lol.. thanks, i actually laughed :)

thanks alot again for being on my side of things, i recently realize we got more mutual friends than i originally thought of, so most people tell me exactly the same thing, they also told me, "if she didnt like you, she could have used a much harsher way of refusing or rejecting and make you never want to see her again"

i will keep trying, as i said in the original post, i really like this girl, and im really interested and determined to go a few extra miles to get to know her :)

not true... my friend is a living example as he's not overly attractive nor rich but has gotten an educated/attractive girl working at a K place for part time

my uncle is also another example but my aunt didn't work at a k place... she was a waitress

point is... just go for it... what do you have to lose... not like u guys are going to be the tightest friends ever... and as somebody on the forum once said... even friends aren't always forever... in the end you guys might just be nothing

+1 ... you wouldn't want a girl who advertises her contacts around anyways

thats what i figure.. and i definitly dont want her to put me in the friendship zone.. so im doing my best :)

nope.. and my friends have told me about that as well.. at first it was painful to take.. but now its as if it was a good thing :)

a little update :)

went to sing k again on tuesday night.. didnt talk to her as much.. but i approached her to appologize for my pushy attitude previously.. she was nice and easy about it.. and told me it was nothing dont put it on my mind.. thru out the time i was there we chat little by little.. near the end of the day, she was falling asleep at the counter.. and i was curious at those little toy vending machines.. where you put toonies in and get a cube with toy inside.. i had no idea what exactly is it im getting so i asked her to show me.. she came out of her counter and basically duck down beside me as it was the lowest machine.. we were both there wordless for a bit.. she was tired.. but i find it weird yet very special how she stayed beside me thru out the whole turning the toonies thing..


she didnt seem very happy afterwards so i asked her whats wrong?
she told me shes tired and was having a headache.. so i mentioned about a type of medecine she could get that can prevent her from getting sick working at places like that.. she acted thankful.. :)

wednseday morning i went to her work and dropped off the medecines i have left at home, but she wasnt working.. i guess she took a day off.. so i just lefted it with a server there.. and left my name..

hopefully things turn out good :)

Just a word of warning :)

But you got to be careful at attaching meanings onto things. Now don't take this the wrong way but... How would you feel if she displayed the same show of kindness to another patron?

Just something to think about and keep oneself in check. ;)

no digits means not interested

No offense bro but you're starting to sound like a creeper...

This is totally sounding like the "Raisins" episode of South Park, and the OP is Butters. OP is about 3/4 way through the episode, now.

i suggest you to intro your parents to her

us asians read too much into things
we look for "signs" waayyy too much

"ohhhhh shit, she brushed my shoulder, ok i think she likes me, yes!!"

and then couple years later we wait for another sign to confirm...and fuk shes already dating another dude

like just ask her out already right? lol ..if she doesnt like u then she doesnt dig you

I think you're getting closer and closer, next time you go she'll probably thank you for the med- with her number!

http://images2.fanpop.com/images/qui...02_466_300.jpg

btw have you seen this south park episode? goodluck:thumbsup: dont forget the updates :D

Oh man this is 100% like the Raisins ep!

For the op's sake I hope it doesn't end the same way but frankly, it really sounds like it will.

If you wanna keep pursuing her go ahead, but if it involves you blowing a lot of cash on her than she's just taking you for a ride.

Maybe try a different approach. Next time don't show her so much attention. Give her a tiny bit but then ignore her for most of the night. Show some disinterest. Bring some girls to sing see how she reacts to that.

Man where's physixx on this one.

go the william hung way and sing some ricky martin, if you don't get her at least you'll be famous where your bound to attract all kinds of girls

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RrLQUN8UJg

you're trying too hard still. from the looks of it she isn't into you so get over it.

your being played like a fool. give up.