REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 10-26-2009, 08:24 PM   #1
Official Texas Ambassador
 
El Bastardo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 10,135
Thanked 5,356 Times in 1,206 Posts
[Confidential] Not my business?

The following is an Anonymous submission from a Revscene member. If the OP would like to respond to anything said in this thread, please PM me.

My cousin is living at home and a few years back, his gf moved in with them. Nobody in the family likes her because she stays in her room all day, doesn't talk to anybody, doesn't offer to do chores, nor pays rent. She is the worst in-law possible if you think about it.

I learned over the weekend that this girl now has a new boyfriend but this is where it's messed up - she still lives with my cousin and they stay in the same room! She'll go stay with her new bf over the weekend and comes back home to my cousin's house during the weekday.
My cousin has no backbone so he won't say nor do anything about this. Everybody wants her out but can't say nor do anything unless my cousin does so. Should I intervene or should I let this be their own problem? I understand my family's desire for this ho-bag to leave but at the same time, I don't want to fight anybody's battle.

Any advice appreciated. An no, the girl isn't very hot. Thanks

El Bastardo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 08:33 PM   #2
I bringith the lowerballerith
 
hi-revs's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: vancouver
Posts: 1,102
Thanked 183 Times in 101 Posts
how about just getting her to pay rent??
Im assuming that she does her own laundry? cuz if not, its pretty messed up.

Id just tell her straight up to stop free-loading off of the family.

Could possibly change the door locks while shes out of the house and chuck her stuff on the front lawn....

OR just get your aunt to tell her that shes no longer welcomed to stay in the house.
hi-revs is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 08:37 PM   #3
Hopeless Romantic
 
jtanner_'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Surrey
Posts: 2,526
Thanked 951 Times in 223 Posts
Hm... so you mean she's been living there for 3+ years as basically a free loader? How long has it been that your cousin and his ex have been separated? Does your cousin want her gone? I don't understand how your cousin has yet to say or do anything... Speaking to your cousin should probably be your first step, but im assuming you've already done so? I say it's time to step in... especially if all of your family is against her staying...
__________________
Feedback Thread (14-0-0)

2002 Acura RSX (Sold)
1993 Mitsubishi Lancer Evo I (Sold)
2005 Mitsubishi Lancer Evo VIII (Daily Driven)
jtanner_ is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 08:42 PM   #4
Revscene.net has a homepage?!
 
woozzle's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: bby
Posts: 1,287
Thanked 33 Times in 16 Posts
is your cousin Jeffield?
woozzle is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 10-26-2009, 08:43 PM   #5
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
BallPeenHammer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: vancouver
Posts: 888
Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
Sounds like EVERYONE in the family doesn't have a backbone. Not just your cousin.

You included.

You're not his friend, his pal, his whatever. You're his FAMILY.

Tell your cousin to dig down deep. VERY deep, and dig up his balls 'cuz he's got trash to throw out.

You need to find out when and where you've lost yours, grow a sac, and put them back in.


Then kick her out. straight up. There shouldn't even be a discussion on that.
She's not under contract or paying rent, and the situation's awkward as hell for your cousin I bet.

You can try to be diplomatic but I would't even. She's got her own fucking home to go to. Ya'll should just Boondock Saints her ass back to Surrey or Langley or whatever backwater hick ass town she came from.

If she don't live there she sure sounds like she was.

Just make her leave and if she doesn't, calling the police and getting a restraining order always does wonders.

It's my #1 weapon against crazy chicks. I'm sure she classifieds under that.
__________________
FS: 2 10" INFINITY SUBS IN BOX W/ PHOENIX GOLD XENON 1200.1 AMP, 1.5 FARAD CAPACITOR - 9/10

FS: CAVI/SUNFIRE ECOTEC 2.2L OEM ENGINE PARTS
(CAMS, HEAD, VALVE COVER, BLOCK, AIR BOX, ETC ETC)

FS: OEM CAVALIER/SUNFIRE SEATS - 9/10.[/SIZE]
BallPeenHammer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 09:57 PM   #6
Need to Shave n Shower, but I CANT STOP POSTING ON RS
 
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 19,764
Thanked 6,443 Times in 1,211 Posts
your cousin owes her money or something?
talk to your cousin before doing anything to her.
asian_XL is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 10:21 PM   #7
無敵
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,316
Thanked 406 Times in 150 Posts
If she's not paying rent or anything then why are they even letting her stay there? There's no reason that should be holding them back from kicking her out. Tell her to pack her shit and GTFO or her stuff will be thrown out and change all the locks.
It's as simple as that.
So if a homeless bum just somehow started living in one of your rooms you'd just leave it be?
__________________

muteki is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 10:44 PM   #8
Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: vancouver
Posts: 202
Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
if shes ugly she'll fight you, be ready
dhawes is offline   Reply With Quote
This post FAILED by:
Old 10-26-2009, 10:54 PM   #9
Banned (BBM)
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 16,146
Thanked 627 Times in 368 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by woozzle View Post
is your cousin Jeffield?
Mugen EvOlutioN is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 11:02 PM   #10
I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
 
MR_BIGGS's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 3,530
Thanked 665 Times in 273 Posts
Tell your cousin:

MR_BIGGS is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 10-26-2009, 11:20 PM   #11
Trollollolloing RS sine 2005
 
TOPEC's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Richmond
Posts: 6,944
Thanked 2,175 Times in 630 Posts
shes probably offering ur cousin sex, thats y ur cousin hasnt kicked her out yet or isnt willing to kick her out.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by MajinHurricane View Post
I had some girl come into the busser station the other day trying to make out with every staff member and then pull down her pants and asked for someone to stick a dick in her (at least she shaved).
Quote:
Originally Posted by 1exotic View Post
Vtec doesn't kick in on Reverse.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma View Post
its like.. oh yeah oh yeah.. ohhhh yeah... OOoooOohh... why's it suddenly feel a bit better... ohhhh yeahh... ohhh...oh..fuck... it probably ripped.
TOPEC is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-26-2009, 11:57 PM   #12
WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
 
yuusha's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Surrey
Posts: 1,677
Thanked 84 Times in 41 Posts
Slap a bitch, and by that I mean your cousin 'cause he's his ex's bitch lol.

Freeloading off your family makes it your business, imo, so you can choose to be part of the solution.
__________________
Feedback
yuusha is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 10-27-2009, 11:10 AM   #13
Ubereem Mod
 
Gt-R R34's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Richmond
Posts: 3,070
Thanked 120 Times in 63 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by RX_Renesis View Post
shes probably offering ur cousin sex, thats y ur cousin hasnt kicked her out yet or isnt willing to kick her out.
+1
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture View Post
sometimes I like to use kindergarten art class scissors to cut my pubes
Gt-R R34 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 11:13 AM   #14
RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
 
Gumby's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 9,261
Thanked 2,318 Times in 872 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by RX_Renesis View Post
shes probably offering ur cousin sex, thats y ur cousin hasnt kicked her out yet or isnt willing to kick her out.
Or she has compromising pics of your cousin...
__________________
Do Not Put Aftershave on Your Balls. -604CEFIRO
Looks like I'm gonna have some hot sex again tonight...OOPS i got the 6 pack. that wont last me the night, I better go back and get the 24 pack! -Turbo E
kinda off topic but obama is a dilf - miss_crayon
Honest to fucking Christ the easiest way to get a married woman in the mood is clean the house and do the laundry.....I've been with the same girl almost 17 years, ask me how I know. - quasi
Gumby is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 02:37 PM   #15
How I Mod your mother
 
!Yaminashi's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Crayon Box
Posts: 13,671
Thanked 968 Times in 474 Posts
Kick her ass out, freeloading off of the family when not involved with anyone in the family is bullshit.

Tell her to stay with her other bf for fuck sakes
__________________
Quote:
[19-07, 16:52] bloodmack: EB did u change my avatar and title?
Quote:
[19-07, 16:54] El Bastardo: bm i have no idea what you're talking about because i don't speak gorilla
Crayon
!Yaminashi is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 10:18 PM   #16
reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
 
Mr.HappySilp's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 9,528
Thanked 1,659 Times in 843 Posts
LOL have ur parents home owner kick her out and throw all her stuff away. If she wants to come back just ingore her and threaten the call the police if she stays because it is private proverty.
Mr.HappySilp is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 10:24 PM   #17
I am Hook'd on RS
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 54
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
the house doesn't belong to your cousin i assume, so if your family wants her out it's rightfully their decision to make if they want her out or not, not your cousins. She's not paying for rent, doesn't have any respect for your family, tell her to move in with her new boyfriend.

Is she even grateful for having a free place to live, for such a long ass time too??

Don't even offer for her to pay rent, just kick her out all together.
leelu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 10:29 PM   #18
My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
 
Fafine's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: vancouver
Posts: 3,243
Thanked 1,254 Times in 394 Posts
reach back like a pimp and slap a ho

the fuck is this? shouldn't even need a discussion just kick her out LOL
Fafine is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-27-2009, 11:32 PM   #19
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
m4k4v4li's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: AB
Posts: 2,697
Thanked 218 Times in 89 Posts
r u kidding me
if i brought a girl to live with me like that and they found out she was seeing someone else they would throw all her shit out the window and tell her to gtfo

that along with my shit probably too for being such a fucking idiot. ur cousin sounds like a bitch
m4k4v4li is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-28-2009, 12:04 AM   #20
Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
 
The_AK's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Richmond
Posts: 7,965
Thanked 3,735 Times in 1,069 Posts
You fucking serious? Is this Zhangfei posting confidentially or something? I understand your cousin might be trying to be "nice" or something but how long has she been there? Doesn't matter, she shouldn't be there for any reason. The second they broke it off was the second she and her shit should have vacated the area.

Quote:
Originally Posted by min.tee View Post
Slap a bitch, and by that I mean your cousin 'cause he's his ex's bitch lol.

Freeloading off your family makes it your business, imo, so you can choose to be part of the solution.
+1

Quote:
Originally Posted by 6chr0nic4 View Post
r u kidding me
if i brought a girl to live with me like that and they found out she was seeing someone else they would throw all her shit out the window and tell her to gtfo

that along with my shit probably too for being such a fucking idiot. ur cousin sounds like a bitch
lmao
__________________
I'm so stance my roof rack got a roof rack

░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░
Current
e90 330i 6MT
Former
e46 330ci 5MT - RIP
uc1 5AT
em2 5MT
db7 5AT - RIP


Quote:
Originally Posted by toyota86 View Post
the guys over at lambo vancouver said there are 60-70 pre-orders already. don't quote me though.
The_AK is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-29-2009, 01:42 PM   #21
OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
 
LC21's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: richmond Lah!
Posts: 5,459
Thanked 472 Times in 223 Posts
updates plz
__________________
My Feedback~



BlAh~
LC21 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-30-2009, 01:00 AM   #22
Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
 
TracerFX's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Vancity
Posts: 235
Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by RX_Renesis View Post
shes probably offering ur cousin sex, thats y ur cousin hasnt kicked her out yet or isnt willing to kick her out.
Your cousin's gonna get herpes or some more serious shit coz he probably boned her when she got home from boning the new bf. fresh double dip ughh. Don't know what kind of awesome STDs that ho got from the new bf whose probably a sack-less bitch too
TracerFX is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-30-2009, 01:14 AM   #23
Hypa owned my ass at least once
 
Noir's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Japan
Posts: 6,747
Thanked 1,314 Times in 540 Posts
As bad as his situation sounds, I still would let your cousin deal with his own problem. I don't really think you should step in until your cousin asks you to.
Noir is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-30-2009, 12:54 PM   #24
What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 186
Thanked 23 Times in 13 Posts
I'd gather the 'family' to tell her to leave politely for whatever reason u all agree on.

IF she doesnt leave, then its up to ur cousin to tell her to GTFO.

OR in extreme circumstances, u need to step up, screw her, then ur cousin will kick her out fo sure. lol
Pumbaa is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-30-2009, 01:06 PM   #25
Banned (BBM)
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 16,146
Thanked 627 Times in 368 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by woozzle View Post
is your cousin Jeffield?
Mugen EvOlutioN is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 08:12 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net