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Do you ever feel like this? After a pretty rough week of work I find out that one of my buddies is dating one of my girlfriends. You're thinking so what? Well, this girl and I hung out lots; we did the movies , the dinners, the never ending convo's via msn/txt/call etc, you know, the usual stuff you do when you hang out. I never felt anything for this girl, she was just a very good friend. She was a person i could call on at all times - and 98/100 she'd be there. For whatever reason - i feel like this wont be possible anymore. A part of me is happy that she is hooked up ; however, the other part is sad cuz I wont get to hang out and do stuff with her again. She hasn't told me anything yet - the info just came down the grapevine.. She's an easy person to talk to so I see myself talking to her about this, but I don't want to initiate the first move... Till that happens, has anyone else ever felt like this? /Verb OutZ |
I can totally sympathize, it's really shitty feeling. It's almost like losing her entirely, except you didn't really lose anything. You can talk to your buddy about it--casually of course. P.S. how long have they been dating? |
since you really didnt feel anything for her, then it shouldn't really matter.. shes single and can do whatever she wants. your in the friendzone anyways, so just ride it out now. |
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He had asked her out sometime last week? I dont know what I'd say to my buddy though - He's pretty chill but I cant say that "hey i wanna hang with ur gf as usual" I'm sure there'll be some give and take... Quote:
You are exactly right , she is single and can do whatever she wants. But the feeling is pretty bad , everytime i think about it my heart just sinks... |
well, you should think at the bright side...you can now hang out and talk with your buddy and her at the same time. |
^ i lol'd |
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i think this pic describes my feelings , even though i do not realize it... http://photos-f.ak.facebook.com/phot...366357_184.jpg so how the fuck do u ride out this feeling |
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no need to feel guilty |
life goes on... plus you said yourself you didn't have those kind of feelings for her. |
i think its like after you lose it then you start to appreciate its like losing someone close i know *pats* dont worry just be cool you'll be fine |
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i've been thinking about this shit all day long. I dont know if i like her or If i just like the hanging out / talking. is there some criteria i check my self against for liking someone ?? i know it sounds like a dumb question - but i'm seriously confused ... |
So...how come you don't have a gf? |
how do you not like her but feel jelous? dicks before chicks man you just gotta find more guy freindz yo |
yeah what asian XL ask why not get a girl friend of your own she'll be the next close buddy and lover win and uhh win win |
sounds like you might like her man. but like some other poster said, you appreciate it once it's gone. just gotta move on now. find other stuff to do, keep yourself busy. you can't go wrecking your friends. |
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To tell you the truth, the fact that you are feeling crappy tells me that you like her. if she is just in the 'frienzone', you can't possibly feel as crappy as you are feeling right now. like others mentioned, nothing much you can do about this right now...just ride it out...going to meet other girls will help. |
I had the same situation as you, and the guy told me not to talk to her, They broke up in less than a month :haha: asshole |
Maybe you don't like her but subconciously, you just don't like people trespassing on your resources ;) (whether those resources are currently being used or not) edit: There's no shame in this if you find that there's partial truth to it. We guys can be a selfish lot sometimes. |
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I dont wanna go wrecking things.. or have him go on a tirade saying i stole his gf or anything... Quote:
Though i'm feeling crappy, i dont think i see my self getting physical with her. one my friends said if i dont see my self getting physical , there is no attraction... meeting other girls might help , but for some reason , like i said above , i dont seem to care for them as much anymore... Quote:
did you see your self getting physical with the girl? |
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So how do you fix it? How do you be happy when someone is "using" "your resources"? |
want to know how to fix it? GROW A FUCKING PAIR! there are far too many women out there, to be hung up over one stupid broad. you gotta turn your cock into "jasons shank" and pretty much try to stick it in anything that moves. |
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Sorry bro but that's the truth. We gotta man up some and take it. |
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this shit is insane, the more i think about it the more i get confused... |
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Sometimes when there are no time pressures and you don't have to make a move the transition from friend to couple can take awhile. Now you will get to see her in another light. I don't think you've lost her completely, unless she decides that being you never made a move that she is done with you. you snooze you lose. |
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