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!Yaminashi 02-26-2010 12:40 PM

You need to calm down

sonick 02-26-2010 12:49 PM

"No, that's not herpes"

sonick 02-26-2010 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by coupeziRL (Post 6812706)
you stand behind her, and piitb. trust is then accomplished.

FTFY

The7even 02-26-2010 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coach Hines (Post 6833883)
You need to calm down

True, true.

azzurro32 02-26-2010 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hsh4 (Post 6814629)
just put it back on her and make her apologize to you. ask her why she has to be such a b*tch about it...etc

+1

A true man knows how to flip any argument in his favor. Pretend to cry if you have to. Tell her you are no good for her and won't speak to her again. A few days will go by and she will come to you.

Be a man.
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SkinnyPupp 02-26-2010 05:18 PM

Either:

1) The lie is not so 'little' (which may be why he is unwilling to admit to us what it is)
2) She is just being a manipulative bitch (and it's working)

ToneCapone 02-26-2010 07:00 PM

she may be either:
totally worth it
totally crazy
or
totally too young

...but if your persistant on this one, then this is what you should do:

Try a seduction method.
go to chapters,
buy "the art of seduction by robert greene"
read the book (while you doing this it will give her time to chillax),
then seduce the shit out of her
good luck.

BoneThug 02-26-2010 09:40 PM

stop caring. she'll get over it or she wont.

Preemo 02-26-2010 10:41 PM

OMG. If she's like this to you as a "friend", imagine the shit when (or if) you guys are together!

Tell tales signs of a (sorry to say) cry baby bitch! Best advise is to ignore and live your life like a man. And to whoever mentioned "crying" as a tactic, piss off. WTF?

There's a bazillion fish in the sea. Don't waste your life on one. Especially if she doesn't want to talk to you.

Preemo 02-26-2010 10:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SkinnyPupp (Post 6834294)
Either:

1) The lie is not so 'little' (which may be why he is unwilling to admit to us what it is)
2) She is just being a manipulative bitch (and it's working)

+1

Aither 02-27-2010 02:13 AM

If you want to get into her pants, you need to ninja your way in. First of all, this means not groveling. Do you think Tyler Durden would grovel because some girl got upset that he told a little lie? Do you think Leonidas took that kind of crap from a woman?

First off, you need to be like a rock. If you need help visualizing, think the iceberg that sank the Titanic. Giant ships need to bounce off you because you're so solid.

As you've no doubt learned, trying to change her mind is just plain stupid. It doesn't work. You need to change her emotions.

1) Freeze her out
Stop talking to her for a while. Get some hobbies. I recommend knitting yourself some red mittens. Be busy.

2) Make her jealous
Hang out with her best friends. Make them laugh. Make them think that you're the best thing since sliced bread. Be sauver than James Bond. Word will get back to her.

3) Associations
Remember Pavlov's dog? It's all about conditioning. Slowly reintroduce her back into your life, but in small doses. Reward behaviour that you like and punish behaviour that you don't like. Make her laugh, but only if she's earned it. If she's being stupid, refer to step 1.

4) Backup
Remember how you made her best friends think you were the best thing since sliced bread? Win.

underscore 02-27-2010 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aither (Post 6835079)
1) Freeze her out
Stop talking to her for a while. Get some hobbies. I recommend knitting yourself some red mittens. Be busy.

:haha:

yuusha 02-27-2010 12:16 PM

solution: care less about her. Wether it's about her feelings or her feelings towards you specifically, you're caring too much about a girl whose priority is herself and her own emotions. You don't want to try to please someone like that; you'll only drive yourself mad.
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dasuperstar 02-27-2010 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lubbyda (Post 6812189)
How do I make it up to a complicated female friend for lying to her about something. She feels that "lie once, lie again" approach (essentially broke a promise. However, I only lied once and it was to spare her feelings. Regardless I lied and she's really hurt and I don't know how to make it up to her because she doesn't really want to speak to me. I'm not a bad person, and I do know the only way to get trust back (if its possible) is to show the other person that I can
be trusted. Suggestions?

I did the "I'm sorry." But its not enough because she says I say it all the time.

Need some serious help thanks.
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Bro I've been in this situation. Only time could tell. It wont be like just a click away. If you love here be patient and wait. The worst scenario and it would be a pain in a** if she will be paranoid and in secured.

Mine took me 3 years till get her trust back but still its not 100% as it was before. I learned my lesson but its to late.:cry:


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