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06-18-2009, 05:19 PM
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#26 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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imo, be honest and tell her your feelings towards her while keep in mind you have the option of not act on it ...
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06-19-2009, 12:31 AM
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#27 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by Orion it doesn't matter... he should pursue based on his own feelings... she has the right to shut him down too.. and if you can't accept rejection then don't think about chasing anything in life at all
its like if i'm going for a job i really want but the employer has hinted that they're looking at some other candidates who has a pretty good chance or hasn't shown interest in me doesn't mean I shouldn't try to get the job | There's a difference between being a pussy and being calculated.
There's also a difference between people who are good at reading situations and deciding appropriately based on reads; and there are those people who are "that inadequate" that they have to fishnet through life to sustain any sort of achievement.
You're no prize to a girl when you've been rejected by the 50+ others before her. There's no pride in being society's leftover. Balance is key. Bravado is good and all but you as long as it's controlled instead of reckless.
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06-19-2009, 03:48 AM
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#28 | | Banned By Establishment
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fuck all girls/guys cheat.
Just gotta accept that people will steal away your mates.
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06-19-2009, 06:04 AM
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#29 | | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
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So first off.. here is a Pic.. 
She Climbed to the top of this water tower, then was to scared to climb down i had to help.. LoL.
anyways..
Thanks for the Advise/insults/suggestions whatever..
Honestly i would feel pretty bad if she broke up with her Current BF because of me chasing her.. As some people have mentioned If i was the BF and that happened i would be pissed.. However i also agree that unless the chick is married shes free game..
So i think im going to play it cool, and just be around but not worry about it a ton.. as mentioned if its going to happen it will. But im not going to sit around moping till it does, something else comes along, im not going to turn it down.. I will give it a couple weeks a month or so and see what happens..
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06-19-2009, 06:53 AM
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#30 | | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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stay friends but dont be too close and see where it goes from there
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06-19-2009, 08:42 AM
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#31 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Dude! that's the best you got to remember her by? That's weak. It's barely a silhouette and her head is facing away.
Hasn't she added you on FB yet? Because you know... that's the first step to a relationship.
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06-19-2009, 09:05 AM
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#32 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Keep it clean buddy.
don't HW. =)
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06-19-2009, 09:07 AM
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#33 | | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
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..... I was in africa with her for 3 weeks.. i have tons of better pics..
Im not going to toss her photo around here like that.. come on..
I just put that one for you photo vultures. LoL
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and she doesnt really use FB, but yes she has added me..
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06-19-2009, 10:22 AM
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#34 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by CA_FTW and she doesnt really use FB, but yes she has added me.. | Facebook Slut  | |
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06-19-2009, 11:22 AM
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man... they in a relationship throwing around the L word, and you think your "lingering gazes, and other things which feel like hints of something.." will win? Thats just your man brain acting up... you guys were far away and nothing happened, what makes you think you can swoop in when she's back and near to her bf...?
anyways, who'd want to be with a girl who'd leave her bf who she "loves"... only a douche would, cuz he's jst out for the ass and doesn't care about the girl.. if you really cared about her, you wouldnt try to bring out the worst in her by making her leave/cheat on her bf~
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06-19-2009, 11:34 AM
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#36 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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^^^ But scandalous sex is so awesome.
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06-19-2009, 11:46 AM
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#37 | | Lomac owned my ass at least once
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I'm just going to echo what others have already said.
1. The song: Ginuwine - What's so Different
- If she's willing to jump ship so readily with that guy, who's to say she won't do that to you
2. Ladder Theory - maybe she just sees you as a friend and you misinterpreted her signals.
What you've got going on: Long Gazes.
What's against you: She mentioned her bf and she tossed the word LOVE around.
I vote nay. Stay good friends with her, but don't be a douche.
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06-19-2009, 01:42 PM
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#38 | | Banned (BBM)
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Originally Posted by CA_FTW ..... I was in africa with her for 3 weeks.. i have tons of better pics..
Im not going to toss her photo around here like that.. come on..
I just put that one for you photo vultures. LoL
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06-19-2009, 01:46 PM
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#39 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by Presto Do it, and watch karma bite you in the ass, as the table turns on you. | this is very true, last chick i hooked up with was in a serious relationship, she actually ended up getting married to the guy.. now its been one long dry spell for me, karma has bitten me in the ass nicely. dont mess around with another mans woman, thats all i have to say.
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06-19-2009, 10:08 PM
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#40 | | Rs has made me the man i am today!
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I'd take that picture down if I were you. Her bf is probably on here and you're going to get your ass kicked.
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06-20-2009, 09:30 PM
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Man, why do you even post here??? lol Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and you have the right mentality.
I'm suprised you haven't dealt with something like this before. Keep it light and fun, see where it goes, you already know that
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Originally Posted by CA_FTW Honestly i would feel pretty bad if she broke up with her Current BF because of me chasing her.. As some people have mentioned If i was the BF and that happened i would be pissed.. However i also agree that unless the chick is married shes free game..
So i think im going to play it cool, and just be around but not worry about it a ton.. as mentioned if its going to happen it will. But im not going to sit around moping till it does, something else comes along, im not going to turn it down.. I will give it a couple weeks a month or so and see what happens.. |
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06-20-2009, 09:30 PM
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#42 | | Moderator
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Originally Posted by Dinan3 I'd take that picture down if I were you. Her bf is probably on here and you're going to get your ass kicked. | LOL did your last gf beat you or something?
Hey, I'd delete your post if I were you. Her bf is probably on here and he'll know you were looking at her pic and you're going to get your ass kicked
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06-20-2009, 09:34 PM
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#43 | | Banned (ABWS)
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lol i assume everyone on this site is asian
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06-21-2009, 09:45 AM
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#44 | | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
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As i mentioned im not going to sweat it.. I will be around, and if it doesnt work out. Meh.. Theres more fish, etc.. as for the Pic, im not worried about it.. Pretty sure he's not the kinda guy that comes on these sites.. If he does and something happens.. well that would be pretty interesting.. LoL
Why did i post.. i just wanted to hear with the rest of the world wanted to say.. i already knew what i was going to do..
ENDLESS thanks for the kind words..
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06-21-2009, 09:47 AM
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#45 | | Banned By Establishment
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no harm in being friends
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06-21-2009, 10:32 AM
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#46 | | NEWBIE ACCOUNT!
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Originally Posted by CA_FTW Why did i post.. i just wanted to hear with the rest of the world wanted to say.. i already knew what i was going to do.. | I feel so used...
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06-21-2009, 08:36 PM
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i happen to be in a similar situation...but it was the chick who was interested in me and stuff happened, never regretted cuz she pursued me
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07-21-2009, 01:22 AM
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#48 | | Need to Seek Professional Help
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go for it brah. ill back you up!!
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07-21-2009, 08:12 AM
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#49 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by 2damaxmr2 go for it brah. ill back you up!! | You're one month behind.
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