which is exactly why the law will be on her side if she ever decides to use that card. Your friend is walking a pretty fine line.

Inaii 05-29-2009 08:38 PM

He's already admitted to sexual behaviour with her. So there goes that point. And her parents can have him charged with statutory rape if I'm not mistaken.

124Y 05-29-2009 08:50 PM

Maybe the guy was a fucktard back in high school and couldn't get laid so he wants to fuck a high school girl right now when he has the ability to get one to be attracted to him...

ScizzMoney 05-30-2009 12:09 AM

Who knows though, maybe she lied about her age or never told him her age or even he may have never asked her age. I work with a couple of 16 year old girls, a couple of 18 year old girls and a bunch of 19+ girls. One of the 16 year old girls looks and acts older than 75% of the 19+ girls. I'm not saying it makes it right or it is right, all I'm saying is that I can see where there can be confusion. In this particular case with these girls at work, sure this 16 year old acts more mature and looks more mature at work. I'm sure when she's at home with her guard down, she probably acts like a 16 year old. So basically what I'm getting at, is he just dating her casually like fucking her once a week? Or is he in a relationship with her and calling her his girlfriend? Fuck buddies isn't so bad, when I was 15-17, most of my friends were having sex, it's part of growing up.

JSALES 05-30-2009 12:18 AM

the girl is 16, i think it is an actual relationship cause he refers to her as a girlfriend and they've been constantly hanging out, hopefully he's not serious about the relationship and is probably just a fuck and chuck

ctsport 05-30-2009 01:58 AM

When I was in grade 12 I knew a girl (17 at the time) who was dating a 26 year old guy and it didn't seem weird at all. The guy didn't look old and he had the brains of a 16 year old so we all hung out like normal lol. :D

achiam 05-30-2009 06:16 PM

If there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!!!
(Giggedy Giggedy)

El Bastardo 05-30-2009 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 6443738)
the girl is 16, i think it is an actual relationship cause he refers to her as a girlfriend and they've been constantly hanging out, hopefully he's not serious about the relationship and is probably just a fuck and chuck


I can almost guarantee this is whats going to happen. Oh well, at least she'll have some nice psychological "Daddy-figure approval issues" going into college.

miss_crayon 05-30-2009 08:48 PM

they are in completly two different worlds
one's a child, and one's an adult
although one can say the both of them are acting like children

if i was a 27 year old male, what would i be thinking towards a 16 year old? a long term relationship? someone i could bring home to mom and dad? please.

and the girl is young so i will cut her some slack but i will bet you guys anything she probably thinks he is IT. THE ONE! or something like that.

KingDeeCee 05-30-2009 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 6443738)
the girl is 16, i think it is an actual relationship cause he refers to her as a girlfriend and they've been constantly hanging out, hopefully he's not serious about the relationship and is probably just a fuck and chuck

And then the guy will go to jail.

bimmer91 05-31-2009 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by SoulCrusher (Post 6441991)
if Im not mistaken she was 16 or 17 at the time.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckY9_ZBVg-I

Please tell me your fucking kidding, your kidding right? yeah i know you are... because shes in her 20's and looks almost the same... you have to be fucking kidding, she can't be 16 years old right here... I don't know what to fucking say wow, I'm fucking lost, wow.............. :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused: :confused:

BallPeenHammer 06-01-2009 09:52 AM

NOT A GOOD IDEA.

EPIC FAIL.

hotjoint 06-01-2009 09:59 AM

that vid clip with megan fox = :thumbsup:

SkinnyPupp 06-01-2009 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 6441962)
I have a friend who's 27 yrs old dating a girl who's only 16, i was just wondering what are your thoughts on this? Do you guys think it's pretty sad or it should be fine since age doesn't really matter at a certain point?

Your friend is a fucking pervert, plain and simple. Fucking pedophile.

you 06-01-2009 02:58 PM

so wheres the pics??

XxFcukxX 06-01-2009 05:34 PM

pics or it didnt happen

quasi 06-01-2009 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by q0192837465 (Post 6442995)
i know someone who's 30 going out w/ a 19. As long as they'r happy, who cares

That seems more exceptable though as the girl is older.

It's like if the guy was 45 and the girl 34 it wouldn't even be a conversation but it's still the same 11 year difference. At 19+ she's an adult and can make her own choices but at 16 she's still a kid.

murd0c 06-01-2009 06:39 PM

the legal age of concent in Canada was raised from 14 to 16 so what there doing is currently legal. But no matter what way you look at the current situtation it's sick. Your buddy is a fucken pervert and someone should talk to him. He's a man going out with basicly a child and it's wrong no matter what way you look at it.

What do his parents thing of it? that's what I would be worried about my dad would have my fucken balls if I did something like that (and I wouldn't cause I have something called morals)

aznrsx1979 06-01-2009 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by bimmer91 (Post 6446058)
Please tell me your fucking kidding, your kidding right? yeah i know you are... because shes in her 20's and looks almost the same... you have to be fucking kidding, she can't be 16 years old right here... I don't know what to fucking say wow, I'm fucking lost, wow.............. :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused: :confused:

She would've been 17 (born May 16, 1986) when the episode came out (Jan 5, 2004).

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0735147/

aznorris 06-01-2009 06:59 PM

if there's fluff on the muff, she's old enough!"

InvisibleSoul 06-01-2009 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by quasi (Post 6447205)
That seems more exceptable though as the girl is older.

It's like if the guy was 45 and the girl 34 it wouldn't even be a conversation but it's still the same 11 year difference. At 19+ she's an adult and can make her own choices but at 16 she's still a kid.

45 / 2 + 7 = 29.5

34 > 29.5 = No problem

SoulCrusher 06-01-2009 09:27 PM

16


she's born in 86
that episode aired 2003

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Originally Posted by bimmer91 (Post 6446058)
Please tell me your fucking kidding, your kidding right? yeah i know you are... because shes in her 20's and looks almost the same... you have to be fucking kidding, she can't be 16 years old right here... I don't know what to fucking say wow, I'm fucking lost, wow.............. :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused: :confused:


SoulCrusher 06-01-2009 09:28 PM

^ yah I was like, holy shit I just jerked off to a 16 year old too

mc25 06-01-2009 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Inaii (Post 6441981)
Not if her parents cry rape. I think age of consent is 14? But parents can still have him charged with statutory rape (not sure on this, it's been a while since I took law). And don't say he isn't fucking her, there's no reason to date someone that young without sex being in the picture.

Yes, the legal age is 14, or I think within 5 years age difference, whatever it works down to (so I guess if you want to do a 13 year old, you have to be 18 or younger)

My $.02, I think that is creepy at that age difference. For someone to date a 16 year old, I would say no older than 21, and they would have to be a mature 16 year old to consider it at 21. As others have said, at a young age the difference in age is more apparent. But when you're older, those age gaps seem less apparent. At my age I don't date anyone under the 4 year age difference mark..usually not out of principle, but those are the girls I meet on campus, in town etc, and I can relate with them.


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