I was in same situation (minus the preggers) and it played out differently than this situation. At that specific moment all I had at that moment was feelings of rage and betrayal. Never before have I felt the need to inflict physical pain towards an individual before. Yet i held back, not because of some fucked up sense of a need to adhere to social norms towards women or an allusion to my so-called "pansyness", because all there was was anger.

But I did what i hope must people would do, separate what their base instincts and emotions wants, and follow my rational mind. What the fuck would physical abuse gain? So I just walked away.

But thanks for making sweeping generalizations for myself, of whom you are not in a privilaged position of knowledge.

I applaud you for your actions then. :thumbsup: You're a better man that most people here would be.

I think I'll beat the shit out of you, because deep down inside you know you love it.

PM us your address and the RS beat down crew will be happy to do it - for free.

In fact, we'll just kill you and put you out of your misery. Your parents did not do good enough of a job. Pansies........... wimps. That's right, your momma is a pansie and your daddy is a whimp. Which is why you are who you are.


J/K

Thanks but I'll pass- I'll let you know if I think I ever need one though. =]

You'd make a great dad. You teach your kids well now, you hear?

Great role model right there.......

What? I got my fair share of beating when I was a kid. Glad I was beat- least I learned to think more than twice before doing something that could potentially be stupid.

But hey I wouldn't know- I'll get back to you on that once I have kids.

Self flagellation is pretty popular these days......... I deserve to be hit today. I think I'll do it myself.

OUCH! I'm a bad little boy, OUCH!

Harder, OUCH!, I feel much better now.............

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Chick in the story.........

I think I'll go tell my boyfriend I cheated on him. Oh, he's pissed now....... wow, that hurt. I wasn't really pregnant, but holy shit, that hurt. He loves me, he really does. He cares about me, you know........... he needs to work on his backhand........ asshole, hit harder. You some pansy? My grandmother hits harder than that.

So in your opinion, the fact that she cheated she's got 2 options:
1. Get beat
2. Get yelled at and have people on her side?

The fuck's wrong with you? I think those beatings when you were young did more damage than good buddy

She doesnt deserve people on her side, but she most definitely doesnt deserve a beating. I feel that she does deserve the embarassment, however.
Being engaged to someone but cheating on them and getting pregnant?
Thats inexcusable. But your way of going about it is fucked up..

You must be one of those guys with those gay hairstyles that zhangfei posted

You know- you're cool and all. But your maturity level's really dropping. Get back to me once you start acting like your age again.

That's totally up to the person she's with right now though, no?

Let me revise my comments- Sure violence is wrong and all, but if she got beat- she deserves it.

Like I said- embarrassing her in public isn't any better- you might as well have beaten her. You're not any better of a person either way. If you're gonna argue with me- the only way to convince me is to say "I'll walk away and not do anything" like Jsunu did.

Oh- and don't start with that "because I can't argue any better- I'm gonna start with personal attacks." Real classy.

it's on their murtaugh list

What's messed up, is the rule that you can't hit women.

I have my morals, standards and patience but they're not infinite. I swear, I've known some women who even use this rule to their advantage.

I bet these things happen so often in China that we are just arguing for no reason. If we have a discussion like this every time this topic is posted, we would soon not give a rats ass about it anymore. I bet as I type this, another man is beating on his girlfriend/wife for cheating on him. Vice versa too.

So therefore:

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y22...c0d562f410.jpg

LOL whatever goofy haired guy

btw- I'd like to know- what's this goofy hair picture you speak of? =/

actually, the fetus doesn't have to be a person yet for the male to be charged with murder. As jeff said, yeah he won't be charged with murder since that only applies to "babies" that aren't in the womb of the mother anymore, he can actually be charged with feticide (the killing/intentional murder of a fetus) depending on how old the fetus already is inside the mother's womb.

- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feticide

In this guy's case though, i'd say he probably wouldn't get charged since the baby probably is still in its first trimester.

You are all assuming that she cheated because she was taking a pregnancy test. In a culture that is primitive enough to see this beating as normal and that she deserved it I wouldn't be surprised if the pregnancy was the result of a rape that she would be too ashamed to admit.

:lol shit

I guess you don't understand Canadian law.
If a man was to come into my store and steal something and I beat him like that I would be in jail.

Does anyone know how she got pregnant for all we know she could have been raped.

So she should be beaten for getting raped, according to some people here.

You'd figure the human species has evolved past animal instincts..... actually, even animals don't .......... nevermind.

Circumstances were for cheating. Not rape. Rape would be a different ball game.

If "CHEATING" wasn't on the topic title- I would've viewed it differently.

. However, upon “accidentally” finding a pregnancy test result in the fiancée’s purse,

And does that stop the many "violent" comments in this forum in the topic of theft? Car theft being one example for instance.

I wouldn't sympathize with a beaten up car theif. I also wouldn't sympathize if a girl strikes a man for cheating, neither would I if a man struck a girl for the same.

ignore this case

but u wonna speak of car theft?

they should be shot, not beat. Or 2nd option, have their hands chop off so they shall never steal again.

Two choices

no im dead serious

Or in Canada option 3, slap on the wrist for almost anything

I'm on the fence on beating kids. Notice that the gangsters are getting younger and younger? These kids don't know about consequences. They grew up in the past twenty years where it was taboo to beat your children. When I grew up, I learned that you get burned if you played with fire and you get beats if you do stupid shits (both experienced first hand). Back in the day, you never heard of old ladies being robbed at knife point by a 12 year old...

Dunno, just an observation. I'll figure out what to do when the time comes.