Why does it bother you? Wow i am shocked there are girls out there who have a problem with their men watching porn. Its a normal occurance and who cares. At least they are not out Fucking other girls
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lol what the fuck. I cant stand girls like that.

Are your friends asian by any chance? Don't mean to bring race into this but they sound like they've had a very asian control freaky mindset imprinted onto them. A very distrusting attitude, eg: you gotta watch your man or hes gona cheat, gotta keep a leash on him etc.

Don't worry about your crazy friends. You're more mentally evolved and you have it perfect. A relationship is all about trust. trust. trust. You and your SO are supposed to be enjoying each others company, hows that possible if you're trying to control him and creep on what hes doing every second of every day. I say you should just enjoy having a healthy, relatively stress free relationship while you watch theirs ultimately burn to the ground because no upstanding guy in their right mind would stay in a relationship with control freaks like that.


crib notes: Your friends are angry repressed bitches. You're an awesome gf.

sex or no sex .. all guys watch porn

honestly we need more women who think like you girls and anyone who chooses porn over their gf is retarded

It depends I guess on the background, etical background, regilon believe..........

is this true?? you learn something new everyday.

does this actually happen? your hand over ur gf?

No guy would or at least I would think


An ex of mine got mad that I was watching porn cause I was looking at other girls in a sexual way so I managed to convince her the only remedy would be for us to make pron haha best way to go guys

^ it does happen, and that's when it becomes a problem.

:lol

Oh hell yes, the girl I dated in HS was unreasonably crazy. My current gf is really understanding and not crazy at all. So much more respect for her, and so much more comfortable being with her.

Exactly. I'm a guy, I watch porn, that's pretty much a given. But when I'm back home and get to be with the g/f, fuck forget it, I'd much rather be having sexy time with her.

using this on the next gf

I am just trying to make an arguement. I agree that girls should be understanding about what is human nature with guys, but isn't a bit over the top to say that all girls who don't like porn are 'fucked'?

There are even girls out there who thinks that sex is only supposed to be for the guy to feel good. If I was an understanding boyfriend, the least I can do is to educate my girlfriend about what is the purpose and meaning of 'making love'. What's the point of whining and complaing that my girlfriend just isn't horny/slutty enough and then go cheat on her the next day?

a guy who watches porn can be the difference between 'happy time' and 'pregnancy'

LOL i like the topic title. But anyways, I think you are completely normal towards this subject but your friends are completely normal towards this subject as well. Everyone has their own opinions about certain things, if they don't let their man watch porn, that's their way of dealing with it, and if you do, then that's yours. Good for you, though...lol for letting your man watch porn :$

Lol, I don't really care if my bf watches porn..I think its normal..they should be worried when their guys aren't watching it..LOL
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if my girlfriend doesn't let me watch porn, I'd still do it.
And no, I won't feel guilty about it at all. In fact, I'd enjoy it even more.

a girl that trys to control me, is a girl that i kick to the curb. op, you are awesome, its comforting to know that there are some girls in this world that arent complete fucking head cases.

This was a problem with one of my ex's...his excuse was he couldnt keep up with my demands....but then i found out he was cheating... so that kinda confused me..

Usually when Im in a relationship I like to have the space I had and the same freedom I had when I was single..the minute someone tries to control what I watch or what I want..thats when we have a problem...I do find it interesting how some girls get so clingy and all of a sudden they're whole life revolves around some guy they are currently dating...

The gf's I was having this discussion with were persian..so I do understand where they are coming from being persian myself..but maybe im just a little more "whitewashed"...LOL =)

:werd:

Lol this reminds me of the black guy form The Bit Hit who rather jerk off than fuck girls since he's been "fucking since he was 10".

It doesn't bother me if the guy that I'm with watches porn. It's totally normal! And doesn't bother me.
specialy like during your lady time, and your just not in the mood for ANYTHING, that would just be harsh to make him wait 3 or 4 days or what ever with out anything, so he can just go get his jollys off watching porn instead of bugging you.
But if he would rather watch porn then bump uglys,do the nasty, make love what ever you wanna call it with you, then either your horrible in bed, or he's got a problem ha ha
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Well u are who u are.. and if that means easy-goin then thats just you. Besides u want someone to love u for who u are and not someone who tries to change aspects of who u are to conform to their "ideal likings". Its like buying a bmw and changing the parts to a civic.. kinda defeats the purpose of the initial purchase.

Your mother's perspective is based on a culture that originates from a different country. Its up to u to find the balance between ur ethnic roots and westernized way of life here.


LOL so true. I duno any guy that doesn't watch porn.. n ones that dont r either lying or just plain weird (u gotta watch out for those guys, they're the types that shoot up schools lol)... BESIDES WHERE DO U GIRLS THINK WE LEARNED ALL OUT MOVES FROM!!! ... cuz lord knows some of u girls out there have no freakin idea wut ur doing.. or just lay there while we're the ones puttin in all the work lol

^ So true. When you've got a gf, idk if it's just me, but you're looking out for moves and stuff to try with her, and it's better if you're watching somn you could see the two of you doing together.

Bonus question for the ladies: Does it matter where he's getting/watching it? ie: Just looking up streaming sites vs subscriptions, collections on DVD or his harddrive, etc?

yes, all girls are fucked... and you.

fucked either way, you can't win. haha!

mmm well i don't think it really matters that much...unless he's those freaky guys that subscribes to every single porn site around LOL i think i'll be more comfortable with harddrive..idk why but yea

i agree with OP

i mean wouldnt girls rather have her bf beat the ham all day than go out and canoodle with some other chick.

That just Means he's BALL'IN! (If he can afford to subscribe to every single website). :lol And No a lot of guys(espeically on RS) are too cheap to buy porn. LOL

If the girl is that bad in bed or that unattractive that he'd rather beat off then have sex, well, I'd say the girl is the problem, not the porn. :haha: