if the girl is into the guy, the more available the better, should be an easy close, seems like the girl in this discussion is a tease

well actually it depends
i know attraction is not a choice

but if the girl is smokin hot and im pretty sure she has a handful of guys doing w/e she says and wants then
that guy is just another tool
not saying specifically to the OP
but in general

but i think if ur tooo busy, it might send the wrong message as well.

^^ its all about balance

but when it comes to dating theres no rule

its just ya u gotta go for it
like the OP did
he confessed
no beating around the bush which is good

well.. heres the thing.. i live in surrey.. i work full time in langley.. lots of customers i deal with.. and the girl knows i have a life.. i dont need to hang out with her as i can really just stick with my other buddies or i got other girls i can call to hang out.. (strictly as friends) so i dunno about her thinking i have no life.. as for being too availiable.. i now feel maybe i was.. but all that is going to be changed.. if she calls me i will consider showing up.. but if she doesnt call i will not bother her nor will i consider chilling with her.. and i've asked all my friends to stop mentioning me around her..

Good job shes history, now move on and hit up the clubs! ;)

^Nobody likes to spend xmas/NY single, time to hit on those horny and single girls out-there.. :D

+1, at least you didnt find out about this too late, wasting all your gas from langley to richmond for joining the friendzone.

u lose.
girls are flirtatious.
u fell, now just stand up and man up.
move on.
the end.
good bye.

not that it really pertains to anything but 2-3 serious relationships when you are 19 do not count. so she has never had a serious relationship. that is the way you should treat her.

Least you save gas.

don't dwell on it too long... there's nobody you can't get over, especially a girl you haven't dated...

just because you spent so much time chatting and hanging out doesn't mean its wasted... everybody had fun right

its true it gets lonely sometime

Wow that sucks man... hopefully this situation doesn't become a reality for me next week when i confess how I feel about a certain girl haha

what's with all this confessing going on...?
don't people say girls are better at reading body language than guys? jebus...
operate like she already knows

good on you guys RS! after a bit of awkward times.. had a few more chances seeing her and hung out with a bunch of people that she knows.. started to hear some things here and there and realized that shes not the type for me and i will not be happy even if we made it.. so im glad :)

seeing new girl! will post shit up soon haha hopefully a good one..

good for you! so happy for you!

good comeback, don't fudge this one up