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Old 11-11-2009, 10:38 AM   #1
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girl i`m seeing-never get invited out

i'm dating a girl right now and i met her off the bus stop. shes japanese overseas student studying english.

whats your take on a girl if i'm seeing her and we went out for 4 dates and i have never met any of her friends and she never invites me out with her group of friends. i see on her facebook shes quiete popular always going out-halloween party, friend last day party, travelling to toronto, winnipeg pics, friends drinking party,pretty social and goes out a lot

. we still are barely knew each other, but what happens if we continue to date,and i never meet any of her friends or ever get invite out to her so called outings.

. whats your take on this. do you think she has something to hide. like shes seeing a guy friend in her group of friends or going out and at sametime meeting other guys too. as the reason why she never invites me out or ask me to come out

i just dont want to be played and stuff. i`m inexperience at my old age in dating and girls so i just want the most advice and stuff i can get.

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Old 11-11-2009, 10:54 AM   #2
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There is too many possibilities why she would do that.

Best way, is just to approach her and ask " I'll bring my friends and you can bring your friends and go ________"

If she refuses for the next few dates or as long as few months, then whatever it is, is not the point anymore. The point becomes if you want to continue the relationship this manner. I'm pretty sure it is not a good idea continue in my opinion.
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Old 11-11-2009, 10:57 AM   #3
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:01 AM   #4
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There is too many possibilities why she would do that.

Best way, is just to approach her and ask " I'll bring my friends and you can bring your friends and go ________"

If she refuses for the next few dates or as long as few months, then whatever it is, is not the point anymore. The point becomes if you want to continue the relationship this manner. I'm pretty sure it is not a good idea continue in my opinion.
what are some reasons why a girl would be like this. i`m just curious. i saw she went clubbing on halloween day, as reason she went so she can meet other guys at the clubs- and keep her options open
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:30 AM   #5
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I don't see why she would introduce you to her friends after only 4 dates.

You guys haven't told each other that you're dating each other exclusively so she has all the right to date other guys anyways. Especially only after 4 dates. I think you're asking for too much so early in the relationship.

If you guys do end up exclusively dating later on, then it might be strange if she still doesn't want to introduce you to her friends.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:44 AM   #8
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like I said previously. there is too many possibilities and for you and me to think the reason why she is doing this, you are already pussy whipped. give it more time for you to ask what you want. and most importantly know the right time to pull away.


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what are some reasons why a girl would be like this. i`m just curious. i saw she went clubbing on halloween day, as reason she went so she can meet other guys at the clubs- and keep her options open
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:55 AM   #9
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its been 4 dates man

you tryin to wife that shit in 4 dates?
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Old 11-11-2009, 12:52 PM   #11
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Why does it always have to be 'Japanese/Korean/Some Other Asian from overseas studying English' for you?
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has she seen you drunk? probably doesnt know if you can handle your liquor and is worried you might embarrass her. or that you'd embarrass her in a number of other ways. she doesnt want to be seen as tied to you before she knows that you can handle the roll.
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I think a few more dates might be needed
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Yea take your time see where this goes. Some people will invite you out right away.... some people want to wait a bit to make sure things are going in some kind of direction. Your dating at least, so that's a good sign.
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It's already been said but it's only four dates. I just met my best friends (best man at my wedding) girlfriend of 3 months for the first time yesterday. Go with the flow if it progresses it will happen.
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Old 11-11-2009, 08:06 PM   #16
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why do you type your apostrophes like " ` " ..

anyways: 4 dates..?! too soon.. and has she met any of YOUR friends? it's still early and you're probably still in test run.
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^just did, haha.

Im suprised this guy got serious responses to this post.
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lol it's only been 4 dates and you're only seeing eachother. Don't need to worry about this until you guys are officially in a relationship and it's been a while.
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4 dates and you have expectations already? You guys arent even a couple yet. She doesnt have to introduce you to shit....
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