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hirevtuner 09-15-2009 10:41 AM

just tell her that u will leave once you find a place (presumably under 30days) and leave it at that

shenmecar 09-15-2009 10:42 AM

Wtf, tell your dad to spank her.

If she insist on 700/mth, then you might as well move out. =_=

//RacingSpirit>> 09-15-2009 10:43 AM

Well, if your relationship with your mom isn't great and you don't mind souring it up more, you can plant bamboo shoots in both the front yard and back yard before you leave (once they start growing, they go everywhere and it's near impossible to get rid of them).

Dragon-88 09-15-2009 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _Hotsauce_ (Post 6593488)
I don't know why she's charging me more, all she stated was "It's not working out with you living here" yet I'm super quiet and have done absolutly nothing to get in her way or change her regular life routine.

I paid her for my first month (September) which was for $350, I also have saved emails discussing the amount to be paid. Does she legally have to give me 30 days notice? Because that'd be wonderful, as much as I like trying to find a place in 14 days!

I'm not too sure, but based off my experience with shitty tenants. My family owns a low-mid income appartment (10 suites) Weve had some pretty shitty tenants.. Some that we have evicted and they come back and squat. So at this point I asked my uncle (part owner) if he accepted payment for like a 4 day stay, since the tenant was having troubles looking for a new job and place to stay.. So we let him stay in the place for an additional 4 days free or charge. I asked him why we didnt charge him $20 for the 4 days and basically he said once we accept payment its an official payment for rent. I'm pretty sure what I am saying is true since my uncle is also a realtor... But dont be to sure.. I would just double check to make sure...

kuri 09-15-2009 10:51 AM

Stop emailing or leaving notes for one another. Talk to her in person first and see what her problem is.

If she continues to be an unreasonable bitch, take action then. Move out, sue, trash the place, whatever. It's your call since it's your own mom-and-son relationship that you'll be risking. It depends on how much if at all you value that relationship.

_Hotsauce_ 09-15-2009 10:53 AM

^
I didn't end up sending the email, as I felt it would just escalate the situation. It will be brought up tonight and see how it goes. I'm already planning on being out by the 1st, as this is just bullshitttt.

DC5-S 09-15-2009 11:02 AM

you should ask her why are you even charging me? im your son for godsakes.. my friends parents would never do that.. lol

the_rickster 09-15-2009 11:11 AM

actually reminds me of a situation i was in a while ago.

i bought a condo downtown and didnt take possession until two weeks after i lost possession of the one i sold in coquitlam... she OFFERED to let me stay at her place for two weeks.

she does the motherly stuff like laundry, etc... then about a month later (two weeks after i left) she comes asking me for the $650 i owe her.

SIX HUNDRED AND FIFTY BUCKS.... for TWO WEEKS!


needless to say, i gave her the money and hardly pick up the phone to call her anymore.

_Hotsauce_ 09-15-2009 11:15 AM

^
I won't be speaking with her that often after this pans out. That's a pretty shitty situation though, haha.

silk 09-15-2009 11:39 AM

OP must be a white guy

Noir 09-15-2009 11:46 AM

FYI, she's not going to sue you if you default on your Oct. or Nov. payments.

That being said, I would start looking for a place to move immediately, but I would ignore 15 days (end of Sept) deadline.

_Hotsauce_ 09-15-2009 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by silk (Post 6593588)
OP must be a white guy

Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. :(

hk20000 09-15-2009 12:07 PM

$700 gets you a pretty sweet suite around SFU area with a hot roommate.

Dragon-88 09-15-2009 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by _Hotsauce_ (Post 6593621)
Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. :(


HAHA you need something to bring them all together... WEED!!!!!

My brother and sister used to not get along with eachother let alone with me.. Then we realized as we were growing up that we all smoked weed.. Next thing you know were in my mom's garage having peaceful conversations while toking up... Mom would walk in open the door see whats going on and leave... Sometimes we even make fun of her because her siblings like to start arguments, even at the dinner table... Then we make fun of them saying hell my brothers and sister doesnt fight anymore why not try what their trying .... The "Peace" Garage...

Blinky 09-15-2009 12:26 PM

You shoulda sucked it up when your mom curbed your rims. Now she's banning your ass and getting her "curb money" back.

:D

Meowjin 09-15-2009 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by silk (Post 6593588)
OP must be a canadian guy


fyp

tiger_handheld 09-15-2009 12:45 PM

I was hoping to get Bel'aird but it seems like this is for real....


I bet she can rent it out for 8-900 , and thats why she wants you out!

Ferra 09-15-2009 12:49 PM

I thought you were just joking in the beginning...guess not

seriously...she is your mom, just move out and go on

I never understand how some people can end up in such a sour relationship with their family...
I wouldn't hesitate to give my wealth or even body parts to my (close) family if any of them needs it, and I am sure they'd do the same for me.

you! 09-15-2009 12:55 PM

aint that a motherfucker

Meowjin 09-15-2009 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ferra (Post 6593688)
I thought you were just joking in the beginning...guess not

seriously...she is your mom, just move out and go on

I never understand how some people can end up in such a sour relationship with their family...
I wouldn't hesitate to give my wealth or even body parts to my (close) family if any of them needs it, and I am sure they'd do the same for me.

grow up with a disfunctional family and you wouldn't be saying that.

hotjoint 09-15-2009 01:31 PM

damn, your mom is trying to own you. Yeah like everyone said get out asap and cut all ties with her. That'll teach her!

pandalove 09-15-2009 01:31 PM

LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...

yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh

Meowjin 09-15-2009 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by pandalove (Post 6593763)
LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...

yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh

get the fuck out of my country.

hotjoint 09-15-2009 01:36 PM

Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though.

Jsunu 09-15-2009 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hotjoint (Post 6593768)
Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though.

Not mine :(

But it teaches financial independence so its all good :)


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