REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 11-08-2009, 04:08 AM   #1
bcrdukes
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 9,052
Thanked 5,122 Times in 1,532 Posts
Same Family Name??

.


Last edited by TOS'd; 04-05-2014 at 04:26 PM.
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 04:23 AM   #2
NOOB, Not Quite a Regular!
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: vancity
Posts: 35
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
I would personally go about it, if you like them, why not, if you really are curious, try digging into their family background. You never know, it is common for people to have the same last name, there is only few that are unique and a few families have them. I once dated a girl with the same last name and didn't really think too much about it because if you were related eventually someone from the family would find out, ie. they see you or their family recognizes her
canadianaboy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 04:28 AM   #3
Certified Troll: Access Removed
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Coquitlam
Posts: 697
Thanked 143 Times in 49 Posts
I wouldn't have thought it would have been an issue at all...
BD2002 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 09:47 PM   #4
bcrdukes
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 9,052
Thanked 5,122 Times in 1,532 Posts
.

Last edited by TOS'd; 04-05-2014 at 04:26 PM.
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 09:51 PM   #5
RS controls my life!
 
ra1nn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 745
Thanked 10 Times in 10 Posts
to me, having the same last name is not really an issue either.
ra1nn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 10:39 PM   #6
Rs has made me the man i am today!
 
cctw's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Richmond
Posts: 3,258
Thanked 159 Times in 93 Posts
not an issue..same last name is pretty common..esp. chinese....just make sure you aren't blood related lol
cctw is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 11:04 PM   #7
~~
 
rien's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 403
Thanked 343 Times in 44 Posts
shouldn't be a big deal, b/c a lot of last names are really common

ie. mine > nguyen, 40% of viet population according to wikipedia
rien is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 11:06 PM   #8
G
Banned (BBM)
 
G's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: None
Posts: 2,930
Thanked 593 Times in 221 Posts
not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P...
G is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 11:12 PM   #9
MiX iT Up!
 
tiger_handheld's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: vancouver
Posts: 7,694
Thanked 1,908 Times in 771 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by TT View Post
not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P...
BINGO.

exactly what i was gonna say.
__________________

Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.


Make the effort and take the risk..

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
tiger_handheld is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 11:17 PM   #10
bcrdukes
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 9,052
Thanked 5,122 Times in 1,532 Posts
.

Last edited by TOS'd; 04-05-2014 at 04:26 PM.
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 10:22 AM   #11
RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
 
Gumby's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 9,262
Thanked 2,318 Times in 872 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by TT View Post
not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P...
Yeah I'd go with this response.

Assuming s/he's not a family member, of course. (you didn't explicitly point this out!)
__________________
Do Not Put Aftershave on Your Balls. -604CEFIRO
Looks like I'm gonna have some hot sex again tonight...OOPS i got the 6 pack. that wont last me the night, I better go back and get the 24 pack! -Turbo E
kinda off topic but obama is a dilf - miss_crayon
Honest to fucking Christ the easiest way to get a married woman in the mood is clean the house and do the laundry.....I've been with the same girl almost 17 years, ask me how I know. - quasi
Gumby is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 11:08 AM   #12
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
tonyvu's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Van.
Posts: 2,931
Thanked 1,967 Times in 290 Posts
not an issue for me, just a coincidence to like someone that has the same last name as you.
__________________
RIP JN

UNCE UNCE UNCE!

Quote:
Originally Posted by strykn View Post
Comparing A&B with deadmau5? Really? I should fucking slap you

2007 Acura TL
2005 Acura TL....RIP
2003 Honda Accord Coupe V6....RIP
tonyvu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 11:52 AM   #13
RS Veteran
 
Conan O'Brien Sex Video's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: .
Posts: 2,047
Thanked 25 Times in 19 Posts
If you're worried, do some digging into the family background like canadianaboy suggested... see if your families are from the same village.
Conan O'Brien Sex Video is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 02:05 PM   #14
14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
 
t8v6's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: richmond
Posts: 677
Thanked 280 Times in 59 Posts
as long as your date's not your long lost sister or cousin or whatever..i think it's fine
t8v6 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 05:19 PM   #15
F**K YOUR HEAD
 
ilvtofu's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: vancouver
Posts: 8,693
Thanked 7,968 Times in 1,234 Posts
No biggie, if you're chinese and expected to date someone who's chinese it's not unlikely to hit someone with the same last name. Don't worry about it, no one will think you're bro/sis/cousin/etc. if you have the same last name... unless you're one of those creepy couples that look identical...
__________________
Miata
Fiesta
Feedback

FOR SALE
Miata Shock Tower Brace
ilvtofu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 05:21 PM   #16
bcrdukes
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Edmonton
Posts: 9,052
Thanked 5,122 Times in 1,532 Posts
.

Last edited by TOS'd; 04-05-2014 at 04:26 PM.
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 05:43 PM   #17
The RS Freebie guru
 
InvisibleSoul's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: East Vancouver
Posts: 22,029
Thanked 2,489 Times in 859 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by TOS'd View Post
What are your thoughts on this whole thing. Discuss.
I think... this was asked not very long ago...

http://www.revscene.net/forums/showthread.php?t=579504
InvisibleSoul is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 08:09 PM   #18
Hacked RS to become a mod
 
SkinnyPupp's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Sunny Hong Kong
Posts: 42,025
Thanked 17,638 Times in 5,344 Posts
Who cares really? Especially for Chinese people.. There are only a few hundred Chinese surnames, for a billion people. There is going to be some overlap

My wife's sister had the same FIRST name as her BF, in Chinese. That's kind of funny, but not a big deal (since they rarely go by their Chinese names)
SkinnyPupp is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2009, 09:08 PM   #19
RS controls my life!
 
ra1nn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 745
Thanked 10 Times in 10 Posts
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/31994977

lol
ra1nn is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 11-10-2009, 11:40 AM   #20
The RS Freebie guru
 
InvisibleSoul's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: East Vancouver
Posts: 22,029
Thanked 2,489 Times in 859 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by ra1nn View Post
That's awesome.
InvisibleSoul is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2009, 11:42 AM   #21
To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
 
Grandmaster TSE's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2001
Location: 604
Posts: 16,871
Thanked 605 Times in 200 Posts
not a big deal, but just make sure they aren't distant cousins, haha
__________________
my seller rating : http://www.revscene.net/forums/showt...randmaster+TSE

member of the "Go To Jail For BoA Anytime Crew"
URA RENGE - Taijutsu Master of the Hidden Revscene Village


{o,o} ......ya rly!
/)__)
-"-"-
PSN: AznAlien
Grandmaster TSE is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2009, 12:38 PM   #22
RS controls my life!
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: vancouver
Posts: 753
Thanked 210 Times in 71 Posts
no issue.

UNLESSSSSSSSS


shes the only child? so she get someone with the same last name to retain the same family name =P
distanc3 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2009, 05:08 PM   #23
I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 559
Thanked 33 Times in 15 Posts
As long as you are ok that 5,000 years ago, your grand(to n power)-parents used to be siblings

In the end we're all distantly related. Don't think of it as incest.
JDMStyo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2009, 05:23 PM   #24
I'll be good I promise.
 
Kim Jong Un's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: North Korea
Posts: 1,927
Thanked 1,492 Times in 323 Posts
s'all good you're just humping one of you're far cousin!
Kim Jong Un is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2009, 06:32 PM   #25
The Lone Wanderator
 
Graeme S's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Burnaby
Posts: 12,089
Thanked 4,367 Times in 1,137 Posts
Whatever, in canada even first cousins are allowed to marry.
Posted via RS Mobile
Graeme S is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 06:45 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net