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Old 05-28-2010, 12:42 AM   #1
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[Confidential] Trying to move on

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Ive recently split with a long term girlfriend and I am trying to move on with my life. Its only been a couple months, Ive been doing the usual trying to get my mind off of her, but im having one problem.

Different girls have tried to get me to sleep with them, but I cant push myself to do it. Ya, I know its a bitch move.. but in all honesty I know its because im not over the relationship
100% yet. These girls arent ugly either! Theyre all good looking, but something inside is stopping me or making not feelin' it.

Any suggestions on what to do? Its been a rough ride. Trying to move on has been more difficult than I thought.

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if you dont want to sleep with them, hook a brother up
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I think this has been mentioned many times before in other threads similar to this, but the things you can do is to preoccupy yourself with going out with friends, joining recreational sports leagues, working out, and so on...

oh, and time.
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Old 05-29-2010, 02:07 AM   #5
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Sleeping with them will help you move on.
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I am in the same boat as you buddy. Thing with me is, i know that once i do sleep with another woman it will DEFINATELY be over and no turning back with the ex.

hope this time heals all wounds stuff works for the both of us :P
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You gotta decide if youre still trying to get back with her and if theres even a chance for that. If you are trying to get back with her and theres still a chance, then give the breakup some time and see if yall can work something out. If not, just say fuck it, sleep with whoever you want, and move on.

As said above, Im thinking the reason you dont want to hookup with other girls yet is because you know if you do, it'll be the end for sure. And the fact that she'll hookup with another guy too.
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please redirect all women you dont want to sleep with towards me

you can do all other shit
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Everybody on RS has hot girls who r dying to sleep with them. I feel ur pain buddy.
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Old 05-30-2010, 01:33 AM   #11
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give those girls my number, i'll pm you haha
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lol'd after reading the op and reading that response.

but, seriously this topic is pretty much bumped up every 2 weeks by someone new.
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I ain't playing when I say you all have to act like grown folks in these threads. If you ain't got nothing proper to say, you don't say it.
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I ain't playing when I say you all have to act like grown folks in these threads. If you ain't got nothing proper to say, you don't say it.
Yeah but you gotta let people filter out what's bullshit and what's genuine. If the guy's gonna ask for some help, at least be upfront about it and leave the ego aside.

Do you really expect people to believe the following:
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Either the guy is full of himself, or is convincing himself that he's that big of a player as a coping device in his breakup and his inadequacy that led to his breakup.
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if you don't like what someone's posted just be a grownup and ignore them. Don't post rude or immature comments or you will receive points and/or depending on your track record a ban from this forum altogether.

Just because some douche may come on and try to front like he's got it all doesn't mean you have to start flaming him, just ignore it and don't post..

I know it's a lot to expect, but in here we expect maturity.
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If all these different girls have tried to get you to sleep with them, you're better off not going for it - who knows how dirty they are...

to be on the safe side and gradually get back in the game, get them to give you a BJ
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that's why man invented the condom, best invention ever.

If all these different girls have tried to get you to sleep with them, you're better off going for it - who knows how well they ride...

good sex could make you forget about your ex, i mean marriage probably wasn't going to happen. so better move on and not miss the boat.

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he knows what's up.

you can sit and mope around, be completely nostalgic and reminiscence about her and your past. in hopes that time helps heal the wound, or you could pick up your phone and dial a number and get in bed with another girl.
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If all these different girls have tried to get you to sleep with them, you're better off going for it - who knows how well they ride...

good sex could make you forget about your ex, i mean marriage probably wasn't going to happen. so better move on and not miss the boat.
If, the guy actually gets any at all.

Seriously, break ups hurt because of the sudden and immediate loneliness. But if hot chicks are dying to sleep with you and help fill that void a little, I don't see how that won't negate some of the pain. It's not a solution, but it helps.

I've been there before when I got dumped for cheating. It's one thing to say, I'd been sleeping around after being dumped and the sex feels empty, unsatisfying, or just-not-the-same. But it's another claiming, I have so many hot chicks that want to fuck me, but I didn't want to.



If the guy wants help, he should kill the BS because his problems don't make sense; If his claims have any shred of truth, he's actually a huge step ahead of many guys that get dumped daily.
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