jesus christ why is it so important that gf has to come.

this uncle of mine has always measured up his son to myself as long as I can remember. I think having his son attend my wedding alone would be +1 for my dad, now he cant have that happen :rolleyes:

It's only important to people who can't get their priorities straight.

Just wondering did the uncle reply?

nope he didnt... when i replied i cc'd my cousin, and he was the one who replied.

I dont know know what happened between them, but from my cousins response my Uncle said things on behalf of my cousin which he never said...

UPDATE
 

I just found out that this cousin might have gotten engaged recently.. I'm half expecting another email...

UPDATE
 

Got the RSVP back from my uncle and he declined. I dont think I've seen the fiance that happy before from a decline.

its better this way, I didnt really want him there, but I felt it was wrong not to invite him...

I've been following this thread for a bit and it looks like your going to have a great time now!

Remember: happy wife, happy life!

Now if anyone else in the family has issue with him not being there, you can tell them it was his own choice not to attend. Win-win! :thumbsup:

Haha good to hear. :)

thanks! its a big relief!

haha so weird, someone just said that to me in the office this morning... its true though!

That's true, I think I handled the situation well

I've been following this thread as well, and even though I don't know you, I'm very happy for you...haha

Enjoy your wedding and congrats!

haha thank you!

You can consider this happy ending a wedding gift from all of us at RS.

That's all you're getting, too, since we're a bunch of cheap bastards!

UPDATE
 

The cousin of mine just got engaged and married within 6 months. They had a small wedding of around 30 ppl, I think mainly family, and my parents and I didnt get an invite even though my other uncles/aunts/cousins did.

Kind of sucks that it turned out that way, but I have no regrets.

good thing you had no second thoughts about your first decision ;)

Keep us update on that front! Didn't you say this is the first girl your cousin has gone out with? There could be some potential drama there, in the future!

ask your uncle how much money he was planning to send you, multiple that amount by 3 and send it back to him; so he can take his son and son's girlfriend out for dinner to celebrate your wedding somewhere else ...