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Originally Posted by The_AK So this has been bothering me... for a long time..
How do people choose their religion and justify what they believe?
What reasons do people have to believe in the religion that they currently do?  |
Ok, past observations on forums like revscene that deal with this topic tell me that it's not worth the time to reply... but hopefully the less vocal, but interested readers will enjoy the conversation here before the thread goes down in flames...
In any case, many responses so far have dealt with "why I think <insert religion/faith group here> is not as good as what I believe." Many responses address why you think religion is irrelevant.
But that's not really the question.
If I read the OP correctly, he/she is asking essentially, "Why do people believe what they believe? On what grounds do people make their faith choices?"
Everyone believes in something that they use to make sense of life, purposes, guiding morals, etc. So that's the way I'm answering the quetsion. Religion/faith/worldview is the set of morals, overarching principles, belief system that one chooses to use to view the world and their place in the world (be it Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Universalism, Atheism, Rationalism, etc).
Now to actually answering hte question.... Most are correct in saying that family and culture play a huge role in defining this. And like many who have responded already, you hit a point where you begin to question whether what you believe (or told to believe) actually makes sense of the world you see and its problems. So you take what you know and learn, combine it with some personal experience and hopefully observations of genuine adherents to the faith/religion and come up with what you believe. At least I hope that's what people do. Without thinking and interaction between your religion and the outside world, you either get fundamentalists (of any faith group) who are intolerant of anything contrary to what they believe, or you get people who just plain reject it. But faith/religion I think is more than a personal intellectual/philsophical quest. I think if your faith is really your faith, it affects how you relate to others, how you act and your attitudes. Otherwise, it's just a bunch of hypothetical/philosophical balony that you use to justify yourself before others.
So after processing what you believe, we see some of the results in this thread...
Some have given up on their family faith/religion because of disappointment, abuse, hypocrisy, etc. Some stick to it out of tradition and family/cultural loyalty. Others find other faiths/religions that seem to make more sense. Others explore (like me) explore whether what I've grown up in actually is worth believing in and find much contentment in it.
So whatever category you are in and if you are willing to acknowledge the world is bigger than you and your feelings, then you will at some point have to confront some major questions about what you believe... and come up with your "religion", "faith", belief system, whatever it may be.
If you've got this far in the thread (and in my response), then you're either interested in proving why what you believe is better than others here, or that you genuinely want to figure it out your "religion" for yourself. If it's the latter, then I hope you take the time to investigate and genuinely ask the tough questions about the world, life, its meaning (if any), and the problem of suffering and evil. Take some time for it. Talk to people who are genuine, reasonably knowledgable AND practice what they believe. It probably is worth your time.