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DanHibiki 12-15-2009 12:05 AM

My friend's went behind my back
 
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$_$ 12-15-2009 12:12 AM

you got fucked hard. those are not friends. if their going to bitch out like this then theres no point even getting it back..

bing 12-15-2009 01:58 AM

Bobby should have asked you if it was OK first since it is your money.
Donny clearly didn't have the balls to ask you himself.
Will was probably trying to be helpful. only heard one side of the story and went with it. definitely backfired on his ass lol.

I don't know the full story, but if they were your close friends I think you guys can work out a solution.

asian_XL 12-15-2009 03:37 AM

ohhh....I was expecting some gay story to share

Dinan3 12-15-2009 08:13 AM

I would have used the 5 minutes to call Donny instead of making this post. Call him to resolve the situation at hand.

hotjoint 12-15-2009 08:25 AM

I expected something else but yeah I would be pissed

DanHibiki 12-15-2009 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dinan3 (Post 6728751)
I would have used the 5 minutes to call Donny instead of making this post. Call him to resolve the situation at hand.

I did called them. They didn't pick up.


The reason I made the post was I told a couple of of my friends who didn't quite see it my way. So I was wondering if I was overreacting or whatever.

!Yaminashi 12-15-2009 10:07 AM

Sounds like there might have been a bit of miscommunication, or maybe donny told bob and will some bullshit to get your money
If Will and Donny wont answer the phone ask Bob to get your money back. He was the one that gave it away in the first place..

If Bob's willing to fuck you over you cause HE gave away YOUR money without tell you, he's not a good friend at all.
Did Bob even apologize for not asking?

Mr.HappySilp 12-15-2009 10:19 AM

Go to Donny's house and demand your money back. If he doesn't call the police everyother day at 3am saying you suspoect there is a crime/ drug factory going on in Donny's house till he pays you.

Greenstoner 12-15-2009 10:25 AM

its your own loses dude.. you got jew by ur friends

Orion 12-15-2009 10:43 AM

you're overreacting but don't undertake the situation either... i mean if they can do this once they can do it again...

don't whine though... go to them and tell them... "i know this happened and would appreciate it if i wasn't left out of the loop next time. If there was a cost to the newsgroup account just give me a heads up next time I'll be glad to pay you in person. "

DanHibiki 12-15-2009 11:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orion (Post 6728851)
you're overreacting but don't undertake the situation either... i mean if they can do this once they can do it again...

don't whine though... go to them and tell them... "i know this happened and would appreciate it if i wasn't left out of the loop next time. If there was a cost to the newsgroup account just give me a heads up next time I'll be glad to pay you in person. "

Ya I'm trying to contact them to hear the story. I think Donny is out of town cause there's no ringtone when I call. Unless he changed his #. Will hasn't picked up the times I tried so far.

Looking at it from their perspective. I think Donny is too scared to ask me directly so he pressures Will to do it. I'm guessing Will doesn't want to ask me something like that and so he went to Bob for it. I've been good friends with Will and Bob for a while and I don't think they would purposely try to do something to fuck me over like this. If anything, it's probably more of their own stupidity. But still, I expected more from them. Wouldn't you?

ienhz 12-15-2009 11:41 AM

Your buddy ripped you on the newsgroup stuff too. $50 can get you 2 months of unlimited bandwidth on the most expensive newsgroup provider.

Orion 12-15-2009 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jonogunn8 (Post 6728893)
Ya I'm trying to contact them to hear the story. I think Donny is out of town cause there's no ringtone when I call. Unless he changed his #. Will hasn't picked up the times I tried so far.

Looking at it from their perspective. I think Donny is too scared to ask me directly so he pressures Will to do it. I'm guessing Will doesn't want to ask me something like that and so he went to Bob for it. I've been good friends with Will and Bob for a while and I don't think they would purposely try to do something to fuck me over like this. If anything, it's probably more of their own stupidity. But still, I expected more from them. Wouldn't you?

you should... but then again guys will always be guys... sometime just random...

if you don't really mind the whole thing, don't even ask them for their story... they might think you're interrogating them

Lil Bastrd 12-15-2009 01:44 PM

You need to get over it. How long did you wait before you asked for the money? Being as it wasn't that important to you, your friend obviously had the same view on it. So Donny acted like a child and involved people who weren't involved, but he was obviously upset (you said so yourself) So now your even. Yes they were childish, but now you know how they handle situations. Don't put yourself in these situations with them. make everything clear, black and white. If they offer you to use something again, ask how much it's costing them and cover your end. You learned a lesson, now get over it.

freakshow 12-15-2009 02:38 PM

Until you get a chance to talk to all parties involved, I'd say you're overreacting.

Sodium 12-15-2009 03:50 PM

Sounds like the main thing you're choked about is Donny charging you for that account when he said you could use it. Other people didn't know about this and they just went with it by what Donny said.

So, call up Donny and tell him he should have just talked to you if he wanted you to pay.

Shead 12-15-2009 06:15 PM

i say, fuck the money and your old friends. thats your cue to get new ones, obviously they're all no good peice of shits.

Culture_Vulture 12-15-2009 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orion (Post 6728851)
you're overreacting but don't undertake the situation either... i mean if they can do this once they can do it again...

don't whine though... go to them and tell them... "i know this happened and would appreciate it if i wasn't left out of the loop next time. If there was a cost to the newsgroup account just give me a heads up next time I'll be glad to pay you in person. "

This is what I have in mind as well.
It's understandable that you may feel cheated since you've known Bob and Will quite well, but shit always happens and you'd be better off resolving it than to jump to conclusions.

Culture_Vulture 12-15-2009 06:36 PM

As a side note though, Donny sounds like a real jerk off if all the facts from your story are in place.

sweetiee 12-15-2009 10:09 PM

such a confusing story... buh i guess Donny is a jerk, don't be friends with him.

juicyjum 12-16-2009 06:19 PM

kinda confusing. sounds like donny isnt worth being friends over.. ur probably not going to get ur money back from him either so forget the guy

if the other 2 are old friends... what's 70 dollars vs a friendship. just talk to them and sort it out.

azzurro32 12-16-2009 07:16 PM

There's you and bob. Then there's you and Donny. Will is in the middle. Keek him out of the equation for now. IMO Bob owes you your 150 (since when is it ok to handle someone elses finances on their behalf), and Donny should repay back Bob and collect from you personally - which you should tell him to fuck off.
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dasuperstar 12-16-2009 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by T.H.C (Post 6728589)
you got fucked hard. those are not friends. if their going to bitch out like this then theres no point even getting it back..


They are not friends bro....the way they did on you is terrible T_T


I feel bad on you.....

kangel 12-16-2009 09:15 PM

its only 80 and btw donny a bitch


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