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08-21-2010, 11:39 PM
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| [Confidential] Potential Career Threatening Mistake
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I made the mistake of hooking up with someone without really knowing who they were. I don't know if you guys are familiar with the movie 'Old School' with Luke Wilson and Will Ferrell. But I did what Luke's Character did with Elisha Cuthbert's character. The girl lead me to believe she was a sophomore at University, and it turns out she's still in highschool. I found out who she was when she added me on facebook, then I started shitting bricks. Her dad came to me and asked me how I knew her, looking concerned. I am ten years her senior. I simply said we met on the weekend at a mutual friends place. I have no clue what she had told him. I am hoping to god that she is more scared of him finding out than I am. But, she still wants to hang out with me. I will not and do not want to see her again, but my problem is, if I don't, I am worried she will either spill what happened or make something up to make me look like a sicko (which I actually feel like right now). I feel like quitting my job and moving towns, but that seems drastic. What would you guys do?
Thanks in advance.
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08-22-2010, 12:07 AM
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Woah, buddy you're fucked.
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08-22-2010, 01:48 AM
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08-22-2010, 03:19 AM
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Act like a loser and once she realizes she's not interested she'll leave on her own. Done.
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08-22-2010, 03:37 AM
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wait, shes young enough for her dad to check her facebook? which leads me to think shes under 16...
unless she's very developed + you were impaired, how the hell can she pass for a 20 year old?
as someone said, under 16 you are better off not let go crazy or else you'll be fucked for so many things. career is not your first or most important issue, you should be more worried about being sued and getting a criminal record. , but if shes over 16 who cares, just remember to watch out next time.
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08-22-2010, 03:39 AM
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#6 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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08-22-2010, 07:01 AM
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#7 | | Ricer Mod
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Depends how good it was.....
You said your 10 years her senior so let us know her age. If anything over 16 you can brag about hitting it to your friends and not worry about anything. If under 16 you can brag about it to your friends in a couple years when you get out of jail.
Actually if she is physically developed and indeed DID tell you she is older than she actually is you have nothing to worry about IN COURT. Her dad and your life and job are a different matter. Assuming you weren't her first just tell her you didn't appreciate being mislead and that you can't morally continue a relationship with her.
Berz out.
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08-22-2010, 09:16 AM
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#8 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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08-22-2010, 09:31 AM
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what you need is something that will prevent her from telling her dad about it. I would get together with her again and take some naked pics of her, so she wont think twice about spilling the beans. problem solved.
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08-22-2010, 09:41 AM
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#10 | | Ricer Mod
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Originally Posted by mikeivb what you need is something that will prevent her from telling her dad about it. I would get together with her again and take some naked pics of her, so she wont think twice about spilling the beans. problem solved. |
Awesome idea!!! That we he can add child pornography to his list of charges AND be able to sell the photo's to pay for the lawyer!!!
Berz out.
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08-22-2010, 09:41 AM
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#11 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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|  way to think with your other head buddy, self control fail
I have never replied in this type of thread but I really wanna know if you really feel bad for doing the deed, or do you feel bad because you got caught (err, or might get caught)
the answer to this question will let the rest of us know if you're a stand up guy or douche. Last thing I wanna do is give advice to a pedo 
Old School dope movie btw
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08-22-2010, 10:51 AM
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like Berz said "just tell her you didn't appreciate being mislead and that you can't morally continue a relationship with her."
I think this is the best approach
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08-22-2010, 10:55 AM
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#13 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Make her the bad guy, and tell her she shouldn't be using her mature looks to persuade older men to do things.
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08-22-2010, 10:57 AM
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Her dad came to you looking concerned??
So he came to your house?? You have to fill that part of the story in.
Maybe she's done this before where she meets perverted old sketchy guys so her dad is stressing and is trying to address the situation.
Let's hope she not under 16....
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08-22-2010, 11:17 AM
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fuckin LG's these days are looking older and hot, I don't blame OP
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08-22-2010, 11:23 AM
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DENY DENY DENY!!! Dude this isn't just career threatening, if she really is underage, that's a criminal offense. Delete her from your facebook asap.
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08-22-2010, 12:31 PM
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you dun goofed
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08-22-2010, 01:11 PM
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#18 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by BlacknJean you dun goofed | and consequences will never be the same.
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08-22-2010, 01:48 PM
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08-22-2010, 02:10 PM
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#20 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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16 is still pretty young. and if she is under 16 make sure you have a buddy to post your bail.
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08-22-2010, 08:14 PM
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How does her dad fall into this story? There is a lot of missing pieces left out
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08-22-2010, 08:30 PM
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#22 | | MiX iT Up!
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QUICK -- buy her a prada bag!!
your wasting valuable time posting this on the interwebz!
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Make the effort and take the risk..
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08-22-2010, 08:53 PM
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Sounds like the dad is your boss, or a bigshot in the career you are in?
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08-23-2010, 03:08 AM
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#24 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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I don't see why you couldn't just be straight up with her. Let her know that you were unaware that her father is your employer and continuing any relationship puts your career in jeopardy.
She's not gonna like it but not any more so than playing games like avoiding her or being a douche to turn her off.
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08-23-2010, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Noir and consequences will never be the same. | Do you think her dad got his facebook by starting a backtrace?
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