^ LOL

let's keep the off-topic chat out of here please

Here's a DATING pointer I'm sure some of you can appreciate... MSN = cockblocking you like a mtherfcker

You can talk to her for like 6 hours straight and leave the convo thinking 'ooh that went well' with a warm fuzzy feeling inside lolol, but in the bigger picture you're still getting nowhere with her. Keep reading...

The only reason you should have a girl you're interested in on your MSN... is because you don't have her number yet. Once you've gotten the numbers to the hotline, delete her off your MSN. You have better ways to contact her now - and she has to call or text to contact you now. Try not to contact her for the sake of it. Have something you actually want to talk about, or call her instead so she can hear your voice...otherwise you're just a bunch of desperate letters on a screen like every other guy that texts her. Keep things light. Save the good convo for in person.

Your cell is a tool for inviting the girls you meet out, so you can spend time with them, and talk face to face aka. a DATE... not chatting with them for endless hours holding a little piece of plastic in your hand.

And MSN is for keeping in touch with old and new FRIENDS. It's extremely impersonal and not a good way for getting to someone... if she complains, let her know that.

why couldn't this be posted earlier... garhh

its hilarious when RSers make mistakes

they either blame it on weed or alcohol

"im too high or too drunk when i was typing"

YAHH RIGHT!!!! haha

own up to your mistakes !!!

haha

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i agree with the OP

and the MSN

its way too informal

cant get anywhere with a girl

unless you get her number
and even then if u get the number dont get happy yet
its a step tho!

lol i love going on RS when im high/drunk

I love endless.. <3

let me sum up some points for you, this applies to dating and hooking up not relationshits

1) keep her interested in you, not the other way around, make sure she knows you're interested but dont be spending too much time doing frivolous chit chat, that's friendzone bound behavior and should be reserved for dates

2) build your own value, everyone probably thinks they deserve the best, make sure you convince yourself the same and she knows that your time is worth something, this way she wont be wasting/using your time up and will take you a lot more seriously

3) learn how to be a conversationalist, im not sure how to put this point in words but when i do ill share asap

4) relate to one another, share/lie on topics regarding perspectives on life etc etc etc, so they feel more comfortable and actually feel/think like "finally someone gets me", even if you dont, that's a fast way to getting into her pants

all is fair in love and war and sex but remember to wrap it up

that is all for now