You should not be driving, you are obviously a horrible driver to be distracted by one person crying. I've driven numerous times with three screaming kids in the backseat and tons of people do that on a daily basis.

I also hope you don't have children. If your baby was in the back seat and he/she was crying and "distracting" you, you would blame your own baby? Especially if your baby was hurt and in the hospital. Ugh, I'm glad I don't know people like you.

ass hole =.=

You totally don't get it do you?

I don't care if she's a girl, a guy or a gay- it can be a fat ugly ass girl and my opinion will still stand. Fact is she had circumstances to deal with, and guess what? The guy here is too immature to understand those said circumstances. If anyone is emotional due to losing someone important to them, i'd understand. HE SAID IT HIMSELF- THE GIRL DID NOT ACT THIS WAY BEFORE THE BEST FRIEND DIED. THIS WHOLE EMOTIONAL ISSUE ONLY STARTED AFTER THAT HAPPEN. You don't need to be Sherlock to solve the mystery behind this.

People here despise the guy due to the fact that HE had complete control of what could have unfolded. Who the fuck told him to break up in the car? Does he expect his emotionally unstable girlfriend to STFU after he breaks up with her? What kind of dumbass move is that? Holy crap OP- what's your brand of stupid?

I personally look down on him due to the fact that he had full control of the situation but he fucked up and decided to blame the girl. Why did he not stop somewhere if he couldn't concentrate on the road? I personally would've.

If anything- I think tis you who's too quick to put blame due to the simple fact that she's a "girl," am i wrong? If she started "Chris Browning" him or grabbing the wheel and doing stupid stuff- then by all means it's her fault. But you see, even if the OP is pissed- he doesn't mention any of that. Means that shit didn't happen. I'm sorry- crying isn't really a distraction. I've dealt with worst distractions like that. Heck, even Chris Brown beat Rihanna badly while being able to concentrate on the road. Lol

I don't know about anyone else here, but If I was breaking if off with a girl who just suffered a loss, I don't expect her to be quiet- I don't expect her to take it and walk away. Things like this should be expected- especially since it was established that she's an emotional person. As her bf- he should atleast know this much. It's not like they're total strangers and he has no idea how she would react.

And the OP's mentality of "that bitch's fault my car is in this state" is really really immature. Like wtf- no matter who's fault it is- your gf/ex-gf is in the hospital and she lost her ability to run- and all you can think about is the state of your car? Sounds like someone deserves a good beating.

I like how you'd completely disregard the fact that they can be both contributors to the demise of their relationship and consequences arising from it.

My point was plain in simple. It was never about absolving the OP but of appropriating the responsibility to both participants of the relationship. If you had to write a wall of text to rebut that then good for you. How chivalrous :rolleyes:

My brand of stupid? Hahaha, chivalry is probably you're only brand over ever getting laid. :thumbsup:

It was never about chivalry. lol Chivalry =/= Doing the right thing. Doing the right thing is doing the right things, while Chivalry is just doing unnecessary things to try to impress le females- intentional or not.

And I wasn't talking about you- I was referring to the OP this whole time- Unless you're the OP or something.

geesh this ain't gonna be pretty.. =\
i feel sorry for the girl.

well, it's your choice to visit her or not. BUT, I think you should at LEAST to go see her one last time, so you can settle things and... maybe consider taking some anger management classes.

First and foremost, I take it back. I thought you're starting personal shots at me for having partially sympathized with the OP.

I get what you say. Trust me, I completely do. Believe it or not, I was raised the same way. But trust me on this one as well, there are those women that will test the limits of your chivalry.

Though I wouldn't go as far as saying, the OP's exgf is all bad. But I will say, it does make me wonder the quality of her person when you drive your bf to such anger and indifference to your well-being.

as you seem to be saying ppl are assuming that she couldn't have been that bad. You are also assuming that she was driving him to such anger.
We do not know what exactly transpired. It still is immature and stupid to blame someone else. They may have had a part, but the only person you should point a finger at is yourself. Maybe he's quick to anger, Maybe she can cry and scream like a banshee. Who's decision was it to continue driving while she was howling ?
Everyone has been through a bad break up where it happens in such a way that it hurts more, that's not the point, nor is the break up. The point would be the OP is too much of a pansy to own his own decisions.

I hope for her sake he stays well away from her, and maybe takes some time to step back and grow up.

^^^ I represent the other half of the spectrum. Since I observe that most discussions have the tendency to only be one sided and very limited in scope.

you should let your girlfriend sue you for max dollars, since your insurance is going up despite. might as well let her make some money since you busted up her pelvis and leg and that it will never be the same again

holy fucking shit.

i was on your side at first about not visiting her since you did break up with her and she did say something to piss you off. But fucking dude, her best friend died just a month ago. A fucking month is not a fucking long time, even 1 year is not a long time. Imagine you lost your best friend? Best friends are like fucking family to me man.

If my gf's bestfriend just died, i would support her 100% and i would try to help her in every way even though she acts crazy from time to time, because what can you expect?

is this for real? ? ?

this anonymous dude is a douche. no doubt about that. ok this is an old threat but whatever, a car is more important than your girlfriend's leg and inability to walk anymore? what a fucking douche.

why do guys always use that "it's not my fault i did it, she was the one that pissed me off first." grow the fuck up. learn what restraint means and control your temper, fuck. you want her to apologize about damaging your car, how about you apologize for treating her like shit first. :mad: :mad:

Nice display of restraint and control there. :rolleyes:

Every line in your post is intent in only taking shots at the OP, rather than it being subjective just because you don't like the OP. Guess what? You're temperement and immaturity is just as bad as the guy you're making fun of.