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Old 01-31-2010, 10:17 AM   #26
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my gf doesn't seem to mind me watching porn, but i could go either way on it. if it bothered her i'd stop. but only if she'll put out more in return. =D

it's weird when she lets me know she's been watching porn herself though.. i'd rather not have known haha
Why does it bother you? Wow i am shocked there are girls out there who have a problem with their men watching porn. Its a normal occurance and who cares. At least they are not out Fucking other girls
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Old 01-31-2010, 12:33 PM   #27
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lol what the fuck. I cant stand girls like that.

Are your friends asian by any chance? Don't mean to bring race into this but they sound like they've had a very asian control freaky mindset imprinted onto them. A very distrusting attitude, eg: you gotta watch your man or hes gona cheat, gotta keep a leash on him etc.

Don't worry about your crazy friends. You're more mentally evolved and you have it perfect. A relationship is all about trust. trust. trust. You and your SO are supposed to be enjoying each others company, hows that possible if you're trying to control him and creep on what hes doing every second of every day. I say you should just enjoy having a healthy, relatively stress free relationship while you watch theirs ultimately burn to the ground because no upstanding guy in their right mind would stay in a relationship with control freaks like that.


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Old 01-31-2010, 01:20 PM   #28
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sex or no sex .. all guys watch porn

honestly we need more women who think like you girls and anyone who chooses porn over their gf is retarded
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Old 01-31-2010, 01:34 PM   #30
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If any girl says she doesnt watch it when shes home alone shes a fucking liar....
is this true?? you learn something new everyday.
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Old 01-31-2010, 01:35 PM   #31
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i think it's only a problem if the guy chooses to watch porn over having real sex with his gf.
does this actually happen? your hand over ur gf?

No guy would or at least I would think


An ex of mine got mad that I was watching porn cause I was looking at other girls in a sexual way so I managed to convince her the only remedy would be for us to make pron haha best way to go guys
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^ it does happen, and that's when it becomes a problem.

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Oh hell yes, the girl I dated in HS was unreasonably crazy. My current gf is really understanding and not crazy at all. So much more respect for her, and so much more comfortable being with her.

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i think it's only a problem if the guy chooses to watch porn over having real sex with his gf.
Exactly. I'm a guy, I watch porn, that's pretty much a given. But when I'm back home and get to be with the g/f, fuck forget it, I'd much rather be having sexy time with her.
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Old 01-31-2010, 02:05 PM   #33
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An ex of mine got mad that I was watching porn cause I was looking at other girls in a sexual way so I managed to convince her the only remedy would be for us to make pron haha best way to go guys


using this on the next gf
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I think I've seen your picture in the picture thread and I'd love to take you home for all your tricks(even though you probably don't have many since you sound like you don't watch porn), and post the video on revscene the next day.

What does that have to do with the like/dislike of porn?
I am just trying to make an arguement. I agree that girls should be understanding about what is human nature with guys, but isn't a bit over the top to say that all girls who don't like porn are 'fucked'?

There are even girls out there who thinks that sex is only supposed to be for the guy to feel good. If I was an understanding boyfriend, the least I can do is to educate my girlfriend about what is the purpose and meaning of 'making love'. What's the point of whining and complaing that my girlfriend just isn't horny/slutty enough and then go cheat on her the next day?
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Old 01-31-2010, 03:11 PM   #35
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a guy who watches porn can be the difference between 'happy time' and 'pregnancy'
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LOL i like the topic title. But anyways, I think you are completely normal towards this subject but your friends are completely normal towards this subject as well. Everyone has their own opinions about certain things, if they don't let their man watch porn, that's their way of dealing with it, and if you do, then that's yours. Good for you, though...lol for letting your man watch porn :$
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Lol, I don't really care if my bf watches porn..I think its normal..they should be worried when their guys aren't watching it..LOL
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Old 01-31-2010, 05:56 PM   #38
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if my girlfriend doesn't let me watch porn, I'd still do it.
And no, I won't feel guilty about it at all. In fact, I'd enjoy it even more.
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:04 PM   #39
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a girl that trys to control me, is a girl that i kick to the curb. op, you are awesome, its comforting to know that there are some girls in this world that arent complete fucking head cases.
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:14 PM   #40
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i think it's only a problem if the guy chooses to watch porn over having real sex with his gf.
This was a problem with one of my ex's...his excuse was he couldnt keep up with my demands....but then i found out he was cheating... so that kinda confused me..

Usually when Im in a relationship I like to have the space I had and the same freedom I had when I was single..the minute someone tries to control what I watch or what I want..thats when we have a problem...I do find it interesting how some girls get so clingy and all of a sudden they're whole life revolves around some guy they are currently dating...

The gf's I was having this discussion with were persian..so I do understand where they are coming from being persian myself..but maybe im just a little more "whitewashed"...LOL =)
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i think it's only a problem if the guy chooses to watch porn over having real sex with his gf.
Lol this reminds me of the black guy form The Bit Hit who rather jerk off than fuck girls since he's been "fucking since he was 10".
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It doesn't bother me if the guy that I'm with watches porn. It's totally normal! And doesn't bother me.
specialy like during your lady time, and your just not in the mood for ANYTHING, that would just be harsh to make him wait 3 or 4 days or what ever with out anything, so he can just go get his jollys off watching porn instead of bugging you.
But if he would rather watch porn then bump uglys,do the nasty, make love what ever you wanna call it with you, then either your horrible in bed, or he's got a problem ha ha
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...So it turns out im a nut case who doesnt know how to control my man.. I dont want to control my man..if I wanted to, id get a dog... So this morning I was talking to my mom about the subject, and yes shes easy going and open to talk about anything, but she thinks I need to reel it in a bit and not be the way I am. She said that a man will have no respect for me, and wont take me seriously in a relationship when I am so easy going. She mentioned things about how men like a woman to be in control and put her foot down sometimes... Now its making me wonder if Im the crazy one here...Am I wrong for being so easy going..I mean its just porn..
If any girl says she doesnt watch it when shes home alone shes a fucking liar....

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Well u are who u are.. and if that means easy-goin then thats just you. Besides u want someone to love u for who u are and not someone who tries to change aspects of who u are to conform to their "ideal likings". Its like buying a bmw and changing the parts to a civic.. kinda defeats the purpose of the initial purchase.

Your mother's perspective is based on a culture that originates from a different country. Its up to u to find the balance between ur ethnic roots and westernized way of life here.


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LOL so true. I duno any guy that doesn't watch porn.. n ones that dont r either lying or just plain weird (u gotta watch out for those guys, they're the types that shoot up schools lol)... BESIDES WHERE DO U GIRLS THINK WE LEARNED ALL OUT MOVES FROM!!! ... cuz lord knows some of u girls out there have no freakin idea wut ur doing.. or just lay there while we're the ones puttin in all the work lol
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^ So true. When you've got a gf, idk if it's just me, but you're looking out for moves and stuff to try with her, and it's better if you're watching somn you could see the two of you doing together.

Bonus question for the ladies: Does it matter where he's getting/watching it? ie: Just looking up streaming sites vs subscriptions, collections on DVD or his harddrive, etc?
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^ So true. When you've got a gf, idk if it's just me, but you're looking out for moves and stuff to try with her, and it's better if you're watching somn you could see the two of you doing together.

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mmm well i don't think it really matters that much...unless he's those freaky guys that subscribes to every single porn site around LOL i think i'll be more comfortable with harddrive..idk why but yea
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i mean wouldnt girls rather have her bf beat the ham all day than go out and canoodle with some other chick.
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mmm well i don't think it really matters that much...unless he's those freaky guys that subscribes to every single porn site around LOL i think i'll be more comfortable with harddrive..idk why but yea
That just Means he's BALL'IN! (If he can afford to subscribe to every single website). And No a lot of guys(espeically on RS) are too cheap to buy porn. LOL
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i think it's only a problem if the guy chooses to watch porn over having real sex with his gf.
If the girl is that bad in bed or that unattractive that he'd rather beat off then have sex, well, I'd say the girl is the problem, not the porn.
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